Rejection (25)
It hurts so you have to decide the next time if he is worth it
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snowella: I was seeing this guy for a very short time and today he tells me that he is not feeling it. I thought we had a connection but I guess not. I know I should not take it personal but can't get it out of my head, what the hell is wrong with me. There is a lot of things going through my head at this moment, is it the way I look, did I say the wrong thing...etc.
There's nothing wrong with you. He just wasn't into you as much as your were with him. Try to appreciate his honesty that he didn't string you along for a long time.
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snowella: I was seeing this guy for a very short time and today he tells me that he is not feeling it. I thought we had a connection but I guess not. I know I should not take it personal but can't get it out of my head, what the hell is wrong with me. There is a lot of things going through my head at this moment, is it the way I look, did I say the wrong thing...etc. I know life goes on but the hurt sucks
We can't fall in love with someone when we are so scared of getting hurt but when I let my guard down...bam
Why is it so fricken hard to be loved.
Being lonely isn't having no one around you, it's the feeling that there is no one around you who cares.
Sorry about posting this, I just need to vent.
Oh there's nothing "wrong" with you. The guy is being honest, which is somewhat rare, so give him kudos for that. He, like most of us, can't 'make' himself have a feeling he doesn't have. It's really much better for both of you rather than try to develop a relationship that is luke-warm. Thank your lucky stars. Now, think about it--you wouldn't be happy/content with someone who didn't really want to be with you, would you? Of course not. There is the right guy out there for you, be patient. We can't fall in love with someone when we are so scared of getting hurt but when I let my guard down...bam
Why is it so fricken hard to be loved.
Being lonely isn't having no one around you, it's the feeling that there is no one around you who cares.
Sorry about posting this, I just need to vent.
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montemonte: There's nothing wrong with you. He just wasn't into you as much as your were with him. Try to appreciate his honesty that he didn't string you along for a long time.
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irishhome: It hurts so you have to decide the next time if he is worth it
I thought he was, he did and said everything right
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montemonte: There's nothing wrong with you. He just wasn't into you as much as your were with him. Try to appreciate his honesty that he didn't string you along for a long time.
I did tell him thanks for being honest and he did say that he dint want to string me along...I have to give him credit for that
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It,s the hurt feeling that I don't like, I know it will pass...it just suck right now
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snowella: I did tell him thanks for being honest and he did say that he dint want to string me along...I have to give him credit for that
He probably tried to convince himself that he loved you. When it comes to love.....you either love or you don't.
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Whenever something has gone 'wrong' in my life, something better has happened, or something good has come out of it.
I'm not a great believer in fate, so I'm not entirely sure why that is. I think its maybe because I grasp opportunities and however small those opportunities are, I've created something out of them.
You have an opportunity to learn some things from this experience which you may take forward to the next relationship. With that learning under your belt, its more likely to be along the lines of what you're looking for.
There may be something 'wrong' with you, but I doubt its looks, or something you said. Its more likely that you just didn't have all the knowledge and skills you needed to fall for the right fella. You'll have more knowledge and skills now for the experience.
Sometimes the crappiest things can turn out to be, or turned into a gift.
I'm not a great believer in fate, so I'm not entirely sure why that is. I think its maybe because I grasp opportunities and however small those opportunities are, I've created something out of them.
You have an opportunity to learn some things from this experience which you may take forward to the next relationship. With that learning under your belt, its more likely to be along the lines of what you're looking for.
There may be something 'wrong' with you, but I doubt its looks, or something you said. Its more likely that you just didn't have all the knowledge and skills you needed to fall for the right fella. You'll have more knowledge and skills now for the experience.
Sometimes the crappiest things can turn out to be, or turned into a gift.
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Hi Snowella, Don't give up!! You won't be lonely forever :) Remember.. We have to kiss a Lot of frogs before we find our Prince! 
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so what are we kissing before we meet our princess
snowella: I was seeing this guy for a very short time and today he tells me that he is not feeling it. I thought we had a connection but I guess not. I know I should not take it personal but can't get it out of my head, what the hell is wrong with me. There is a lot of things going through my head at this moment, is it the way I look, did I say the wrong thing...etc. I know life goes on but the hurt sucks
We can't fall in love with someone when we are so scared of getting hurt but when I let my guard down...bam
Why is it so fricken hard to be loved.
Being lonely isn't having no one around you, it's the feeling that there is no one around you who cares.
Sorry about posting this, I just need to vent.
We can't fall in love with someone when we are so scared of getting hurt but when I let my guard down...bam
Why is it so fricken hard to be loved.
Being lonely isn't having no one around you, it's the feeling that there is no one around you who cares.
Sorry about posting this, I just need to vent.
Its not you, so don't be asking yourself what you did wrong. he's just the wrong one for you. I'd say he has cold feet and just wasn't ready to go further, best it happened now and not later, would hurt so much more. Men are a strange species.
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"Dont cry because its over, smile because it happened.."
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DjWabbet: "Dont cry because its over, smile because it happened.."
I like this....after getting over the initial hurt, I really do remember a couple of my exes fondly :)
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barebum61: so what are we kissing before we meet our princess
frogettes....duh
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barebum61: so what are we kissing before we meet our princess
All women are born Princesses! We don't have to evolve into anything 
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snowella: I was seeing this guy for a very short time and today he tells me that he is not feeling it. I thought we had a connection but I guess not. I know I should not take it personal but can't get it out of my head, what the hell is wrong with me. There is a lot of things going through my head at this moment, is it the way I look, did I say the wrong thing...etc. I know life goes on but the hurt sucks
We can't fall in love with someone when we are so scared of getting hurt but when I let my guard down...bam
Why is it so fricken hard to be loved.
Being lonely isn't having no one around you, it's the feeling that there is no one around you who cares.
Sorry about posting this, I just need to vent.
We can't fall in love with someone when we are so scared of getting hurt but when I let my guard down...bam
Why is it so fricken hard to be loved.
Being lonely isn't having no one around you, it's the feeling that there is no one around you who cares.
Sorry about posting this, I just need to vent.
The worst what you may do in this moment is to consider that has no reason to open your heart soon again. You have to keep your heart open al the times even if hurts.
This is the only way to have a progress. As other already told, you need to use your brain too. I whant to say that only te presence of the emotion means not love. When your rationality, your emotion and your spirit say together "yes" then can be something there.
But do not close the door because you'r afraid that you will be hurt..this will be death of your love, forever.
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snowella: I was seeing this guy for a very short time and today he tells me that he is not feeling it. I thought we had a connection but I guess not. I know I should not take it personal but can't get it out of my head, what the hell is wrong with me. There is a lot of things going through my head at this moment, is it the way I look, did I say the wrong thing...etc. I know life goes on but the hurt sucks Sorry about posting this, I just need to vent.
why do you think it is on you? it is his feelings, not your behavior, looks, or anything else about you.... it is only about him.------ This thread is Archived ------
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We can't fall in love with someone when we are so scared of getting hurt but when I let my guard down...bam
Why is it so fricken hard to be loved.
Being lonely isn't having no one around you, it's the feeling that there is no one around you who cares.
Sorry about posting this, I just need to vent.