I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year. First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable
Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviour
Acting like he was superior to me.
Anyone else had this experience? Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?
ChochetaBetween somewhere and nowhere, Gauteng South Africa1,019 Posts
ChochetaBetween somewhere and nowhere, Gauteng South Africa1,019 posts
Connie_: I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year. First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable
Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviourActing like he was superior to me.
Anyone else had this experience? Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?
Connie_: I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year. First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable
Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviourActing like he was superior to me.
Anyone else had this experience? Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?
Well, Canada is a beautiful country so hopefully the trip was valuable for that reason. it is also valuable, however, to learn that this person is not a good match for you. It sounds like he was being moody & distant, and not really explaining why. Usually I would interpret that to mean that he is not really interested in the relationship. (for whatever reason. it does not reflect poorly on you)
Connie_: I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year. First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable
Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviourActing like he was superior to me.
Anyone else had this experience? Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?
About a year and a half ago a similar thing happened to another lady
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
Connie_: I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year. First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable
Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviourActing like he was superior to me.
Anyone else had this experience? Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?
There must be some other nice guys in Canada or any country, just make sure you have the means to leave any moment you wish and always look for your safety and/or better stay in your place and look for local guys.
Connie_: I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year. First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable
Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviourActing like he was superior to me.
Anyone else had this experience? Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?
azucena2013Caracas, Distrito Federal Venezuela42 posts
I visited Australia 2 years ago and the man was totally different as he was online, he ignored me all the time, was drunk all the time. The experience was terrible. He lied that he had a good job and that he had a big house and he lived with his parents, jobless and his money spent only in alcohol.
azucena2013: I visited Australia 2 years ago and the man was totally different as he was online, he ignored me all the time, was drunk all the time. The experience was terrible. He lied that he had a good job and that he had a big house and he lived with his parents, jobless and his money spent only in alcohol.
Connie_: I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year. First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable
Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviourActing like he was superior to me.
Anyone else had this experience? Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?
I think the lesson to learn from this unhappy experience is always make up a "plan b" for when you travel and things don't work out. Always ensure that you have an exit strategy as well.
When I traveled to China to meet my now wife, I made sure that if things didn't work out, I was not locked into having to spend the whole time with her. But luckily for me, it all worked out really well.
Still, always have a backup plan and exit strategy in place prior to traveling to meet someone.
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First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable
Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviour
Acting like he was superior to me.
Anyone else had this experience?
Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?