Halal & Pork ( Archived) (33)

Dec 11, 2014 12:45 PM CST Halal & Pork
Katiko
KatikoKatikofreiburg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany19 Threads 5 Polls 196 Posts
Imagine: There is this nice guy/girl writing to you few months already wanting to travel long distance just to meet you.
He/she is smart, funny, … .
And opened to the possibility to move to your town if it would turned out you would fell in love together.

There is only one "problem": food. He/She is muslim (or not in case you are).
And you love food & good alcohol wine You just love bacon. C'mmon, is there any meat product better that crisp bacon? (Well, there actually is: pata negra de bellota. And few smaller products ;)) )

Giving that both of you are looking for some serious relation you would assume that if you meet, have great time, fell in love,… you would one day move in together.
And live happily ever after heart wings
Unless...
Somehow I can not imagine a house of a muslim where it smells like fried bacon, and there is a half of the cured pig leg taking half of the countertop. Do you? ;)
doh



It may be I am exaggerating. Or not...
Do you have any experience with inter-religious (muslim, jewish, non believers, etc), food conflict in the couple? Was it easy to give up on products you like?
If not how would you go about it yourself?
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Dec 11, 2014 12:49 PM CST Halal & Pork
Katiko
KatikoKatikofreiburg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany19 Threads 5 Polls 196 Posts
Just to add.
When my ex (gluten- intolerant) moved out, I went to the kitchen and baked. I finally felt that I got back my freedom & joy from cooking and baking.
;)
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Dec 11, 2014 1:02 PM CST Halal & Pork
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
Katiko: Just to add.
When my ex (gluten- intolerant) moved out, I went to the kitchen and baked. I finally felt that I got back my freedom & joy from cooking and baking.
;)
never been someone in these backgrounds,beliefs..etc.thank god I couldn't live without bacon.laugh but nevertheless I don't believe in giving up certain things in life just to be with someone. Relationships are all about compromise,not to be unhappy and pretend your something your not!nothing. BTW this is a good topic for a thread..handshake cheers
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Dec 11, 2014 1:34 PM CST Halal & Pork
Katiko: Imagine: There is this nice guy/girl writing to you few months already wanting to travel long distance just to meet you.
He/she is smart, funny, … . And opened to the possibility to move to your town if it would turned out you would fell in love together.

There is only one "problem": food. He/She is muslim (or not in case you are).
And you love food & good alcohol You just love bacon. C'mmon, is there any meat product better that crisp bacon? (Well, there actually is: pata negra de bellota. And few smaller products ;)) )

Giving that both of you are looking for some serious relation you would assume that if you meet, have great time, fell in love,… you would one day move in together.
And live happily ever after
Unless...
Somehow I can not imagine a house of a muslim where it smells like fried bacon, and there is a half of the cured pig leg taking half of the countertop. Do you? ;)

It may be I am exaggerating. Or not...
Do you have any experience with inter-religious (muslim, jewish, non believers, etc), food conflict in the couple? Was it easy to give up on products you like?
If not how would you go about it yourself?


as long as the guy in question doesnt eat pork , surely he would respect you enough to respect the fact that your beliefs do no prohibit you from eating it ?
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Dec 11, 2014 2:04 PM CST Halal & Pork
GUZMAN1
GUZMAN1GUZMAN1Barcelona, Catalonia Spain65 Threads 44 Polls 5,101 Posts
Probably he couldn't accept pork in the kitchen, it's loathsome for the muslims. But about wine or beer, many aren't so very strict.
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Dec 11, 2014 2:59 PM CST Halal & Pork
Katiko
KatikoKatikofreiburg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany19 Threads 5 Polls 196 Posts
you naughty boy
I never heard that muslim cannot touch pork. I just heard they are not allowed to eat it.
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Dec 11, 2014 3:05 PM CST Halal & Pork
Katiko
KatikoKatikofreiburg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany19 Threads 5 Polls 196 Posts
ellimere: as long as the guy in question doesnt eat pork , surely he would respect you enough to respect the fact that your beliefs do no prohibit you from eating it ?


I am pretty sure you are right. And that he/she would not insist on you not eating it
Yet, he could request you do not cook it at home, if e.g. he cannot tolerate the smell (I know some vegetarian who don't like meat smell, and I don't like the smell of the pork myself, except bacon & pata negra)
But if you like to cook that could be a serious restriction on your invention (e.g. I am planning to bake a guinea flow covered in bacon stripes, as it seems to be one of the best recipes I found.
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Dec 13, 2014 3:35 AM CST Halal & Pork
postneoludite
postneoluditepostneoluditeWest Vancouver, British Columbia Canada39 Threads 22 Polls 890 Posts
You would quickly learn where the Muslim person stood on these issues.
I know non-practicing Muslims who eat pork and drink alcohol.

Muslims who are raised to revile pork will not want to be any where near it.

By comparison, how about a person who cooked rat or cat or dog?
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Dec 13, 2014 3:53 AM CST Halal & Pork
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
I think that the food issue would be the smallest problem in a relationship with someone from a different culture. wave
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Dec 13, 2014 4:10 AM CST Halal & Pork
Katiko: Imagine: There is this nice guy/girl writing to you few months already wanting to travel long distance just to meet you.
He/she is smart, funny, … . And opened to the possibility to move to your town if it would turned out you would fell in love together.

There is only one "problem": food. He/She is muslim (or not in case you are).
And you love food & good alcohol You just love bacon. C'mmon, is there any meat product better that crisp bacon? (Well, there actually is: pata negra de bellota. And few smaller products ;)) )

Giving that both of you are looking for some serious relation you would assume that if you meet, have great time, fell in love,… you would one day move in together.
And live happily ever after
Unless...
Somehow I can not imagine a house of a muslim where it smells like fried bacon, and there is a half of the cured pig leg taking half of the countertop. Do you? ;)

It may be I am exaggerating. Or not...
Do you have any experience with inter-religious (muslim, jewish, non believers, etc), food conflict in the couple? Was it easy to give up on products you like?
If not how would you go about it yourself?


I would never consider dating a muslim. period. end of story. problem solved. I can't possibly imagine being able to fall in love with any from Islam. The gulf is just too wide. I recommend simply not starting down that road.
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Dec 13, 2014 4:22 AM CST Halal & Pork
Katiko: you naughty boy
I never heard that muslim cannot touch pork. I just heard they are not allowed to eat it.


so it would be very important to establish right up front that these things are not changing....that she is not going to give up her current habits & religion, and not going to convert. I doubt a muslim would ever agree to that, as least not a devout one. So, again I just would not go down that road.

For anyone who is extremely religious,(as far as being able to live together); it would be a compatability issue and would probably depend on how devout the person is.

I mean, Catholics are not supposed to eat meant on Fridays, but it has been 20 years since I even thought about adhering to that practice. I couldn't care less, truthfully...(as an example)
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Dec 13, 2014 4:24 AM CST Halal & Pork
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
KNenagh: I think that the food issue would be the smallest problem in a relationship with someone from a different culture.


thumbs up
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Dec 13, 2014 4:36 AM CST Halal & Pork
GUZMAN1: Probably he couldn't accept pork in the kitchen, it's loathsome for the muslims. But about wine or beer, many aren't so very strict.
Yep. I had this conversation before with someone... just a few casual 'what ifs' scenario.

Some drink was totally acceptable. But... pork in the kitchen was not. And the deal breaker was having to prepare pork.
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Dec 13, 2014 5:11 AM CST Halal & Pork
PrettyPrescious
PrettyPresciousPrettyPresciousRenton, Washington USA8 Threads 2 Polls 355 Posts
I have experience with dating 2 Muslim men. The first guy was from a very wealthy family in UAE which is next to Saudi Arabia. Although raised Muslim, he kept wanting me to take him to a church! I wasn't going at the time, so it didn't happen. I only dated him a couple of months, and I think he was simply curious. He never said anything negative at all.
The second guy was from Iraq, and I was with him for 4 years; lived with him for half of that time. Even though he was Muslim, he was not very "religious"--I never saw him pray, ever, and he only went to Mosque with friends once, if ever. He never tried to preach to me. I loved bacon and was free to cook and eat it anytime, even though he would not eat it. Some people are relaxed about things, and others are rigid minded and fanatical! It varies from person to person. I would never associate with a fanatical person, or zealot. I can assure everyone that Christians tend to be the worst at cramming their beliefs onto others; I've only had one Muslim ever preach to me, but many, many, many Christians and Mormons, Jehovahs Witnesses, etc. have done so (includes door to door). Right now I'm with a Rastafari and I also have known/do know a few Rasta aquaintances, and they normally are not preachy. They tend to be very happy go lucky people.
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Dec 13, 2014 5:14 AM CST Halal & Pork
PrettyPrescious
PrettyPresciousPrettyPresciousRenton, Washington USA8 Threads 2 Polls 355 Posts
Forgot to mention that Rastafaris' do not eat pork either. Many don't eat meat at all; others only eat fish for meat...
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Dec 13, 2014 5:45 AM CST Halal & Pork
PrettyPrescious
PrettyPresciousPrettyPresciousRenton, Washington USA8 Threads 2 Polls 355 Posts
Okay, and that would be an extremist right there. I have no tolerance for over the edge fanatics, okay? life is too short and it would dampen my sense of humor...
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Dec 13, 2014 5:48 AM CST Halal & Pork
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
Katiko: Imagine: There is this nice guy/girl writing to you few months already wanting to travel long distance just to meet you.
He/she is smart, funny, … . And opened to the possibility to move to your town if it would turned out you would fell in love together.

There is only one "problem": food. He/She is muslim (or not in case you are).
And you love food & good alcohol You just love bacon. C'mmon, is there any meat product better that crisp bacon? (Well, there actually is: pata negra de bellota. And few smaller products ;)) )

Giving that both of you are looking for some serious relation you would assume that if you meet, have great time, fell in love,… you would one day move in together.
And live happily ever after
Unless...
Somehow I can not imagine a house of a muslim where it smells like fried bacon, and there is a half of the cured pig leg taking half of the countertop. Do you? ;)

It may be I am exaggerating. Or not...
Do you have any experience with inter-religious (muslim, jewish, non believers, etc), food conflict in the couple? Was it easy to give up on products you like?
If not how would you go about it yourself?


This has come up a few times here over the last few years. two words " Turkey Bacon"

professor
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Dec 13, 2014 5:53 AM CST Halal & Pork
PrettyPrescious
PrettyPresciousPrettyPresciousRenton, Washington USA8 Threads 2 Polls 355 Posts
Dragos1: This has come up a few times here over the last few years. two words " Turkey Bacon"


Now there's an idea! Healthier than pork. too thumbs up
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Dec 13, 2014 5:57 AM CST Halal & Pork
Katiko
KatikoKatikofreiburg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany19 Threads 5 Polls 196 Posts
That's a great idea peace
more if you live in US. confused

I never saw sth like that in Freiburg.
I'll go to check the arabic shop. Maybe they did.

cheers
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Dec 13, 2014 7:51 AM CST Halal & Pork
Leo_7
Leo_7Leo_7Baku, Azerbaijan87 Threads 16 Polls 2,514 Posts
Katiko: Imagine: There is this nice guy/girl writing to you few months already wanting to travel long distance just to meet you.
He/she is smart, funny, … . And opened to the possibility to move to your town if it would turned out you would fell in love together.

There is only one "problem": food. He/She is muslim (or not in case you are).
And you love food & good alcohol You just love bacon. C'mmon, is there any meat product better that crisp bacon? (Well, there actually is: pata negra de bellota. And few smaller products ;)) )

Giving that both of you are looking for some serious relation you would assume that if you meet, have great time, fell in love,… you would one day move in together.
And live happily ever after
Unless...
Somehow I can not imagine a house of a muslim where it smells like fried bacon, and there is a half of the cured pig leg taking half of the countertop. Do you? ;)

It may be I am exaggerating. Or not...
Do you have any experience with inter-religious (muslim, jewish, non believers, etc), food conflict in the couple? Was it easy to give up on products you like?
If not how would you go about it yourself?
I dont belong to any religion,but i dont like eating pork,too.Its may be cos pork is not popular in my country and we never eat it.We mostly eat beef and lamb meet.Once i mistakenly bought a pork(i thought its a beef) and when put in the hot fryer it smelled awfull.only the i understood that its pork.I hardly made myself to washroom cos the smell made me sick.I cannot take the smell of pork.But i love crispy bacon and parma ham.
Also i cannot take the smell of curry.So i cannot live with a woman that her kitchen smells pork or curry.Other than those,i m ok.Just keep away smelly things from me and from my kitchen.
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