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HotrodLarrys: I agree, Many just want, and have grown up the life GET, and Not what Can I Give...
I also came with a serious attitude, and now, I still keep that Hope alive, but not after Older, or much younger, but someone about the same age group...I am seeing that it does matter, In My opinion!
Tho I have more to give than a headache...
Maybe a Migrain! and a to help it heal!
I also came with a serious attitude, and now, I still keep that Hope alive, but not after Older, or much younger, but someone about the same age group...I am seeing that it does matter, In My opinion!
Tho I have more to give than a headache...
Maybe a Migrain! and a to help it heal!
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venusenvy: Im so happy for you Wman
My fingers are crossed but neither wants to rush and we
are still going slow before any big steps
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demonfairy: I disagree,i turn down younger men all the time.I want someone with in a 10 year range ether way....i just want somebody that i find normal to live a normal drama free life 90% of the time.
you are one of a very small group of women using this site.....
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2intrigued: Sometimes WE are our own worst enemy... maybe we're afraid of getting hurt again or disappointing other people or living beneath our ideal relationship standard? Maybe we’ve been out of a relationship for too long or have gotten too comfortable in our current lifestyle. Maybe it's a distance issue or maybe even a game for some people.
perfect, thank you
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2intrigued: Sometimes WE are our own worst enemy... maybe we're afraid of getting hurt again or disappointing other people or living beneath our ideal relationship standard? Maybe we’ve been out of a relationship for too long or have gotten too comfortable in our current lifestyle. Maybe it's a distance issue or maybe even a game for some people.
Distance, hon. If I lived in Missisauga, I could get into a lot of trouble.
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bblewis: you are one of a very small group of women using this site.....
How do you know?
How many thousands of women's passwords do you have access to that you can make that statement?
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jac379: How do you know?
How many thousands of women's passwords do you have access to that you can make that statement?
How many thousands of women's passwords do you have access to that you can make that statement?
its call reading thier profiles, you should try it one day!!!!
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cytrynka: hello, i don't agree with you. All i talk to, rather want to make sure that i have everything and more, so they don't need to give nothing......
its hard to find someone because a lot of people say and do different things.....
i was kind of serious when i got on this site, not anymore.....
i read the blog and forum and take it easy and go with my day.......and i don't expect anybody to give me anything, i don't think there are any givers here, unless we talking about a headache.....
its hard to find someone because a lot of people say and do different things.....
i was kind of serious when i got on this site, not anymore.....
i read the blog and forum and take it easy and go with my day.......and i don't expect anybody to give me anything, i don't think there are any givers here, unless we talking about a headache.....
hi, its not all about giving material things, its about giving our heart,and mind, the small things in life.its about sharing and communication, giving ones self to our partner and hopefully the same
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bblewis: its call reading thier profiles, you should try it one day!!!!
Point taken.
This is from 10 random, women's profiles who are currently online and from different parts of the world:
AGE 50 SEEKING AGE 45-57 -5/+7
AGE 30 SEEKING AGE 30-40 +10
AGE 49 SEEKING AGE 40-50 -9/+1
AGE 52 SEEKING AGE 48-58 -4/+6
AGE 55 SEEKING AGE 47-62 +/-7
AGE 34 SEEKING AGE 34-45 +11
AGE 38 SEEKING AGE 36-40 +/-2
AGE 35 SEEKING AGE 34-40 -1/+5
AGE 20 SEEKING AGE 18-45 -2/+25
AGE 32 SEEKING AGE 32-40 +8
From this admitedly small and statistically insignificant sample, the evidence would suggest that your comment to DemonFairy claiming she's a rarity for looking +/-10 years either side of her own age and not for a man much younger man is a false perception.
There have been many threads like this and I recall someone providing a link to reasearch that suggests, contrary to you protestations, that women tend to prefer men much nearer their own age and its men who are more inclined to go beyond their generation in terms of partners.
So, what's this all about?
I'm going to put forward the hypothesis that old codgers whinging about women's preferences (basing those ideas on inaccurate stereotypes) need to stop complaining, stop blaming women and sort themselves out, if they truly want a happy, healthy relationship.
Ne nah ne nah ne nah
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I've just looked at you profile and you age boundaries are stated as -18/+7.
Is that hypocracy, or sour grapes you've got going on there?
Is that hypocracy, or sour grapes you've got going on there?
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jovisst: The supermarket for old geezers are Asia and east Europe I'm afraid.
Western women want younger men, but for the sake of face saving they usually puts one or two years older for preferably man.
Have to say I really disagree with you, I certainly don't want a younger man and think many women feel the same way Western women want younger men, but for the sake of face saving they usually puts one or two years older for preferably man.
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jac379: I've just looked at you profile and you age boundaries are stated as -18/+7.
Is that hypocracy, or sour grapes you've got going on there?
Is that hypocracy, or sour grapes you've got going on there?
no not at all, i had set mine originally fron 50 to 55
i will make sure and correct that
also , i understand what you were saying in your survey,
maybe i looked at different ones than what you did,
but its all good
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bblewis: WE HAVE REACHED OUR GOLDEN YEARS , THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND SOME ONE? EVEN THOUGH WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT IN A PARTNER ?
Willing to compromise on very little?
Narrowed down the field of acceptable candidates to about 5 women on the face of the Earth?
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To say that men are only looking for this, or women are only looking for that is based on stereotyping.
Sure you get trends in different cultures, be that an age culture, nationality culture, whatever, but there are quite a few people in the world and each one is a complex, individual, sentient being.
To use negative prejudice to assess relationship potential is to actively promote hostility and loneliness.
Sure you get trends in different cultures, be that an age culture, nationality culture, whatever, but there are quite a few people in the world and each one is a complex, individual, sentient being.
To use negative prejudice to assess relationship potential is to actively promote hostility and loneliness.
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bblewis: respect ,is earned not given, you can spoil anyone, not just children
have you ever been made coffee or breakfast every morning?
have you ever had a man that knows all about you and pays attention to every little detail?
thats being spoiled
have you ever been made coffee or breakfast every morning?
have you ever had a man that knows all about you and pays attention to every little detail?
thats being spoiled
Respect is earned? In what way?
Do you mean someone has to "prove" they are worthy of your respect? What a scary thought!
Yes I have made coffee or breakfast every morning ... AND?
No I've never had a man that knows ALL about me ... that would mean spending ALL of my present talking a bout my past ... I'd much rather live in the present being who I AM now rather than talking about what made me who I am.
A man that pays attention to every little detail ... another scary thought!! In my opinion it doesn't sound like being spoiled. It sounds like being smothered. I like to be able to breathe freely thanks.
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EagleWoman: Respect is earned? In what way?
Do you mean someone has to "prove" they are worthy of your respect? What a scary thought!
Yes I have made coffee or breakfast every morning ... AND?
No I've never had a man that knows ALL about me ... that would mean spending ALL of my present talking a bout my past ... I'd much rather live in the present being who I AM now rather than talking about what made me who I am.
A man that pays attention to every little detail ... another scary thought!! In my opinion it doesn't sound like being spoiled. It sounds like being smothered. I like to be able to breathe freely thanks.
Do you mean someone has to "prove" they are worthy of your respect? What a scary thought!
Yes I have made coffee or breakfast every morning ... AND?
No I've never had a man that knows ALL about me ... that would mean spending ALL of my present talking a bout my past ... I'd much rather live in the present being who I AM now rather than talking about what made me who I am.
A man that pays attention to every little detail ... another scary thought!! In my opinion it doesn't sound like being spoiled. It sounds like being smothered. I like to be able to breathe freely thanks.
to each is own
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Are you close enough to the qualities u want to see in your partner? If you are, just make a wish to God/Universe/Angels, they say it works 
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bblewis: to each is own
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i was kind of serious when i got on this site, not anymore.....
i read the blog and forum and take it easy and go with my day.......and i don't expect anybody to give me anything, i don't think there are any givers here, unless we talking about a headache.....
I agree, Many just want, and have grown up the life GET, and Not what Can I Give...
Tho I have more to give than a headache...
Maybe a Migrain!
and a