Honesty.........is it a lonely word? (64)

Oct 6, 2013 1:36 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
jem1964Mr Lookin: You should never be embarassed because of someone elses small mindedness in rejecting you for what ever reason. The rejection is theirs and for them to feel guilt/embarrassment for, not you.
I didn't know you were an amputee but for me that just makes you more interesting as you have had to find ways of doing things that others would not consider.
To me it doesnt need to be in your profile as really it is something that is personal to you and doesnt need to be broadcast, you are you.
I will admit that there are things I dont share on my profile, only telling someone if I think it is beneficial to both us for them to know.
I suppose it comes down to that word "baggage"
We all have some, hopefully most of it is in th past, but some affects our every day lives and cannot be disregarded, but it is how we deal with the "baggage" that makes us the person we are.

I dont know that I would not be too impressed about the "white lie" about his Mum visiting, it is more than just a little thing and how did he think it was going to be in the future?





That's what i meant thumbs up
Oct 6, 2013 2:59 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
I met LiLee in Lismore, and know LiLee is a lovely lady, tis a pity i'm an old fart...
Lilee don't worry what others think about your hand, because for starters we never really have much insight into what actually goes on in other peoples heads, its better to just be you, the right guy will turn up.
Just keep looking, don't accept less than best and mean time relax, you've already created the energy for a partner; so the boiling partner pot is bound heat up in time no matter which way it occurs, or whom ever has the good karma to share space with you...teddybear
Oct 6, 2013 3:24 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
LiLee
LiLeeLiLeeIpswich, Queensland Australia53 Threads 1,760 Posts
Thanks for your wise words Jem, Wash and Rob. You are indeed a gentleman of the old school Rob and was my privilege to share a coffee and a chat with you. I sure have met some nice peep from here. cheers

Epirb.....not sure about the virgin bit but certainly there was something unusual about the way he's hiding things. wave

Lookin wow not sure what you think goes on in Nimbin but pretty sure there's not exhibition bonking in the streets rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 6, 2013 5:00 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
LiLee
LiLeeLiLeeIpswich, Queensland Australia53 Threads 1,760 Posts
serene56: Hey K

Think all of the above goes for most dating sites


Geez Serene is there any hope for us crying

lol laugh
Oct 6, 2013 5:09 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
serene56: Hey K

Think all of the above goes for most dating sites


Hi Serene, wave CS is the only dating site I'm on and I know it's not for me to find someone on here. I think it depends what you are looking for (if you're looking for a hook-up in Ireland, that's the place to be dunno )

I can laugh about most of it and enjoy the forums and blogs. wine
Oct 6, 2013 5:10 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
LiLee: Geez Serene is there any hope for us

lol



Sorry hun giggle


Not saying that's all most guys are after, but dating sites are where they go if it is .. smorgasbord much? laugh
Oct 6, 2013 5:12 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
Newlife08
Newlife08Newlife08On the coast, Queensland Australia165 Threads 2,715 Posts


Good question Lilee, I hate time wasters so now I go with the upfront attitude, this me, this is how I look, this is how I live, this is what I think, if you don't like it now you won't like it in 6 mths or 6 yrs teddybear

No point pretending to be something I am not, you will get found out in the end and then its worse? wave
Oct 6, 2013 5:13 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
lonelygal122
lonelygal122lonelygal122HallsGap, Victoria Australia8 Threads 4,567 Posts
Newlife08: Good question Lilee, I hate time wasters so now I go with the upfront attitude, this me, this is how I look, this is how I live, this is what I think, if you don't like it now you won't like it in 6 mths or 6 yrs

No point pretending to be something I am not, you will get found out in the end and then its worse?
Couldn't have said it better myself.hug
Oct 6, 2013 5:18 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
LiLee: Sorry to hear you have had bad experiences KNenagh......it's a shame things start off on the wrong foot, doesn't stand a chance then and has put you off meeting perhaps a genuine person. All the best to you.


Thanks LiLee, wave and all the best to you. bouquet

I think if 2 people are honest and genuinely trying to make something work, it can happen. There are a good few couples who met on CS. heart1
Oct 6, 2013 5:21 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
I don’t think people are as dishonest as they appear. Everyone has a discomfort zone no matter who they are. Models suffer from some sort of inferiority complex too. I think the problem is trying to fit their situation into a new relationship without scaring people off.
Oct 6, 2013 5:30 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
justjim63: Sometimes the simplest of answers are the truest.



Kinda thought you'd get it jim laugh cheers
Oct 6, 2013 5:33 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
serene56: Kinda thought you'd get it jim


laugh wave wine
Oct 6, 2013 5:51 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
KNenagh: That's how it's supposed to be between consenting adults. We all know what we want at this stage, as
long as everyone's upfront about it, just enjoy.

What I don't get, I met lots of guys who tried to get their leg over anything breathing and they couldn't even be nice about it. No idea how they actually score sometimes.



Maybe we can assume they don't laugh
Oct 6, 2013 5:53 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
serene56: Maybe we can assume they don't


laugh wine
Oct 7, 2013 3:47 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
LiLee: oh dear I'm afraid to ask
I'm holding my breath for clarification . Hope no one's banned , this is lookin like a lookin thread .
Oct 7, 2013 3:55 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
LiLee
LiLeeLiLeeIpswich, Queensland Australia53 Threads 1,760 Posts
epirb: I'm holding my breath for clarification . Hope no one's banned , this is lookin like a lookin thread .


Looks like he's going to keep us in suspense epirb popcorn

laugh
Oct 7, 2013 4:13 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
LiLee: Looks like he's going to keep us in suspense epirb




think he thinks you have a mechanical hand lil to squash ba*ls dunno
Oct 7, 2013 4:15 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
blokes ones laugh
Oct 7, 2013 4:17 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
Lookin4missright: think he thinks you have a mechanical hand lil to squash ba*ls
what , so nothing to with a racquet then ?
Oct 7, 2013 4:21 AM CST Honesty.........is it a lonely word?
LiLee
LiLeeLiLeeIpswich, Queensland Australia53 Threads 1,760 Posts
Lookin4missright: blokes ones

Well if that's the case I might have to get me one of those grin

















Could be a cool party trick balloons


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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