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In response to: When you see a girl you like on this site (if you are really looking for one), What do you do to contact her and in what way do you contact her? How do you think you can conquer a womans heart online? How much time do you need to feel really comfortable with her? Do you demand her time to chat wiht you? What do you expect from her?
I ask this because I had a recent experience with a man that contacted me "online", although I wrote on my profile I am not looking I decided to chat with him and Ive only chatted with him since 3 days ago...thing is I am a busy woman, I have a very stressing week coming and therefore have not much time to be chatting as the first night we did, also catching a flu and a bit tired...he writes tonight asked me how I feel I asnwered I am tired which is not a lie and I told him other stuff like I am pissed off because my phone service didnt work all day and caused me trouble then I write him and he doesnt reply so I disconneted from yahoo then my very best friend (18yrs) that now lives in Miami writes me in facebook to get on skype to call me because tomorrow is my bday, I get online and he writes to me questioning me why im up and on skype if I am sick or if Im talking with someone else ?????????I was like wth I ve only chatted with him 3 days gosh! then I explained to him I was talking with my friend and when I finished I let him know and he got offline I didnt like that attitude and I erased him and wrote him that I didnt like he questioning me as he doesnt own me and I dislike his attitude and oh boy the things he wrote to me left me very impressed...... so this behavoiur makes me ask all those questions ....
I am not trying to get all your secret weapons in the conquering a woman matter, but would you mind sharing basic things you do to get to a womans mind? How to keep her attention? I hope none of the men looking in this site have this kind of behaviour... Thank you all for reading and commenting, remember to be respectfull
I ask this because I had a recent experience with a man that contacted me "online", although I wrote on my profile I am not looking I decided to chat with him and Ive only chatted with him since 3 days ago...thing is I am a busy woman, I have a very stressing week coming and therefore have not much time to be chatting as the first night we did, also catching a flu and a bit tired...he writes tonight asked me how I feel I asnwered I am tired which is not a lie and I told him other stuff like I am pissed off because my phone service didnt work all day and caused me trouble then I write him and he doesnt reply so I disconneted from yahoo then my very best friend (18yrs) that now lives in Miami writes me in facebook to get on skype to call me because tomorrow is my bday, I get online and he writes to me questioning me why im up and on skype if I am sick or if Im talking with someone else ?????????I was like wth I ve only chatted with him 3 days gosh! then I explained to him I was talking with my friend and when I finished I let him know and he got offline I didnt like that attitude and I erased him and wrote him that I didnt like he questioning me as he doesnt own me and I dislike his attitude and oh boy the things he wrote to me left me very impressed...... so this behavoiur makes me ask all those questions ....
I am not trying to get all your secret weapons in the conquering a woman matter, but would you mind sharing basic things you do to get to a womans mind? How to keep her attention? I hope none of the men looking in this site have this kind of behaviour... Thank you all for reading and commenting, remember to be respectfull
Thank you very much for your comment very appreciated I do think he was acting a bit cocky and I did not like it as I didnt like all the stuff he said to me I mean I have had dates with men I have met online first and is nothing like how he was doing it, he wanted everything now! so pushy and to be honest that got on my nerves but no worries I am not holding it up against all men I know there are some nice good men, again thank you
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Hey chalk it up to dodging a bullet, be thankful & move on from there!
PS: If you really get any good tips from men, fill me in PLEASE!!
Best of luck to you!
SHANTI
PS: If you really get any good tips from men, fill me in PLEASE!!
Best of luck to you!
SHANTI
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LonelyMontse08: When you see a girl you like on this site (if you are really looking for one), What do you do to contact her and in what way do you contact her? How do you think you can conquer a womans heart online? How much time do you need to feel really comfortable with her? Do you demand her time to chat wiht you? What do you expect from her?
I ask this because I had a recent experience with a man that contacted me "online", although I wrote on my profile I am not looking I decided to chat with him and Ive only chatted with him since 3 days ago...thing is I am a busy woman, I have a very stressing week coming and therefore have not much time to be chatting as the first night we did, also catching a flu and a bit tired...he writes tonight asked me how I feel I asnwered I am tired which is not a lie and I told him other stuff like I am pissed off because my phone service didnt work all day and caused me trouble then I write him and he doesnt reply so I disconneted from yahoo then my very best friend (18yrs) that now lives in Miami writes me in facebook to get on skype to call me because tomorrow is my bday, I get online and he writes to me questioning me why im up and on skype if I am sick or if Im talking with someone else ?????????I was like wth I ve only chatted with him 3 days gosh! then I explained to him I was talking with my friend and when I finished I let him know and he got offline I didnt like that attitude and I erased him and wrote him that I didnt like he questioning me as he doesnt own me and I dislike his attitude and oh boy the things he wrote to me left me very impressed...... so this behavoiur makes me ask all those questions ....
I am not trying to get all your secret weapons in the conquering a woman matter, but would you mind sharing basic things you do to get to a womans mind? How to keep her attention? I hope none of the men looking in this site have this kind of behaviour... Thank you all for reading and commenting, remember to be respectfull
I tried to contact them By emails ,Flowers ,but i was Blocked to themI ask this because I had a recent experience with a man that contacted me "online", although I wrote on my profile I am not looking I decided to chat with him and Ive only chatted with him since 3 days ago...thing is I am a busy woman, I have a very stressing week coming and therefore have not much time to be chatting as the first night we did, also catching a flu and a bit tired...he writes tonight asked me how I feel I asnwered I am tired which is not a lie and I told him other stuff like I am pissed off because my phone service didnt work all day and caused me trouble then I write him and he doesnt reply so I disconneted from yahoo then my very best friend (18yrs) that now lives in Miami writes me in facebook to get on skype to call me because tomorrow is my bday, I get online and he writes to me questioning me why im up and on skype if I am sick or if Im talking with someone else ?????????I was like wth I ve only chatted with him 3 days gosh! then I explained to him I was talking with my friend and when I finished I let him know and he got offline I didnt like that attitude and I erased him and wrote him that I didnt like he questioning me as he doesnt own me and I dislike his attitude and oh boy the things he wrote to me left me very impressed...... so this behavoiur makes me ask all those questions ....
I am not trying to get all your secret weapons in the conquering a woman matter, but would you mind sharing basic things you do to get to a womans mind? How to keep her attention? I hope none of the men looking in this site have this kind of behaviour... Thank you all for reading and commenting, remember to be respectfull
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ali110: I tried to contact them By emails ,Flowers ,but i was Blocked to them
awww nice way Ali so sorry that has happened to you though you seem nice 
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LonelyMontse08: When you see a girl you like on this site (if you are really looking for one), What do you do to contact her and in what way do you contact her? How do you think you can conquer a womans heart online? How much time do you need to feel really comfortable with her? Do you demand her time to chat wiht you? What do you expect from her?
I ask this because I had a recent experience with a man that contacted me "online", although I wrote on my profile I am not looking I decided to chat with him and Ive only chatted with him since 3 days ago...thing is I am a busy woman, I have a very stressing week coming and therefore have not much time to be chatting as the first night we did, also catching a flu and a bit tired...he writes tonight asked me how I feel I asnwered I am tired which is not a lie and I told him other stuff like I am pissed off because my phone service didnt work all day and caused me trouble then I write him and he doesnt reply so I disconneted from yahoo then my very best friend (18yrs) that now lives in Miami writes me in facebook to get on skype to call me because tomorrow is my bday, I get online and he writes to me questioning me why im up and on skype if I am sick or if Im talking with someone else ?????????I was like wth I ve only chatted with him 3 days gosh! then I explained to him I was talking with my friend and when I finished I let him know and he got offline I didnt like that attitude and I erased him and wrote him that I didnt like he questioning me as he doesnt own me and I dislike his attitude and oh boy the things he wrote to me left me very impressed...... so this behavoiur makes me ask all those questions ....
I am not trying to get all your secret weapons in the conquering a woman matter, but would you mind sharing basic things you do to get to a womans mind? How to keep her attention? I hope none of the men looking in this site have this kind of behaviour... Thank you all for reading and commenting, remember to be respectfull
I ask this because I had a recent experience with a man that contacted me "online", although I wrote on my profile I am not looking I decided to chat with him and Ive only chatted with him since 3 days ago...thing is I am a busy woman, I have a very stressing week coming and therefore have not much time to be chatting as the first night we did, also catching a flu and a bit tired...he writes tonight asked me how I feel I asnwered I am tired which is not a lie and I told him other stuff like I am pissed off because my phone service didnt work all day and caused me trouble then I write him and he doesnt reply so I disconneted from yahoo then my very best friend (18yrs) that now lives in Miami writes me in facebook to get on skype to call me because tomorrow is my bday, I get online and he writes to me questioning me why im up and on skype if I am sick or if Im talking with someone else ?????????I was like wth I ve only chatted with him 3 days gosh! then I explained to him I was talking with my friend and when I finished I let him know and he got offline I didnt like that attitude and I erased him and wrote him that I didnt like he questioning me as he doesnt own me and I dislike his attitude and oh boy the things he wrote to me left me very impressed...... so this behavoiur makes me ask all those questions ....
I am not trying to get all your secret weapons in the conquering a woman matter, but would you mind sharing basic things you do to get to a womans mind? How to keep her attention? I hope none of the men looking in this site have this kind of behaviour... Thank you all for reading and commenting, remember to be respectfull
Men work in mysterious ways...
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LonelyMontse08: I get online and he writes to me questioning me why im up and on skype if I am sick or if Im talking with someone else ?????????I was like wth I ve only chatted with him 3 days gosh! then I explained to him I was talking with my friend and when I finished I let him know and he got offline I didnt like that attitude and I erased him and wrote him that I didnt like he questioning me as he doesnt own me and I dislike his attitude and oh boy the things he wrote to me left me very impres
Good idea. He sounds like a sad little internet warrior control freak. Gives men a bad name.
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Boban1: Men work in mysterious ways...
Their wonders to perform.
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Boban1: Men work in mysterious ways...
their wonders to perform.
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He try to put u under his invation. be ready with more bullets. Then he will be under ur invation. Its just shown how deperate he is.
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"When you see a girl you like on this site (if you are really looking for one), What do you do to contact her and in what way do you contact her?"
I don't normally contact women first. Not that I never have, I just don't make a practice to do that. I'm shy, and I'm not a chaser. And the few times I've contacted a woman, it's been by email.
"How do you think you can conquer a womans heart online?"
You have got to be kidding me. ME? Apparently, I've been on here for approximately three years now, and it hasn't happened for me yet. Unless God drops a woman in my lap, it doesn't seem like it's going to happen. But I do enjoy interacting with the women on the forums and blogs, which is much more realistic than actually finding anyone at my age, especially for marriage.
"How much time do you need to feel really comfortable with her?"
After being scammed twice (once for love, and attemped for money), I tend to be wary. I generally take people at face value, until they show me they can't be trusted. But online, a person needs to be really cautious, so I need time to trust a woman online.
"Do you demand her time to chat wiht you? What do you expect from her?"
Certainly not. A woman's time is her own. I'm too humble to be the demanding type. Never have been demanding. I'm just grateful for whatever attention I do get. As to what I expect, I have no expectations. Wishes, maybe, but no expectations. If you have expectations, you don't get disappointed. If I had a committed relationship, it might make sense to have some expectations, but just online? I think not.
I don't normally contact women first. Not that I never have, I just don't make a practice to do that. I'm shy, and I'm not a chaser. And the few times I've contacted a woman, it's been by email.
"How do you think you can conquer a womans heart online?"
You have got to be kidding me. ME? Apparently, I've been on here for approximately three years now, and it hasn't happened for me yet. Unless God drops a woman in my lap, it doesn't seem like it's going to happen. But I do enjoy interacting with the women on the forums and blogs, which is much more realistic than actually finding anyone at my age, especially for marriage.
"How much time do you need to feel really comfortable with her?"
After being scammed twice (once for love, and attemped for money), I tend to be wary. I generally take people at face value, until they show me they can't be trusted. But online, a person needs to be really cautious, so I need time to trust a woman online.
"Do you demand her time to chat wiht you? What do you expect from her?"
Certainly not. A woman's time is her own. I'm too humble to be the demanding type. Never have been demanding. I'm just grateful for whatever attention I do get. As to what I expect, I have no expectations. Wishes, maybe, but no expectations. If you have expectations, you don't get disappointed. If I had a committed relationship, it might make sense to have some expectations, but just online? I think not.
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ali110: I tried to contact them By emails ,Flowers ,but i was Blocked to them
maybe u still not pay the flower ali. but i never got that flower
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LonelyMontse08: ...I am not trying to get all your secret weapons in the conquering a woman matter,...
Do women really think that men have any secret weapons???...WOW!!!
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LonelyMontse08: When you see a girl you like on this site (if you are really looking for one), What do you do to contact her and in what way do you contact her? How do you think you can conquer a womans heart online? How much time do you need to feel really comfortable with her? Do you demand her time to chat wiht you? What do you expect from her?
I ask this because I had a recent experience with a man that contacted me "online", although I wrote on my profile I am not looking I decided to chat with him and Ive only chatted with him since 3 days ago...thing is I am a busy woman, I have a very stressing week coming and therefore have not much time to be chatting as the first night we did, also catching a flu and a bit tired...he writes tonight asked me how I feel I asnwered I am tired which is not a lie and I told him other stuff like I am pissed off because my phone service didnt work all day and caused me trouble then I write him and he doesnt reply so I disconneted from yahoo then my very best friend (18yrs) that now lives in Miami writes me in facebook to get on skype to call me because tomorrow is my bday, I get online and he writes to me questioning me why im up and on skype if I am sick or if Im talking with someone else ?????????I was like wth I ve only chatted with him 3 days gosh! then I explained to him I was talking with my friend and when I finished I let him know and he got offline I didnt like that attitude and I erased him and wrote him that I didnt like he questioning me as he doesnt own me and I dislike his attitude and oh boy the things he wrote to me left me very impressed...... so this behavoiur makes me ask all those questions ....
I am not trying to get all your secret weapons in the conquering a woman matter, but would you mind sharing basic things you do to get to a womans mind? How to keep her attention? I hope none of the men looking in this site have this kind of behaviour... Thank you all for reading and commenting, remember to be respectfull
I ask this because I had a recent experience with a man that contacted me "online", although I wrote on my profile I am not looking I decided to chat with him and Ive only chatted with him since 3 days ago...thing is I am a busy woman, I have a very stressing week coming and therefore have not much time to be chatting as the first night we did, also catching a flu and a bit tired...he writes tonight asked me how I feel I asnwered I am tired which is not a lie and I told him other stuff like I am pissed off because my phone service didnt work all day and caused me trouble then I write him and he doesnt reply so I disconneted from yahoo then my very best friend (18yrs) that now lives in Miami writes me in facebook to get on skype to call me because tomorrow is my bday, I get online and he writes to me questioning me why im up and on skype if I am sick or if Im talking with someone else ?????????I was like wth I ve only chatted with him 3 days gosh! then I explained to him I was talking with my friend and when I finished I let him know and he got offline I didnt like that attitude and I erased him and wrote him that I didnt like he questioning me as he doesnt own me and I dislike his attitude and oh boy the things he wrote to me left me very impressed...... so this behavoiur makes me ask all those questions ....
I am not trying to get all your secret weapons in the conquering a woman matter, but would you mind sharing basic things you do to get to a womans mind? How to keep her attention? I hope none of the men looking in this site have this kind of behaviour... Thank you all for reading and commenting, remember to be respectfull
It's really very simple. You tell her you like her smile.
Works every time.
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Harleyquinn: Hey chalk it up to dodging a bullet, be thankful & move on from there! PS: If you really get any good tips from men, fill me in PLEASE!! Best of luck to you!
SHANTI
SHANTI
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HuggerMan4U: "Do you demand her time to chat wiht you? What do you expect from her?"
Certainly not. A woman's time is her own. I'm too humble to be the demanding type. Never have been demanding. I'm just grateful for whatever attention I do get. As to what I expect, I have no expectations. Wishes, maybe, but no expectations. If you have expectations, you don't get disappointed. If I had a committed relationship, it might make sense to have some expectations, but just online? I think not.
Certainly not. A woman's time is her own. I'm too humble to be the demanding type. Never have been demanding. I'm just grateful for whatever attention I do get. As to what I expect, I have no expectations. Wishes, maybe, but no expectations. If you have expectations, you don't get disappointed. If I had a committed relationship, it might make sense to have some expectations, but just online? I think not.
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heavensmile: He try to put u under his invation. be ready with more bullets. Then he will be under ur invation. Its just shown how deperate he is.
I agree with you I thnk he is despèrate and maybe thought I was gonna let him control my time heck no! I already been with a control freak lol ------ This thread is Archived ------
LuckysEdge: Do women really think that men have any secret weapons???...WOW!!!
I am a woman and I believe so, I used that line as an expression simply, but I do know some men have certain ways they like to use when it comes to conquer a woman they want or pretend, I call them secret weapons
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LonelyMontse08: I am a woman and I believe so, I used that line as an expression simply, but I do know some men have certain ways they like to use when it comes to conquer a woman they want or pretend, I call them secret weapons
we have a weapon but it is not secret 
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our weapon is that women need men and can not live without us
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I ask this because I had a recent experience with a man that contacted me "online", although I wrote on my profile I am not looking I decided to chat with him and Ive only chatted with him since 3 days ago...thing is I am a busy woman, I have a very stressing week coming and therefore have not much time to be chatting as the first night we did, also catching a flu and a bit tired...he writes tonight asked me how I feel I asnwered I am tired which is not a lie and I told him other stuff like I am pissed off because my phone service didnt work all day and caused me trouble then I write him and he doesnt reply so I disconneted from yahoo then my very best friend (18yrs) that now lives in Miami writes me in facebook to get on skype to call me because tomorrow is my bday, I get online and he writes to me questioning me why im up and on skype if I am sick or if Im talking with someone else ?????????I was like wth I ve only chatted with him 3 days gosh! then I explained to him I was talking with my friend and when I finished I let him know and he got offline I didnt like that attitude and I erased him and wrote him that I didnt like he questioning me as he doesnt own me and I dislike his attitude and oh boy the things he wrote to me left me very impressed...... so this behavoiur makes me ask all those questions ....
I am not trying to get all your secret weapons in the conquering a woman matter, but would you mind sharing basic things you do to get to a womans mind? How to keep her attention? I hope none of the men looking in this site have this kind of behaviour... Thank you all for reading and commenting, remember to be respectfull