Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall ( Archived) (41)

Feb 12, 2015 7:08 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Many people have had painful , acrimonious, breakups.

The other person , at the end, bore no resemble to the person they had started dating, and fell in love with.

But didn't they, really?

Were the telltale signs there even then? But they were overlooked or ignored?

Was the writing on the wall all the time, but got covered over in a coat of glossy paint?
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Feb 12, 2015 7:34 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Yes, sort of, it was Alcohol that caused a complete personality
change that I could not deal with.blues
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Feb 12, 2015 7:37 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
pedalguy59: Yes, sort of, it was Alcohol that caused a complete personality
change that I could not deal with.


Hi Pedshug

So neither alcohol nor bad personality traits were there at tge beginning?
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Feb 12, 2015 7:40 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
mollybaby: Hi Peds

So neither alcohol nor bad personality traits were there at tge beginning?


Alcohol was, but we were 20 at the time, and most of our peers
were in a party atmosphere at the time. At some point the party
should end, but for some they don't stop.
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Feb 12, 2015 7:46 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
pedalguy59: Alcohol was, but we were 20 at the time, and most of our peers
were in a party atmosphere at the time. At some point the party
should end, but for some they don't stop.


True hug
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Feb 12, 2015 8:17 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
johnjjm
johnjjmjohnjjmco westmeath0000, Westmeath Ireland563 Posts
mollybaby: Many people have had painful , acrimonious, breakups.

The other person , at the end, bore no resemble to the person they had started dating, and fell in love with.

But didn't they, really?

Were the telltale signs there even then? But they were overlooked or ignored?

Was the writing on the wall all the time, but got covered over in a coat of glossy paint?
yep its a interesting topic and I agree I have fallen in there saying she will change it will be okay I will get used to then it gets kindsa part of you but you don't really be comfortable with and truth be from the start it was never going to happen but as you said before you get wiser how are you are you okay often wonder when I see you on here hope all is improved
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Feb 12, 2015 8:21 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
johnjjm: yep its a interesting topic and I agree I have fallen in there saying she will change it will be okay I will get used to then it gets kindsa part of you but you don't really be comfortable with and truth be from the start it was never going to happen but as you said before you get wiser how are you are you okay often wonder when I see you on here hope all is improved


Hi JJ hug

Well said.

All good here, apart from a stupid chest infection which has kept me off work ( and on CS!) for the last 2 days mumbling
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Feb 12, 2015 8:22 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
mollybaby: Hi JJ

Well said.

All good here, apart from a stupid chest infection which has kept me off work ( and on CS!) for the last 2 days


I could rub some Vicks on for you.grin
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Feb 12, 2015 8:26 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
pedalguy59: I could rub some Vicks on for you.


What a thoughtful, selfless , person you are....laugh
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Feb 12, 2015 9:25 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
OgGoDeo
OgGoDeoOgGoDeogalway, Galway Ireland19 Threads 248 Posts
mollybaby: Many people have had painful , acrimonious, breakups.

The other person , at the end, bore no resemble to the person they had started dating, and fell in love with.

But didn't they, really?

Were the telltale signs there even then? But they were overlooked or ignored?

Was the writing on the wall all the time, but got covered over in a coat of glossy paint?
i think that in the early stages of a relationship from dating to falling in love people are usually so blissfully happy that they only see the good points of the other person.....there are lots of romantic nights, weekends away etc so it is easy to always be in good form and we think that things are always going to be a bed of roses....it is only when, if the relationship develops further, real life takes over with, perhaps, mortgages, children, all sorts of responsibilities that the gloss can go off things a bit.....unfortunately when things go sour it is very often in our nature to think that it is the other person's fault and not anything to do with ourselves....jmo...
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Feb 12, 2015 9:30 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
OgGoDeo: i think that in the early stages of a relationship from dating to falling in love people are usually so blissfully happy that they only see the good points of the other person.....there are lots of romantic nights, weekends away etc so it is easy to always be in good form and we think that things are always going to be a bed of roses....it is only when, if the relationship develops further, real life takes over with, perhaps, mortgages, children, all sorts of responsibilities that the gloss can go off things a bit.....unfortunately when things go sour it is very often in our nature to think that it is the other person's fault and not anything to do with ourselves....jmo...


True words handshake
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Feb 12, 2015 10:08 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin

Measured and found wanting?laugh
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Feb 12, 2015 10:49 AM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Conrad73: Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin

Measured and found wanting?


Maybe we should get the measuring tape out on the first date? grin
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Feb 12, 2015 12:24 PM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mollybaby: Hi JJ

Well said.

All good here, apart from a stupid chest infection which has kept me off work ( and on CS!) for the last 2 days


Oh dear Molly hug

Don't let them fall off nowcomfort
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Feb 12, 2015 1:06 PM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
uptall: Oh dear Molly

Don't let them fall off now


Don't worry, neither gravity nor infections affect them daisy daisy
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Feb 12, 2015 1:22 PM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mollybaby: Don't worry, neither gravity nor infections affect them


I'm sooo pleased to hear that Molly hug
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Feb 12, 2015 1:25 PM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
mollybaby: Maybe we should get the measuring tape out on the first date?
laugh
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Feb 12, 2015 1:45 PM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
uptall: I'm sooo pleased to hear that Molly



You are always looking out for my best assets interests..grin
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Feb 12, 2015 1:47 PM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mollybaby: You are always looking out for my best assets interests..



I'd love to look after your assets Molly grin
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Feb 12, 2015 1:56 PM CST Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin AKA Writing On The Wall
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
uptall: I'd love to look after your assets Molly



grin

Anyways.....hijack


grin
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