I went to Canada... ( Archived) (26)

Feb 4, 2015 11:16 AM CST I went to Canada...
Connie_
Connie_Connie_Venice, Friuli-Venezia Giulia Italy1 Threads 1 Posts
I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year.
First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable

Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviour


Acting like he was superior to me.

Anyone else had this experience?
Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?
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Feb 4, 2015 11:18 AM CST I went to Canada...
Chocheta
ChochetaChochetaBetween somewhere and nowhere, Gauteng South Africa1,019 Posts
Connie_: I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year.
First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable

Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviourActing like he was superior to me.

Anyone else had this experience?
Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?


Aww... that sucks! comfort bouquet
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Feb 4, 2015 11:27 AM CST I went to Canada...
Harmony4
Harmony4Harmony4Port Of Spain, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago4 Threads 13 Posts
Does he have money because ?that's why some act that way. Sorry for your experience though
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Feb 4, 2015 2:28 PM CST I went to Canada...
Connie_: I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year.
First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable

Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviourActing like he was superior to me.

Anyone else had this experience?
Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?


Well, Canada is a beautiful country so hopefully the trip was valuable for that reason. it is also valuable, however, to learn that this person is not a good match for you. It sounds like he was being moody & distant, and not really explaining why. Usually I would interpret that to mean that he is not really interested in the relationship. (for whatever reason. it does not reflect poorly on you)hug
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Feb 4, 2015 2:30 PM CST I went to Canada...
Lara_
Lara_Lara_Milky Way, Earth, La Pampa Argentina9 Threads 5 Polls 84 Posts
Those evil Canadian men!... scold


Give me a break... laugh
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Feb 4, 2015 2:35 PM CST I went to Canada...
Lara_: Those evil Canadian men!... Give me a break...


or....maybe it was his EVIL TWINuh oh



rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 4, 2015 2:56 PM CST I went to Canada...
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
wave What Province?popcorn
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Feb 4, 2015 3:00 PM CST I went to Canada...
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
pedalguy59: What Province?


Gonna track him down? boxing
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Feb 4, 2015 3:22 PM CST I went to Canada...
Justus1
Justus1Justus1Kitchener, Ontario Canada5 Threads 187 Posts
Connie_: I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year.
First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable

Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviourActing like he was superior to me.

Anyone else had this experience?
Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?


About a year and a half ago a similar thing happened to another lady




I wonder if this is the same guy

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Feb 4, 2015 3:25 PM CST I went to Canada...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I've don't think I've ever experienced something such what you went through.
It appears that people do tend to show their true colors.
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Feb 4, 2015 4:26 PM CST I went to Canada...
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
I've been to Canada a few times, and despite the stereotype, nobody apologised to me at all. blues


Feel free to apologise now laugh
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Feb 4, 2015 4:33 PM CST I went to Canada...
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Connie_: I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year.
First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable

Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviourActing like he was superior to me.

Anyone else had this experience?
Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?


There must be some other nice guys in Canada or any country, just make sure you have the means to leave any moment you wish and always look for your safety and/or better stay in your place and look for local guys.




bouquet
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Feb 4, 2015 5:09 PM CST I went to Canada...
Borja22
Borja22Borja22Picardie, Hauts-de-France France18 Threads 1 Polls 91 Posts
Connie_: I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year.
First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable

Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviourActing like he was superior to me.

Anyone else had this experience?
Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?

I never get any sense out of Canadians, oddballs.
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Feb 4, 2015 5:16 PM CST I went to Canada...
flaviarj
flaviarjflaviarjRio de Janeiro, Brazil2 Threads 11 Posts
well i guess you should share his profile with us than we'll be able to stay away from a man like this
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Mar 19, 2015 4:05 PM CST I went to Canada...
SweetOfMilk
SweetOfMilkSweetOfMilkAttock, FATA Pakistan7 Threads 2 Polls 120 Posts
Did u see Bryan Adams?
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Mar 19, 2015 5:15 PM CST I went to Canada...
azucena2013
azucena2013azucena2013Caracas, Distrito Federal Venezuela3 Threads 42 Posts
I visited Australia 2 years ago and the man was totally different as he was online, he ignored me all the time, was drunk all the time. The experience was terrible. He lied that he had a good job and that he had a big house and he lived with his parents, jobless and his money spent only in alcohol.
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Mar 19, 2015 5:22 PM CST I went to Canada...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
If I ever went abroad to see somebody, I would go with no expectations, and plan a proper holiday around it .

Then, if it did work out..brilliant. b

But if it didn't, I'd make sure I still had a fantastic holiday! cheering
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Mar 19, 2015 5:25 PM CST I went to Canada...
SweetOfMilk
SweetOfMilkSweetOfMilkAttock, FATA Pakistan7 Threads 2 Polls 120 Posts
azucena2013: I visited Australia 2 years ago and the man was totally different as he was online, he ignored me all the time, was drunk all the time. The experience was terrible. He lied that he had a good job and that he had a big house and he lived with his parents, jobless and his money spent only in alcohol.



You have the worst luck in men I have ever seen!
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Mar 19, 2015 5:31 PM CST I went to Canada...
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
2girlsnocup: I've been to Canada a few times, and despite the stereotype, nobody apologised to me at all. Feel free to apologise now


sorry.....?

maybe you didn't bump into enough people.... dunno


were you in quebec? ....laugh
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Mar 21, 2015 1:58 AM CST I went to Canada...
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
Connie_: I went to Canada to visit a man with whom I speaking for almost a year.
First two days were ok, but later on he began to act so different, almost unrecognizable

Insulting and nice at the same time, fake-nice behaviourActing like he was superior to me.

Anyone else had this experience?
Why tell someone to go visit if you treat them bad?


I think the lesson to learn from this unhappy experience is always make up a "plan b" for when you travel and things don't work out. Always ensure that you have an exit strategy as well.

When I traveled to China to meet my now wife, I made sure that if things didn't work out, I was not locked into having to spend the whole time with her. But luckily for me, it all worked out really well.

Still, always have a backup plan and exit strategy in place prior to traveling to meet someone.

JMO.
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