Do you want the truth or B.S? (38)
saggitarian: Im wondering.... And this is more for women since im a guy... Women say they want the truth and honesty... And in one way or another guys do too. So why is it that you get farther on a kind word with a half truth than the truth? This isnt meant to start an arguement... I would like some honesty just once... LOL
There are so many truths!!!! Which one are we talking about?
Some truths cannot be argued, they stand no matter from which angle you survey them from.
The rest are judgements, opinions, preferences, ideologies and justifications; when "poked" these scatter in all directions in little bits like when you touch a ball of mercury.
Honestly?
Your truth is probably different from mine.
Your honesty is only just as honest as the reasoning you´ve used to justify this or that to yourself!!
If you´ve never practised "pealing the layers" to see what´s hiding under the outward skin of who you think you are, chances are you´re not being honest with yourself. In which case how can you be honest with others? And how can you even speak your own truth or see undeniable ones?
That´s MY truth honestly stated!!
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saggitarian: Im wondering.... And this is more for women since im a guy... Women say they want the truth and honesty... And in one way or another guys do too. So why is it that you get farther on a kind word with a half truth than the truth? This isnt meant to start an arguement... I would like some honesty just once... LOL
Any time I’ll prefer funny BS to boring truth… The problem is, BS is often very boring too.
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THE TRUTH! ......ALWAYS!
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The truth every time.What is said and how it affects me is not up to them.
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I would rather hear the truth and deal with the fall-out. At least thats a level playing field. 
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there is FACT and there is TRUTH
FACT = the world is round
1 TRUTH = we are having fun and you ask if something you are doing is annoying.I say the truth and answer no.
2 TRUTH = Im having a bad day and you ask me if something you are doing is annoying. I say the truth and answer yes.
( Same actions by you but different response by me )
Both are the truth and honest but doesnt truth and honesty also depend on emotions...and seeing as humans exist on emotions of some sort or another we are apt to change our truths without lying.
FACT = the world is round
1 TRUTH = we are having fun and you ask if something you are doing is annoying.I say the truth and answer no.
2 TRUTH = Im having a bad day and you ask me if something you are doing is annoying. I say the truth and answer yes.
( Same actions by you but different response by me )
Both are the truth and honest but doesnt truth and honesty also depend on emotions...and seeing as humans exist on emotions of some sort or another we are apt to change our truths without lying.
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Oh...tell me lies...but if I find out you are lying....bye bye...
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rivame: there is FACT and there is TRUTH
FACT = the world is round
1 TRUTH = we are having fun and you ask if something you are doing is annoying.I say the truth and answer no.
2 TRUTH = Im having a bad day and you ask me if something you are doing is annoying. I say the truth and answer yes.
( Same actions by you but different response by me )
Both are the truth and honest but doesnt truth and honesty also depend on emotions...and seeing as humans exist on emotions of some sort or another we are apt to change our truths without lying.
FACT = the world is round
1 TRUTH = we are having fun and you ask if something you are doing is annoying.I say the truth and answer no.
2 TRUTH = Im having a bad day and you ask me if something you are doing is annoying. I say the truth and answer yes.
( Same actions by you but different response by me )
Both are the truth and honest but doesnt truth and honesty also depend on emotions...and seeing as humans exist on emotions of some sort or another we are apt to change our truths without lying.
Hi Riva! Some truth are just that truth and a lot of people cannot face it without getting all upset and even worth.
Have you ever heard a female reaction on:" Yes Darling! Your butt is getting fat!" ? ( That's perhaps in category Facts)
I am sure there are some truth for males. Just can't think of one right now. Kinda sleepy
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michael63ca: THE TRUTH! ......ALWAYS!
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EagleWoman: There are so many truths!!!! Which one are we talking about?
Some truths cannot be argued, they stand no matter from which angle you survey them from.
The rest are judgements, opinions, preferences, ideologies and justifications; when "poked" these scatter in all directions in little bits like when you touch a ball of mercury.
Honestly?
Your truth is probably different from mine.
Your honesty is only just as honest as the reasoning you´ve used to justify this or that to yourself!!
If you´ve never practised "pealing the layers" to see what´s hiding under the outward skin of who you think you are, chances are you´re not being honest with yourself. In which case how can you be honest with others? And how can you even speak your own truth or see undeniable ones?
That´s MY truth honestly stated!!
Some truths cannot be argued, they stand no matter from which angle you survey them from.
The rest are judgements, opinions, preferences, ideologies and justifications; when "poked" these scatter in all directions in little bits like when you touch a ball of mercury.
Honestly?
Your truth is probably different from mine.
Your honesty is only just as honest as the reasoning you´ve used to justify this or that to yourself!!
If you´ve never practised "pealing the layers" to see what´s hiding under the outward skin of who you think you are, chances are you´re not being honest with yourself. In which case how can you be honest with others? And how can you even speak your own truth or see undeniable ones?
That´s MY truth honestly stated!!
ditto
EWhonestly stated, and well stated too.
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Konigsberg: Hi Riva! Some truth are just that truth and a lot of people cannot face it without getting all upset and even worth.
Have you ever heard a female reaction on:" Yes Darling! Your butt is getting fat!" ? ( That's perhaps in category Facts)
I am sure there are some truth for males. Just can't think of one right now. Kinda sleepy
Have you ever heard a female reaction on:" Yes Darling! Your butt is getting fat!" ? ( That's perhaps in category Facts)
I am sure there are some truth for males. Just can't think of one right now. Kinda sleepy
Hey Konig good to see you too and that your still contributing in the forums.
Let me help on the truth for males...when their snoring keeps you awake all night but you love the feel of their warm body close to you of course your not going to say ..."your snoring is awful " you just kiss them and say Im deaf its ok :P...oppppps thats lying I guess but hell at least I wont be alone when struck by lightning hahahah.
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rivame: Hey Konig good to see you too and that your still contributing in the forums.
Let me help on the truth for males...when their snoring keeps you awake all night but you love the feel of their warm body close to you of course your not going to say ..."your snoring is awful " you just kiss them and say Im deaf its ok :P...oppppps thats lying I guess but hell at least I wont be alone when struck by lightning hahahah.
Let me help on the truth for males...when their snoring keeps you awake all night but you love the feel of their warm body close to you of course your not going to say ..."your snoring is awful " you just kiss them and say Im deaf its ok :P...oppppps thats lying I guess but hell at least I wont be alone when struck by lightning hahahah.
wow, that is one of the most endearing things I have heard in so long, even if not directed at me. Riva, you are a rare gem indeed.
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I'd rather truth and honesty, even if it does hurt, life goes on.
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Kristia49: I'd rather truth and honesty, even if it does hurt, life goes on.
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Hi faith, not too many can tell the truth though. Gutless.
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Nikogas: wow, that is one of the most endearing things I have heard in so long, even if not directed at me. Riva, you are a rare gem indeed.
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So you snore, we take it
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Tell the truth as you honestly see it...........
But we will all see things differently maybe,but if it is true to you then it is true..There is no point lying,just be yourself and tell the truth from the start,then there shouldnt be any surprises..the truth can be told in a way as to not hurt anyone...
Whats that saying "tell the truth and shame the devil"..lol.
But we will all see things differently maybe,but if it is true to you then it is true..There is no point lying,just be yourself and tell the truth from the start,then there shouldnt be any surprises..the truth can be told in a way as to not hurt anyone...
Whats that saying "tell the truth and shame the devil"..lol.
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I think they do not want to deal with emotions and don't care.
Then there are guys who tell the truth, I like them better.
I believe in telling the truth. I tell the truth.
It's much better to tell the truth even if you hurt the person. The other ways is not right but you are dealing with a person who doesn't care.
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