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sylvanaTallinn, Harjumaa Estonia2 Threads 27 PostsWhat it means, if guy steps out from 5 month realtionship, saying he dont want to loose a woman but wants to be only friend now? What do you think, can you translate this from mens language to womens language, please? :)
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sylvana: What it means, if guy steps out from 5 month realtionship, saying he dont want to loose a woman but wants to be only friend now? What do you think, can you translate this from mens language to womens language, please? :)
if I am understanding your post it is his way of saying that he does not want the relationship - offerring the idea to stay friends is most likely his way of trying to be nice and not hurt you too badly.
likely he has found someone else
I'd agree to the friendship but then make yourself unavailalbe to him. If he wants you it has to be somewhat on your terms and if a platonic friendship is not what you want then don't do it. I wouldn't , unless it was also what I want.
Then he will have to choose - he might decide he wants more (to come back) & he might not - either way you're no worse off AND you have not allowed him to have his cake and eat it too - and maintained your dignity
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sylvana: What it means, if guy steps out from 5 month realtionship, saying he dont want to loose a woman but wants to be only friend now? What do you think, can you translate this from mens language to womens language, please? :)
He's not interested in a short term/long term relationship and all the fringes that come with it. He doesn't mind it being on a friend to friend basis but that’s it. There is no sentimental/romantic/physical love, no commitment.
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sylvana: What it means, if guy steps out from 5 month realtionship, saying he dont want to loose a woman but wants to be only friend now? What do you think, can you translate this from mens language to womens language, please? :)
Heard that one before, why can't they just tell the bloody truth. Don't beat around the bush.
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sylvana: What it means, if guy steps out from 5 month realtionship, saying he dont want to loose a woman but wants to be only friend now? What do you think, can you translate this from mens language to womens language, please? :)
Maybe he means exactly what he says.
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sylvana: What it means, if guy steps out from 5 month realtionship, saying he dont want to loose a woman but wants to be only friend now? What do you think, can you translate this from mens language to womens language, please? :)
It happened to me a few times, it means i was sending the signal and the receptor was broken so i had to brake it.------ This thread is Archived ------
Its a diplomatic way saying the relation is over,and by wanted to remain friends,is like saying,is better to finish the relationship as friends,than as enemies.JMO
sylvana: What it means, if guy steps out from 5 month realtionship, saying he dont want to loose a woman but wants to be only friend now? What do you think, can you translate this from mens language to womens language, please? :)
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Beating around the bush,they think the hurt is less. The best is,as you say, to tell the truth.
Kristia49: Heard that one before, why can't they just tell the bloody truth. Don't beat around the bush.
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sylvana: What it means, if guy steps out from 5 month realtionship, saying he dont want to loose a woman but wants to be only friend now? What do you think, can you translate this from mens language to womens language, please? :)
He has 'friendzoned' you. Game over is what it means.
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chris27292729: Its a diplomatic way saying the relation is over,and by wanted to remain friends,is like saying,is better to finish the relationship as friends,than as enemies.JMO
In all fairness women do that too ..... I am guilty
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chris27292729: Its a diplomatic way saying the relation is over,and by wanted to remain friends,is like saying,is better to finish the relationship as friends,than as enemies.JMO
diplomatic yes....
but reality is 9 times out of ten they dont really want to be friends either.....
saying it just allows THEM to feel less guilty...
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rivame: diplomatic yes....
but reality is 9 times out of ten they dont really want to be friends either.....
saying it just allows THEM to feel less guilty...
but reality is 9 times out of ten they dont really want to be friends either.....
saying it just allows THEM to feel less guilty...
exactly - when I read Vinny's reply this is exactly what I also thought. He might mean exactly what he says - but guys so often use the "friend zone" to either let you down easy or try to have it both ways (FWB)
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felixis99: exactly - when I read Vinny's reply this is exactly what I also thought. He might mean exactly what he says - but guys so often use the "friend zone" to either let you down easy or try to have it both ways (FWB)
was thinking before.....is there an easy way that wont hurt anyone...to end a relationship
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rivame: was thinking before.....is there an easy way that wont hurt anyone...to end a relationship
probably not - unless just by coincidence the two just agree that it has come to it's logical conclusion - both want out equally - there is some sadness that it did not work but not the terrible hurt
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There is no easy way ending a relationship,hurt is there,however guilty,semi gulty,less guilty or innocent.
rivame: was thinking before.....is there an easy way that wont hurt anyone...to end a relationship
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sylvana: What it means, if guy steps out from 5 month realtionship, saying he dont want to loose a woman but wants to be only friend now? What do you think, can you translate this from mens language to womens language, please? :)
It`s against the code ...
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sylvana: What it means, if guy steps out from 5 month realtionship, saying he dont want to loose a woman but wants to be only friend now? What do you think, can you translate this from mens language to womens language, please? :)
maybe he just realised he mistook friendship for something else , iv had this happen to me and iv been honost and im still on very good terms with a few exs ... best he found out now that years down the line !!
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sylvana: What it means, if guy steps out from 5 month realtionship, saying he dont want to loose a woman but wants to be only friend now? What do you think, can you translate this from mens language to womens language, please? :)
it's a polite shove--sorry lovie....but you did ask. There are nicer ones out there.------ This thread is Archived ------
chris27292729: With your suggestions you depriving the man, of his opportunities.
Or perhaps opening HER eyes to HERS
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