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Dec 3, 2011 4:19 PM CST WHY?
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
bblewis: and what about the women with no men?
i do not think you have any idea what it is like to be spoiled


Why does one have to be spoiled? Isn't that what you do to children? How about just treating a woman with respect?
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Dec 3, 2011 4:20 PM CST WHY?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
single4ever: You shouldn't have to bend over backwards to please a woman as you will be treated like a door mat.


Two people can bend over backwards to please each other, just as long as there is trust and equality.

The bending over backwards isn't the problem, its the advantage some people will take.
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Dec 3, 2011 4:23 PM CST WHY?
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
jac379: Two people can bend over backwards to please each other, just as long as there is trust and equality.

The bending over backwards isn't the problem, its the advantage some people will take.


That was the point I was trying to make but you said it a lot more eloquently. thumbs up
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Dec 3, 2011 4:25 PM CST WHY?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
jovisst: Must be lonely then with only virtual people to keep you company and warm at night.


I have this idea in my head that there are real people behind the typed words.

If the internet is not a real form of communication, then neither are letters, or phone calls.

Many a joyous relationship in many a form has lived through many a medium.
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Dec 3, 2011 4:27 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
i will never get mad at honesty
first of all i would take it that you have never been a smoker,
second, at my age why would i want kids?been there done that, so give it up on that.

twenty has nothing to do with riding a bike, here its a mode of transport, and if you ever noticed most of motorcycle riders are actually older than me, just because i am old why should i not enjoy life to the fullest.

you seem to be the most closed mined person i have ever heard of
get a life
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Dec 3, 2011 4:28 PM CST WHY?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Rocksmith: What a great line Jac! ....


Thank you, Rock.

Glad you liked it. wave hug
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Dec 3, 2011 4:41 PM CST WHY?
anilag
anilaganilagStaten Island, New York USA12 Threads 412 Posts
bblewis: i will never get mad at honesty
first of all i would take it that you have never been a smoker,
second, at my age why would i want kids?been there done that, so give it up on that.

twenty has nothing to do with riding a bike, here its a mode of transport, and if you ever noticed most of motorcycle riders are actually older than me, just because i am old why should i not enjoy life to the fullest.

you seem to be the most closed mined person i have ever heard of
get a life

Yes, they are older,and most of them are single !
As for kids,it's not the non be able to have kids,it's about "enjoing life to the fullest" how can impotent enjoy life ?
Nicotine + Cholesterol killing man in a man.
I would date a man who is older,but wiser !
By age 50 it's time to take care about yourself,including care for your health. So,your life partner can be happy too.
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Dec 3, 2011 4:42 PM CST WHY?
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
bblewis: WE HAVE REACHED OUR GOLDEN YEARS , THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND SOME ONE? EVEN THOUGH WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT IN A PARTNER ?


Because what some want in a partner, differs from what the potential partner wants.

It's the same in all generations if you give it a seconds thought. The older generations seek youth, to relive their lives, and the younger generation seek experience.

It's hard for the generation in the middle, as they are left with those seeking the same, with which, the 'pile' gets smaller all the time.


OK, It made sense in my head. Just hard to write down after a few glasses.
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Dec 3, 2011 4:46 PM CST WHY?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
bblewis: i will never get mad at honesty
first of all i would take it that you have never been a smoker,
second, at my age why would i want kids?been there done that, so give it up on that.

twenty has nothing to do with riding a bike, here its a mode of transport, and if you ever noticed most of motorcycle riders are actually older than me, just because i am old why should i not enjoy life to the fullest.

you seem to be the most closed mined person i have ever heard of
get a life
Dude, do you realize that you are holding a discussion among mostly older women who have never been married and do not share the one thing most other men/women have in common on CS? ..... confused
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Dec 3, 2011 4:56 PM CST WHY?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
anilag: You also have broken hands ?


It doesn't help for more then a short while. I drift of to never, never land and the stupid bean stalk is pointing towards the sky again. LOL.
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Dec 3, 2011 5:01 PM CST WHY?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
single4ever: That was the point I was trying to make but you said it a lot more eloquently.


Thank you, Single. hug
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Dec 3, 2011 5:02 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
one thing is for sure, you have no smile and the costume suits you to a T
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Dec 3, 2011 5:07 PM CST WHY?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
cynicalorange: You've never heard of having 'me time' in a relationship, or are you just wanting to control your partner into spending ALL of the time with you?

If this site is so sad, please feel free to sod off and delete your account.


No comments needed.
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Dec 3, 2011 5:09 PM CST WHY?
alonerdo
alonerdoalonerdoHuixquilucan, Mexico State Mexico3 Threads 1 Polls 228 Posts
bblewis: WE HAVE REACHED OUR GOLDEN YEARS , THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND SOME ONE? EVEN THOUGH WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT IN A PARTNER ?


Sor Juana Inés de la Cruz
1648-1695


Silly, you men-so very adept
at wrongly faulting womankind,
not seeing you're alone to blame
for faults you plant in woman's mind.
...
So why are you men all so stunned
at the thought you're all guilty alike?
Either like them for what you've made them
or make of them what you can like.

If you'd give up pursuing them,
you'd discover, without a doubt,
you've a stronger case to make
against those who seek you out.

I well know what powerful arms
you wield in pressing for evil:
your arrogance is allied
with the world, the flesh, and the devil!

coffee2 coffee2
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Dec 3, 2011 5:10 PM CST WHY?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
bblewis: WE HAVE REACHED OUR GOLDEN YEARS , THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND SOME ONE? EVEN THOUGH WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT IN A PARTNER ?

Yes we know what we want, but once bitten twice shy.comfort
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Dec 3, 2011 5:10 PM CST WHY?
Wineman42
Wineman42Wineman42Bath, Ontario Canada11 Threads 563 Posts
well after a year on here I finally met someone . she is 7 years older and we are making plans to meet. She is in CANADA and not too far away. Ok 1000 km . Very beautiful lady and sooo much in common and she too has been on this site quite a while. So it will happenyay peace
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Dec 3, 2011 5:10 PM CST WHY?
bblewis: WE HAVE REACHED OUR GOLDEN YEARS , THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND SOME ONE? EVEN THOUGH WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT IN A PARTNER ?


I'm really surprised - cause I don't know what I want in a partner except love and affection, -oh ya - a Scottish man grin except someone with enough energy to keep up with me. motorcycle
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Dec 3, 2011 5:11 PM CST WHY?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
jovisst: The supermarket for old geezers are Asia and east Europe I'm afraid.
Western women want younger men, but for the sake of face saving they usually puts one or two years older for preferably man.

What a load of crap.
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Dec 3, 2011 5:11 PM CST WHY?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
jac379: Uh huh.

So you take your frustration out on other people and think you will achieve 100% relationship in doing so?


I'm not frustrated and 100 percent has nothing to do with control.
I just have no interest spending two years throwing words back and forth online and calling that a relationship.
I want to hold hand and walk into the sunset with the women I love.
Not BS here to prove my point, wich for that matter only matters to me.
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Dec 3, 2011 5:12 PM CST WHY?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
Wineman42: well after a year on here I finally met someone . she is 7 years older and we are making plans to meet. She is in CANADA and not too far away. Ok 1000 km . Very beautiful lady and sooo much in common and she too has been on this site quite a while. So it will happen

Me too, i met him on this site, We are so alike, only took 49yrs.
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