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Nov 28, 2011 5:10 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
Rocksmith
RocksmithRocksmithLoch Sport / Gippsland, Victoria Australia8 Threads 1 Polls 1,170 Posts
trueheart1941: wow.....you dont mix your words do you rock.......



YA DAMN RITE I DON'T! (wish i had a emoticon of 'Mr T" to go with that!)

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Nov 28, 2011 5:11 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
fieldworking
fieldworkingfieldworkingHenderson, Nevada USA13 Threads 9 Polls 186 Posts
jac379: She'll feel the tension from others relating to her pregnancy. The fact that her pregnancy was a "surprise" as you mentioned before - she will feel that "surprise" whatever anyone says, however they act in support.


It was a surprise to me because I didn't know she was pregnant until she started showing. I've only talked to her a few times in the years that I have been attending the church. Just because someone is surprised doesn't mean that it is a bad thing or that I or anyone else would treat her any differently. You still don't get it...you can't say how someone will feel about any given situation because you are not them. You must be the one that would truly treat a teen mother differently. To me, it sounds like you have a comprehension problem.
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Nov 28, 2011 5:11 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
trueheart1941: ......you will if you come over here...........
in my best Scarlett O'Hara voice..." OH MY, but Ah Dew Deeklare! Ye Scoundrel. Ye Ruffian!" wow
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Nov 28, 2011 5:11 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Kaybee50: I just don't get it Jac. Why don't men like me bellowing at their windows and incessantly ringing their doorbells at 3 a.m.? Or showing up at their work with a pie? Or wearing my freshly pressed wedding dress on our first date? I just don't get it.


Well, I've never done any of those things.

I'm a devoted wifey type and despite being vegetatrian, I've made some lovely rabbit stews.

(And gerbil, guinea pig, goldfish and jack russel terrior stews. All the same recipe, really).
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Nov 28, 2011 5:12 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
Kaybee50: boggly AND tingly
....that,s his fault for standing in stinging nettles......grin grin grin
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Nov 28, 2011 5:13 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
Rocksmith
RocksmithRocksmithLoch Sport / Gippsland, Victoria Australia8 Threads 1 Polls 1,170 Posts
Kaybee50: boggly AND tingly



A man of many talents! dancing
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Nov 28, 2011 5:13 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
fieldworking: It was a surprise to me because I didn't know she was pregnant until she started showing. I've only talked to her a few times in the years that I have been attending the church. Just because someone is surprised doesn't mean that it is a bad thing or that I or anyone else would treat her any differently. You still don't get it...you can't say how someone will feel about any given situation because you are not them. You must be the one that would truly treat a teen mother differently. To me, it sounds like you have a comprehension problem.
hole huh oh...I'm diving for cover. Incoming missiles from Wales expected shortly. uh oh
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Nov 28, 2011 5:14 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
fieldworking: It was a surprise to me because I didn't know she was pregnant until she started showing. I've only talked to her a few times in the years that I have been attending the church. Just because someone is surprised doesn't mean that it is a bad thing or that I or anyone else would treat her any differently. You still don't get it...you can't say how someone will feel about any given situation because you are not them. You must be the one that would truly treat a teen mother differently. To me, it sounds like you have a comprehension problem.


I looked about 13 when I had my daughter, my daughter was 16 when she had my granddaughter.

I know because I've experienced it, not because I dish it.
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Nov 28, 2011 5:14 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
jac379: Well, I've never done any of those things.

I'm a devoted wifey type and despite being vegetatrian, I've made some lovely rabbit stews.

(And gerbil, guinea pig, goldfish and jack russel terrior stews. All the same recipe, really).
We both sound dreamy Jac. Misguided male types. m crazy crazy crazy
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Nov 28, 2011 5:16 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
Rocksmith
RocksmithRocksmithLoch Sport / Gippsland, Victoria Australia8 Threads 1 Polls 1,170 Posts
jac379: Well, I've never done any of those things.

I'm a devoted wifey type and despite being vegetatrian, I've made some lovely rabbit stews.

(And gerbil, guinea pig, goldfish and jack russel terrior stews. All the same recipe, really).



Mmmmm Rabbit stew!....... Rock hungry! flex


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Nov 28, 2011 5:17 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
friend64
friend64friend64Smithfield,NC, North Carolina USA22 Posts
hijack writingImpregnated'flirting'tear jerking .crying roll eyes
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Nov 28, 2011 5:20 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
jac379: Well, I've never done any of those things.

I'm a devoted wifey type and despite being vegetatrian, I've made some lovely rabbit stews.

(And gerbil, guinea pig, goldfish and jack russel terrior stews. All the same recipe, really).
...its a pity you dont cook puddings.........you could have joined my club.........rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 28, 2011 5:21 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Kaybee50: We both sound dreamy Jac. Misguided male types. m crazy crazy crazy


If you could just herd those sheep towards this saucepan of boiling water...
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Nov 28, 2011 5:24 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
friend64
friend64friend64Smithfield,NC, North Carolina USA22 Posts
writing Now we are cooking,and some nice English humour.Some of witch I understand and some way over my headuh oh
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Nov 28, 2011 5:24 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
trueheart1941: ...its a pity you dont cook puddings.........you could have joined my club.........


I've already been in the club...a lot of people were "surprised".

hmmm
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Nov 28, 2011 5:24 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
Rocksmith
RocksmithRocksmithLoch Sport / Gippsland, Victoria Australia8 Threads 1 Polls 1,170 Posts
trueheart1941: ...its a pity you dont cook puddings.........you could have joined my club.........



I'm off to shops..... have great night all. wave ..hug
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Nov 28, 2011 5:26 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
jac379: If you could just herd those sheep towards this saucepan of boiling water...
Did someone request a Herdin' Girly?

YEE HAW!!!

Lasso...check.
Spurs...check.
Cowgirl hat...check.
Herdin' horse...check.
Mount horse...check.
Sliding off other side of horse with spur caught in saddle...uh oh
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Nov 28, 2011 5:27 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
Rocksmith: I'm off to shops..... have great night all. ..
......oh.....blast....grin nite rock.....have a good day mate......cheers cheers cheers
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Nov 28, 2011 5:27 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
Rocksmith: I'm off to shops..... have great night all. ..
G'nite Rock. hug
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Nov 28, 2011 5:28 PM CST They all have boyfriends!!!!
fieldworking
fieldworkingfieldworkingHenderson, Nevada USA13 Threads 9 Polls 186 Posts
jac379: I looked about 13 when I had my daughter, my daughter was 16 when she had my granddaughter.

I know because I've experienced it, not because I dish it.


I'm sorry that people treated you that way but I'm not like that. And as far as I know, no one has said or done anything to make her feel anxious. I know this is going to come out wrong but I'll say it anyway. Just because you experienced it doesn't mean that she will. She may get it at school or when she is out in public, but when she comes to church...she is not treated any differently. I mean, people may offer to help her get up and do the polite thing. I mean, I live in the south (southeastern US) and we tend to be a little more polite. It's our southern hospitality. We were raised to be polite.
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