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Dec 3, 2011 5:13 PM CST WHY?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
bblewis: WE HAVE REACHED OUR GOLDEN YEARS , THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND SOME ONE? EVEN THOUGH WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT IN A PARTNER ?


Are we not compliant enough to your wants for your liking?
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Dec 3, 2011 5:14 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
respect ,is earned not given, you can spoil anyone, not just children
have you ever been made coffee or breakfast every morning?
have you ever had a man that knows all about you and pays attention to every little detail?
thats being spoiled
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Dec 3, 2011 5:15 PM CST WHY?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
JeanKimberley: just be contrary there are "real singles" on this site - people looking for a
100 % relationship

I know I met someone at the Glasgow CS get-together - however I have had to return to USA since I work and live here. However if I wanted an American man - I could easily meet through the forums and then meet in person. But I also like connecting with people just for the comments, ideas, news, banter, amusements and other chat. - with the same ole people. Don't you like that too?


In periods, but after awhile it's the same old over and over again.
I would go crazy doing this all the time.
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Dec 3, 2011 5:16 PM CST WHY?
Boban1: Maybe cause we subconsciously know that we do not want to compromise


I figured it out from my girlfriends looking for love - they dated from the various websites - and there was always an excuse or barrier to the relationship. - so they broke up and then WAM! - they met someone else through the same websites, dated and the respective men moved heaven and earth to be together and happy with my friends. So I figured that if the dates with the man is ok but it moves along at a snails pace, then that man is not the right man - let him go - cause when a man knows he is in love and wants to be with that woman - he will.

Does it work that way for woman too?
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Dec 3, 2011 5:17 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
what makes you think its only want a man wants?
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Dec 3, 2011 5:17 PM CST WHY?
Wineman42
Wineman42Wineman42Bath, Ontario Canada11 Threads 563 Posts
Kristia49: Me too, i met him on this site, We are so alike, only took 49yrs.


I have only been single for 3 1/2 yrs but I will always come back to visit this site as the forums are great
She wants me to move out to where she is and I do want to when the time is right
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Dec 3, 2011 5:19 PM CST WHY?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
jovisst: I'm not frustrated and 100 percent has nothing to do with control.
I just have no interest spending two years throwing words back and forth online and calling that a relationship.
I want to hold hand and walk into the sunset with the women I love.
Not BS here to prove my point, wich for that matter only matters to me.


So how do you expect to get to that stage where you are holding hands, walking into the sunset with the one you love, if you don't want to talk to anyone?

Its a dating website, not a McDonald's drive through where you can place an order atone end and collect at the other.

Quality food takes a little time to prepare, my friend. grin
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Dec 3, 2011 5:21 PM CST WHY?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Reminds me of War of the Roses.laugh
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Dec 3, 2011 5:21 PM CST WHY?
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
bblewis: WE HAVE REACHED OUR GOLDEN YEARS , THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND SOME ONE? EVEN THOUGH WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT IN A PARTNER ?
very mad Fear !
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Dec 3, 2011 5:21 PM CST WHY?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
JeanKimberley: I figured it out from my girlfriends looking for love - they dated from the various websites - and there was always an excuse or barrier to the relationship. - so they broke up and then WAM! - they met someone else through the same websites, dated and the respective men moved heaven and earth to be together and happy with my friends. So I figured that if the dates with the man is ok but it moves along at a snails pace, then that man is not the right man - let him go - cause when a man knows he is in love and wants to be with that woman - he will.

Does it work that way for woman too?


I lived in Miami for 4 years, com si com sa place.
I would never move back there or any where else for that matter.
And this has nothing to do with love.
I'm just tied up with what I do and logic dictates that it's better to wait even if takes years.
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Dec 3, 2011 5:21 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
you are the first one to hit the nail right on the head
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Dec 3, 2011 5:23 PM CST WHY?
jovisst: In periods, but after awhile it's the same old over and over again.
I would go crazy doing this all the time.


drinking yes some of the stuff seems like a repeat - however, one reason I enjoy returning and chatting in the forums is because there are rock solid people who comment, and keep the threads going - people that you are comfortable and enjoy their thoughts even if you heard them before. It is like returning to your hometown, or going to a party and seeing your friends returning too.

If you are serious about finding a relationship this is just a stepping stone. right?hug
The real work begins after you connect through the forums or through a get together or through the mailbox or flowerbox -

I think you can tell a lot about a person from their posting in the forums - don't you?
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Dec 3, 2011 5:23 PM CST WHY?
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
bblewis: you are the first one to hit the nail right on the head
Try using the quote button...we don't know who you are speaking to. thumbs up
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Dec 3, 2011 5:25 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
Jeeepers: Try using the quote button...we don't know who you are speaking to.

opps, thought i did
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Dec 3, 2011 5:26 PM CST WHY?
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
bblewis: opps, thought i did
Sorry, I just logged in and didn't realize you had been doing it all along.
doh
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Dec 3, 2011 5:27 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
Kristia49: Yes we know what we want, but once bitten twice shy.

you are the first to hit the nail right on the head
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Dec 3, 2011 5:27 PM CST WHY?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
bblewis: respect ,is earned not given, you can spoil anyone, not just children
have you ever been made coffee or breakfast every morning?
have you ever had a man that knows all about you and pays attention to every little detail?
thats being spoiled


It can also mean you're being stalked...

Context is everything. grin
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Dec 3, 2011 5:27 PM CST WHY?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
Wineman42: I have only been single for 3 1/2 yrs but I will always come back to visit this site as the forums are great
She wants me to move out to where she is and I do want to when the time is right

Yes you have to feel comfortable in big steps. Good luck, i come on here mainly for the forums.wave
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Dec 3, 2011 5:28 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
Jeeepers: Sorry, I just logged in and didn't realize you had been doing it all along.

no worries, i just reposted it
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Dec 3, 2011 5:31 PM CST WHY?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
bblewis: you are the first to hit the nail right on the head

Some give up of being hurt again, but"If you don't have a go, you'll never know" Head first, you get used to being hurt and eventually you find one.(lovely lady)sad flower
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