Distance ( Archived) (32)

I have been giving this distance aspect of relationship a lot of thought lately. My conclusion is that in the last five months I have moved 3400 kms away from home and it hasn't affected me any in life or career. In all honesty, moving for reasons to have Endless Love, I would do it providing we shared mutual thoughts and dreams of what our relationship would inevitably become. We would be each other's best friend for life and expectations of a long term love, unity, trust, faithfulness, devotion, and appreciation would be our commitment to each other. It would take meeting each other in a certain element and for a period of a few weeks to consider the mental, emotional, and physical strength of our attraction for each other, but the reality is if it is true love, it will sustain itself on every level and not give itself to doubts or fears. That's my thoughts on it anyway, could be way out in left field, but I still hold out that there is a lady who wants to experience all the life enriching beauty of being in love with me and I with her.

Unfortunately luck has nothing to do with it. It's nothing more than two hearts coming together with a pure heart, pure emotion and pure willingness to give each other every ounce of themselves in mind, body and spirit and at all cost give each other unconditional love for life. Luck is for Los Vegas and hitting the right one armed bandit at the right time, with the right bet. For me love is not a gamble it is everything I dream and wish for and where I am in life and what I am willing to sacrifice and/or compromise to have it. It really is that simple

That's all lovely and sweet but you have to get to know them first, hence spending real time together. You can't have pure heart, emotion and willingness with just anyone! So it works better if you have practical opportunities of meeting up and getting accustomed to each other's company and habits etc. Good luck with your dream. Hope it comes true. :)[/quote

That's why I mentioned spending a few weeks together
I'm know there is the physical attraction that is needed but also how you feel inside spending quality time with each other. I would use it like a vacation and coordinate it so she was off work as well. Spending a couple of weeks would in many ways be an opportunity to see how natural things are between the two, if it doesn't work in that time, well a vacation is still always needed. God knows I need one