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Jan 4, 2012 3:36 PM CST Narcissist
spnglish
spnglishspnglishBrookhaven, Mississippi USA16 Threads 57 Posts
Hey guys, has anyone out there ever dated or was seriously involved with a narcissist? If so, what was your experience like? Do you think these type of people can change?

dunno conversing wave
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Jan 4, 2012 3:41 PM CST Narcissist
Hunter_of_Food
Hunter_of_FoodHunter_of_FoodLynchburg, Tennessee USA2 Threads 126 Posts
spnglish: Hey guys, has anyone out there ever dated or was seriously involved with a narcissist? If so, what was your experience like? Do you think these type of people can change?


Run Forrest Run!!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing cheers
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Jan 4, 2012 3:44 PM CST Narcissist
Aswina
AswinaAswinaNitra, Slovakia2 Threads 1,373 Posts
spnglish: Hey guys, has anyone out there ever dated or was seriously involved with a narcissist? If so, what was your experience like? Do you think these type of people can change?

Never change! Diagnosis is difficult to change grin
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Jan 4, 2012 3:47 PM CST Narcissist
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
spnglish: Hey guys, has anyone out there ever dated or was seriously involved with a narcissist? If so, what was your experience like? Do you think these type of people can change?

Dated ??? Nope, but came across quire a few self centered persons...they are lousy at vodka shots...grin
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Jan 4, 2012 6:04 PM CST Narcissist
RR313
RR313RR313Brooklyn, New York USA53 Posts
yes, couldnt figure out what was going on blues insanity kicked in wow had to do alot of praying crying at the end it was the best thing that happened to me. i learned to love, respect, value myself and got a backbone. i think anyone can change if they want it bad enough. he like who he was.
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Jan 4, 2012 6:54 PM CST Narcissist
Mermaidon
MermaidonMermaidonBrussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium26 Threads 4 Polls 1,116 Posts
spnglish: Hey guys, has anyone out there ever dated or was seriously involved with a narcissist? If so, what was your experience like? Do you think these type of people can change?


I don't ever start anything with a narcissist, there can only be one in the relationship for it to work laugh
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Jan 3, 2016 5:24 PM CST Narcissist
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
spnglish: Hey guys, has anyone out there ever dated or was seriously involved with a narcissist? If so, what was your experience like? Do you think these type of people can change?


Never dated one, but they are quite prominent here.uh oh
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Jan 4, 2016 4:55 AM CST Narcissist
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
spnglish: Hey guys, has anyone out there ever dated or was seriously involved with a narcissist? If so, what was your experience like? Do you think these type of people can change?


Every woman I've dated has been the standard narcissist of physical appearance. I know few women who would not be mortified if they were called ugly.

Intellectual narcissist. Dated one, she was a lawyer.

What I call the personal narcissist. The machiavellian. The confidence trickster. Derren Brown and the magicians. Not many women are like this. I've never been out with one.

Spiritual narcissist. Well, there's a never-ending stream of blogs about how self-love will light the world etc. I've never been out with a spirit narcissist but I've had a good go at interrupting the m**turbatathon which is their lives.
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Jan 4, 2016 4:59 AM CST Narcissist
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
TheRedSquirrel87: Every woman I've dated has been the standard narcissist of physical appearance. I know few women who would not be mortified if they were called ugly.

Intellectual narcissist. Dated one, she was a lawyer.

What I call the personal narcissist. The machiavellian. The confidence trickster. Derren Brown and the magicians. Not many women are like this. I've never been out with one.

Spiritual narcissist. Well, there's a never-ending stream of blogs about how self-love will light the world etc. I've never been out with a spirit narcissist but I've had a good go at interrupting the m**turbatathon which is their lives.


another example of one is the comedian
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Jan 4, 2016 1:51 PM CST Narcissist
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Narcissistic personalities hang out more on the Blogs, than the forums, so safe enough herelaugh
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Jan 4, 2016 2:03 PM CST Narcissist
Elegsabiff
ElegsabiffElegsabiffMotril-ish, Andalusia Spain24 Threads 20 Polls 695 Posts
mollybaby: Narcissistic personalities hang out more on the Blogs, than the forums, so safe enough here


ah but those from the blogs are sneaking across .. grin

be afraid. Be very afraid rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 4, 2016 2:04 PM CST Narcissist
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
mollybaby: Narcissistic personalities hang out more on the Blogs, than the forums, so safe enough here


Yeh I think Mike was describing blog peoplerolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 4, 2016 2:06 PM CST Narcissist
Elegsabiff
ElegsabiffElegsabiffMotril-ish, Andalusia Spain24 Threads 20 Polls 695 Posts
spnglish: Hey guys, has anyone out there ever dated or was seriously involved with a narcissist? If so, what was your experience like? Do you think these type of people can change?


I tell you what, I dated a guy who had been body-slammed by a full-blown malignant narcissist in his previous relationship. I don't know how damaged he was before but he was a MESS when she'd finished with him. Except that she hadn't, she circled our campfire for a good while after. Scary people.
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Jan 4, 2016 2:06 PM CST Narcissist
Elegsabiff
ElegsabiffElegsabiffMotril-ish, Andalusia Spain24 Threads 20 Polls 695 Posts
tomcatwarne: Yeh I think Mike was describing blog people


*hard stare*
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Jan 4, 2016 2:15 PM CST Narcissist
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Elegsabiff: Ah, this is the place to hide out then. Not that there are many self-opinionated egotistical types there.

Teach me your ways


There is a bit of blogger-material on here too. Maybe we could set up a Checkpoint Charlie and do a swap
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Jan 4, 2016 2:16 PM CST Narcissist
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
If I even suspect that someone could be the least bit Narcissistic I run.super
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Jan 4, 2016 2:35 PM CST Narcissist
Elegsabiff
ElegsabiffElegsabiffMotril-ish, Andalusia Spain24 Threads 20 Polls 695 Posts
mollybaby: Welcome to the forums


grin bowing
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Jan 5, 2016 2:52 AM CST Narcissist
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
spnglish: Hey guys, has anyone out there ever dated or was seriously involved with a narcissist? If so, what was your experience like? Do you think these type of people can change?



Yes, I had a relationship with one once.

I never got over the experience.

He thought he was God. I didn't understand what it was at first...but the more I was with him, the more apparent it became.

The ride was sheer hell.
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Jan 19, 2016 10:48 AM CST Narcissist
Liseanne
LiseanneLiseanneTipp, Tipperary Ireland1 Posts
ya, been there, and its not for the faint hearted, they cannot change because they dont realise there is anything that needs changing, its the rest of the world that is messed up not them

Everyone in their world is there to be used for whatever narcissistic supply they need, they tend to have one important victim who seems like a partner or even spouse, but they cheat a lot because they need a backup supply in case you walk out and cant take anymore

They are highly erratic and can be physically dangerous as well as emotionally
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Jan 19, 2016 11:22 AM CST Narcissist
onlyoneheart
onlyoneheartonlyoneheartunknown, Arkansas USA38 Posts
Most of them do like who they are. As far as changing, how does one change if they always think they are right? How can one change if they are in denial of who they are and how they effect others? Usually it takes a conscience and a true want to change in order to make it happen. To force it would get a false result.

A friend of mine gave me a some good advice. He told me when I was in that situation to just agree with him until I could get out of there. I did what he said and it worked. I left a few weeks later.. unscathed.

I am very sorry you had to go through that hug
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