trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
It varies.......according to people....i would know after the second date......but i would,nt push it.....its a gradule thing ...that grows into something ...special.....kinda.....life would,nt.........the same without you feeling ....for both....jmo.
lovelylass3: Thanks single , I usually give them another chance to make allowances for nerves etc.But figure after second date if,I am not hanging out for a phonecall or txt,it's time to move on
I go on instinct. If I am getting bad vibes; there would be no second date.
lovelylass3: Just wondering how many dates to make you realize it's not going any where ??
Normally the 1st date however if you are not sure and want to give them a chance to see who they are then a few dates. But then there are those that you think wow finally hit the jacpot just to find out they lied to you about who and what they really are.
Well I personaly think it depends on a person.....you meet 3 guys and you will have 3 different experiences,emotions and views......I have met guys I know as soon as I sat next to him that it wont work...but then I have met guys with whom I need one more coffe to find out more...it all depends on what we are looking for or we think we are looking for.... Remember this is a virtual world here on site...it can be deceptive...
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that's pretty fast