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jem1964Mr Lookin: You should never be embarassed because of someone elses small mindedness in rejecting you for what ever reason. The rejection is theirs and for them to feel guilt/embarrassment for, not you.I didn't know you were an amputee but for me that just makes you more interesting as you have had to find ways of doing things that others would not consider.
To me it doesnt need to be in your profile as really it is something that is personal to you and doesnt need to be broadcast, you are you.
I will admit that there are things I dont share on my profile, only telling someone if I think it is beneficial to both us for them to know.
I suppose it comes down to that word "baggage"
We all have some, hopefully most of it is in th past, but some affects our every day lives and cannot be disregarded, but it is how we deal with the "baggage" that makes us the person we are.
I dont know that I would not be too impressed about the "white lie" about his Mum visiting, it is more than just a little thing and how did he think it was going to be in the future?
That's what i meant