Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ? ( Archived) (64)

Feb 10, 2012 3:25 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
DanishDelight: I usually know within the first 3 minutes


wow that's pretty fast
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Feb 10, 2012 3:31 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
lovelylass3
lovelylass3lovelylass3Auckland, New Zealand6 Threads 202 Posts
DanishDelight: I usually know within the first 3 minutes



Wow three minutes .. I'm impressed..Usually takes that long for my coffee to arrivecheering bouquet
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Feb 10, 2012 3:46 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
It varies.......according to people....i would know after the second date......but i would,nt push it.....its a gradule thing ...that grows into something ...special.....kinda.....life would,nt.........the same without you feeling ....for both....jmo.
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Feb 10, 2012 10:05 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
lovelylass3: Thanks single , I usually give them another chance to make allowances for nerves etc.But figure after second date if,I am not hanging out for a phonecall or txt,it's time to move on


I go on instinct. If I am getting bad vibes; there would be no second date.
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Feb 10, 2012 10:12 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
Pixels1
Pixels1Pixels1London, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 755 Posts
lovelylass3: Just wondering how many dates to make you realize it's not going any where ??


1 laugh
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Feb 10, 2012 10:32 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
single4ever: I go on instinct. If I am getting bad vibes; there would be no second date.



I can only say this in relpy



dancing dancing grin cheers
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Feb 10, 2012 10:39 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
lovelylass3: Just wondering how many dates to make you realize it's not going any where ??



Depends, how big are the cupscoffee.................


laugh
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Feb 10, 2012 10:51 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
uptall: Depends, how big are the cups.................



38 DD







Hopefullywink grin cheers
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Feb 10, 2012 10:52 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
lovelylass3: Just wondering how many dates to make you realize it's not going any where ??
Normally the 1st date however if you are not sure and want to give them a chance to see who they are then a few dates. But then there are those that you think wow finally hit the jacpot just to find out they lied to you about who and what they really are.
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Feb 10, 2012 11:04 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
stringman
stringmanstringmanwallaceburg, Ontario Canada649 Threads 1 Polls 7,049 Posts
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Feb 10, 2012 11:05 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
patmac: 38 DD

Hopefully



Oh no, that's toooooooo big for me.. what am I gonna do with all that!uh oh



cheers
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Feb 10, 2012 11:14 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
I would say to be fair if each time was more than an hour you should know by then using your past experiences. JMO
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Feb 10, 2012 11:16 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
funnygirl2012
funnygirl2012funnygirl2012Dublin, Ireland4 Posts
Well I personaly think it depends on a person.....you meet 3 guys and you will have 3 different experiences,emotions and views......I have met guys I know as soon as I sat next to him that it wont work...but then I have met guys with whom I need one more coffe to find out more...it all depends on what we are looking for or we think we are looking for....
Remember this is a virtual world here on site...it can be deceptive...
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Feb 10, 2012 11:21 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
uptall: You may have to go somewhere else to clear up a few things if you go in that quick mate


yeah you`re right besides, Girls mostly object me using a Stun Gun on them after the coffee

redclown
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Feb 10, 2012 11:25 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
bhirdie
bhirdiebhirdieBeograd-Srbija, Shanghai, Shanghai China261 Posts
Boban1: yeah you`re right besides, Girls mostly object me using a Stun Gun on them after the coffee

rolling on the floor laughing oh,do you really need me to tell you...use it BEFORE grin
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Feb 10, 2012 11:30 AM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
bhirdie: oh,do you really need me to tell you...use it BEFORE

Im not a barbarian ...laugh
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Feb 10, 2012 12:12 PM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
lovelylass3
lovelylass3lovelylass3Auckland, New Zealand6 Threads 202 Posts
uptall: Depends, how big are the cups.................


laugh rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 10, 2012 12:13 PM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
lovelylass3
lovelylass3lovelylass3Auckland, New Zealand6 Threads 202 Posts
patmac: 38 DD

Hopefully



Hey you've been peeping..wondered who owned the ladder rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 10, 2012 12:15 PM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
callahannn
callahannncallahannnPalm Desert, California USA10 Posts
Two is definitely enough. One should be enough. Coffee dates=screening for real dates.
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Feb 10, 2012 12:18 PM CST Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?
lovelylass3
lovelylass3lovelylass3Auckland, New Zealand6 Threads 202 Posts
drbombay: I would say to be fair if each time was more than an hour you should know by then using your past experiences. JMO


Thanks for that ..have decided to let sleeping dogs lie.. Figured if I am questioning it at all then it can't be right teddybear
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