azucena2013OPCaracas, Distrito Federal Venezuela42 posts
I have noticed that many men who approach us on these sites have the same behaviour, even when they are not scammers, because I met in person one of those men with these features, now I really regret to believe in such words...they all after the second or third contact by email or chat start talking about having a family with us, having children, or sometimes they even tell us that they love us, that they never felt that feeling before with anyone, that they want to hug, kiss and hold us in their arms. But then, when we meet both in person they act like the opposite what they pretended to be, they are not caring anymore, rude, and they even deny that they said all that BS on internet. Some of them just disappear after a few weeks or months. Why they do that? Why they pretend to be someone they are not? How is the behaviour of someone who is really serious during the first week of chatting with someone of his interest?
the internet dont ya just love it,,,,,,,,,,,lol, dont get your hope's up finding that one person online,,,,,distance just dont happen , to many forget Old School and how it use to be, Happy Holiday's !!
Dec 24, 2013 2:06 PM CST What do you all think of the men who after few days emailing or chatting tell you that they love you
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 posts
Ian158: anyone..man or women that claims to say they love you online without knowing you is full of BS..come on no ones that naive right ?
You'd be surprised. I'm never quite sure whether they are merely in love with the idea of love itself, or whether they are so needy that they assume a depth of relationship that a few messages does not warrant. Either way, best to steer clear...
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
azucena2013: I have noticed that many men who approach us on these sites have the same behaviour, even when they are not scammers, because I met in person one of those men with these features, now I really regret to believe in such words...they all after the second or third contact by email or chat start talking about having a family with us, having children, or sometimes they even tell us that they love us, that they never felt that feeling before with anyone, that they want to hug, kiss and hold us in their arms. But then, when we meet both in person they act like the opposite what they pretended to be, they are not caring anymore, rude, and they even deny that they said all that BS on internet. Some of them just disappear after a few weeks or months. Why they do that? Why they pretend to be someone they are not? How is the behaviour of someone who is really serious during the first week of chatting with someone of his interest?
Merry Christmas everyone!!!
They tried to attract women just simply to get what blood pressure wants. They usually only target they think as the easy ones of course. Since you are no longer challenge for him, he will easily move to the next target. Next time, just be carefully. Before it is very clear that he is truly potential, do not give your heart 100%. Many bitter people here. Better you spend your time with friends and who knows they probably have nice male friend.
PurplenailsSingapore, Central Singapore Singapore44 posts
azucena2013: I have noticed that many men who approach us on these sites have the same behaviour, even when they are not scammers, because I met in person one of those men with these features, now I really regret to believe in such words...they all after the second or third contact by email or chat start talking about having a family with us, having children, or sometimes they even tell us that they love us, that they never felt that feeling before with anyone, that they want to hug, kiss and hold us in their arms. But then, when we meet both in person they act like the opposite what they pretended to be, they are not caring anymore, rude, and they even deny that they said all that BS on internet. Some of them just disappear after a few weeks or months. Why they do that? Why they pretend to be someone they are not? How is the behaviour of someone who is really serious during the first week of chatting with someone of his interest?
Merry Christmas everyone!!!
Merry xmas to u and everyone. Men online are just like that. There are good and a lot are just trying to fool anyone they can. Dont be one of the fools. Be careful and be smart. Ths is not a place for innocent girl.
azucena2013: I have noticed that many men who approach us on these sites have the same behaviour, even when they are not scammers, because I met in person one of those men with these features, now I really regret to believe in such words...they all after the second or third contact by email or chat start talking about having a family with us, having children, or sometimes they even tell us that they love us, that they never felt that feeling before with anyone, that they want to hug, kiss and hold us in their arms. But then, when we meet both in person they act like the opposite what they pretended to be, they are not caring anymore, rude, and they even deny that they said all that BS on internet. Some of them just disappear after a few weeks or months. Why they do that? Why they pretend to be someone they are not? How is the behaviour of someone who is really serious during the first week of chatting with someone of his interest?
Merry Christmas everyone!!!
They're simply playing the hit and miss numbers game. No real interest in a particular woman....
DedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia5,492 posts
azucena2013: I have noticed that many men who approach us on these sites have the same behaviour, even when they are not scammers, because I met in person one of those men with these features, now I really regret to believe in such words...they all after the second or third contact by email or chat start talking about having a family with us, having children, or sometimes they even tell us that they love us, that they never felt that feeling before with anyone, that they want to hug, kiss and hold us in their arms. But then, when we meet both in person they act like the opposite what they pretended to be, they are not caring anymore, rude, and they even deny that they said all that BS on internet. Some of them just disappear after a few weeks or months. Why they do that? Why they pretend to be someone they are not? How is the behaviour of someone who is really serious during the first week of chatting with someone of his interest?
Merry Christmas everyone!!!
Im afarid I have some bad news,Its not them, its you ...
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Dedovix: Im afarid I have some bad news,Its not them, its you ...
Maybe you are setting your standards too high, and are acting superior and aloof, you should try to make friends with the guys. Sure they are going to try to get into your pants, that's what guys do.
The successful women can side step the approaches without appearing unapproachable, you should work on these skills, if you think guys are going to change their nature overnight you may have a long wait.
I would think that this man have liked you/your wording; not that that you seek so hard working and ambitious man of that age Ambitions must be time limited!
But I'm sure that ONLY the real world can meet a man and a woman in a serious thing.
I myself am after blondies so I'll leave for where they are most in abundance! France? Or Germany?
I really don't think every man or woman is like that. I've been singing in groups since I was 15 years old.( over 30 years now) During the breaks of concerts a lot of girls and women approached me and most compared me with great professional artists.( it's like they are saying, I love you to some one who seems to be comparable with their fantasy person) They all seemed to live in a fantasy world, their fantasy world. Even women who were in relationships. Always had fun and great nights, but never went home with one off them. Also there were these women who stayed in the background and just came to you to give a simple compliment or critic. Both feet on the ground. Several times it happened, I met these women for a dinner or drink a little later in the month and had a lot of great conversations, and yes, this way I met several female friends and with two of them I even had a long term relationship ( not at the same time lol) So I think it has to do with your own approach to people who say, based on two pictures and five e-mails, I love you. My idea, look for friends, and if you have a chance to meet them after a while, you'll figure out if they are worth to let love grow. but it needs more time, which no one seems to have, and also often the most nice people are not directly in your sight, although they give you a sign they are there.
azucena2013: I have noticed that many men who approach us on these sites have the same behaviour, even when they are not scammers, because I met in person one of those men with these features, now I really regret to believe in such words...they all after the second or third contact by email or chat start talking about having a family with us, having children, or sometimes they even tell us that they love us, that they never felt that feeling before with anyone, that they want to hug, kiss and hold us in their arms. But then, when we meet both in person they act like the opposite what they pretended to be, they are not caring anymore, rude, and they even deny that they said all that BS on internet. Some of them just disappear after a few weeks or months. Why they do that? Why they pretend to be someone they are not? How is the behaviour of someone who is really serious during the first week of chatting with someone of his interest?
Merry Christmas everyone!!!
do you have multiple profiles or personalities? What’s this thing you are referring to as “us”?
azucena2013: I have noticed that many men who approach us on these sites have the same behaviour, even when they are not scammers, because I met in person one of those men with these features, now I really regret to believe in such words...they all after the second or third contact by email or chat start talking about having a family with us, having children, or sometimes they even tell us that they love us, that they never felt that feeling before with anyone, that they want to hug, kiss and hold us in their arms. But then, when we meet both in person they act like the opposite what they pretended to be, they are not caring anymore, rude, and they even deny that they said all that BS on internet. Some of them just disappear after a few weeks or months. Why they do that? Why they pretend to be someone they are not? How is the behaviour of someone who is really serious during the first week of chatting with someone of his interest?
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Merry Christmas everyone!!!