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online today!online today!ali110Hamburg, Germany1,842 Threads 428 Polls 27,973 PostsWhy there are lot of Divorces and single seprated lives in western world , what are the Basic reasons ?
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Ali.
Because most men are more interested in drinking beer than sleeping with the misses.
Because most men are more interested in drinking beer than sleeping with the misses.
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ali110: Why there are lot of Divorces and single seprated lives in western world , what are the Basic reasons ?
Freedom from.......................
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allthegoodnamest: Ali.
Because most men are more interested in drinking beer than sleeping with the misses.
and Poor Cs women say they are looking for true love Because most men are more interested in drinking beer than sleeping with the misses.
Hi Good bro
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Ali.
Nah.. The women on cs are more interested in politics and feminism.
Hi to you Ali.. How's the mysterious east?
Nah.. The women on cs are more interested in politics and feminism.
Hi to you Ali.. How's the mysterious east?
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Ali.
All good mate.. Can't wait for the spring.. Lovely flowers blossoming, birds singing, short skirts reappearing.. Bliss.
All good mate.. Can't wait for the spring.. Lovely flowers blossoming, birds singing, short skirts reappearing.. Bliss.
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allthegoodnamest: Ali.
All good mate.. Can't wait for the spring.. Lovely flowers blossoming, birds singing, short skirts reappearing.. Bliss.
same here , we have spring and i planted some crops in early Spring All good mate.. Can't wait for the spring.. Lovely flowers blossoming, birds singing, short skirts reappearing.. Bliss.
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ali110: Why there are lot of Divorces and single seprated lives in western world , what are the Basic reasons ?
Because they can.
There are many reason ranging from one of them cheating, to just falling out of love.
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ali110: Why there are lot of Divorces and single seprated lives in western world , what are the Basic reasons ?
Because women have the right under the law to divorce. That women in the western world have the ability and full protection of the law to choice to live their lives with or without a husband.
It is not like in some backward nations were women are chattel or possessions or properties of men.
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It's not always the mans fault.
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allthegoodnamest: It's not always the mans fault.
True - this is not about fault - as there are no fault divorces.
It is about a woman's choice! Viva the law that gives women the choice!
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Excerpt from the Smithsonian....
The fact is, in the United States the probability of a first marriage lasting for 20 years has decreased to about 50-50. (Before anyone blames Western decadence for the breakdown of the family, it should be pointed out that the Maldives occupies the number one spot in the divorce league tables, followed by Belarus. The United States is third.) Furthermore, these grim statistics don’t even touch on the reality that for an increasing percentage of the population, life is a series of short cohabitations punctuated by the arrival of children.
divorce is, and always has been, a women’s issue par excellence.
Multiple studies have shown that women bear the brunt of the social and economic burdens that come with divorce. The quickest route to poverty is to become a single mother. This is awful enough, but what I find so galling is that the right to divorce was meant to be a cornerstone of liberty for women.
For centuries, divorce in the West was a male tool of control—a legislative chastity belt designed to ensure that a wife had one master, while a husband could enjoy many mistresses. It is as though, having denied women their cake for so long, the makers have no wish to see them enjoy it.
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The fact is, in the United States the probability of a first marriage lasting for 20 years has decreased to about 50-50. (Before anyone blames Western decadence for the breakdown of the family, it should be pointed out that the Maldives occupies the number one spot in the divorce league tables, followed by Belarus. The United States is third.) Furthermore, these grim statistics don’t even touch on the reality that for an increasing percentage of the population, life is a series of short cohabitations punctuated by the arrival of children.
divorce is, and always has been, a women’s issue par excellence.
Multiple studies have shown that women bear the brunt of the social and economic burdens that come with divorce. The quickest route to poverty is to become a single mother. This is awful enough, but what I find so galling is that the right to divorce was meant to be a cornerstone of liberty for women.
For centuries, divorce in the West was a male tool of control—a legislative chastity belt designed to ensure that a wife had one master, while a husband could enjoy many mistresses. It is as though, having denied women their cake for so long, the makers have no wish to see them enjoy it.
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ali110: Why there are lot of Divorces and single seprated lives in western world , what are the Basic reasons ?
I think it is the result of many things and a combination of things:
• Lacking strong moral convictions
• Taking advantage of “easy” divorce laws
• Striving for financial and material gain
• Seeking fulfillment in a career
• Looking for self-centered happiness
• Emphasizing “personal rights”
• Experiencing identity issues, mid-life crisis or empty nest syndrome
• Missing a sense of meaning and purpose to life
• Believing in the myth of the “ideal marriage”
and
• A hardened-hearted spouse:
-Feels dissatisfied with marriage and determines the other partner is at fault
-allows some event (could be minor) to trigger a desire for a divorce
-does not openly communicate the anger but the dynamic of relating is affected
-keeps a running mental journal of perceived injustices from partner -remains aloof and brooding while looking for a reason to break up
The marriage
-decides suddenly to leave because of a crisis or some outside interest
-feels completely justified, becomes resolute and determined to get a divorce
JMO
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ali110: Why there are lot of Divorces and single seprated lives in western world , what are the Basic reasons ?
Different reasons for different people. In my mother's time, it was not accepted to divorce. People do not divorce if the marriage is good. Should people stay together if they are not happy with each other?
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Nidifugous: Different reasons for different people. In my mother's time, it was not accepted to divorce. People do not divorce if the marriage is good. Should people stay together if they are not happy with each other?
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ali110: Why there are lot of Divorces and single seprated lives in western world , what are the Basic reasons ?
Times have certainly changed, haven't they? Within my lifetime, America was largely rural--more people, overall, lived on small farms, ranches, etc...Work days were at least ten, if not twelve or more hours, food was cultivated, stored, and eaten from scratch. Entertainment and home economics were home-spun, and people were either busy at work or leisure. In short, the family milieu was concentrated, and often went about like clockwork. Not much time to feel sorry for oneself. Now, America is more urban than not, we have the NOW organization and other women empowerment movements, society overall seems to have decided that partnerships and marriage are NOT the ideal and/or priority, and unpleasant marriages (because of lack of aforethought, if you ask me) are dissolved with not much fanfare. People don't stay in situations they don't want to deal with. Marriage/Civil Union is WORK, and too often, when one or the other or both realize this, they give up, because people are largely lazy. JMO------ This thread is Archived ------
allthegoodnamest: Ali.
Because most men are more interested in drinking beer than sleeping with the misses.
Many marriages hit the rocks because either partner doesn't know how to appreciate his or her own interests on an individual bases, and therefore not have adamant expectations of the other. Some of the best marriages are colored by separate hobbies and sometimes, sports, etc... without compelling the husband or wife to participate. It is a wise couple that knows when to leave the other alone.Because most men are more interested in drinking beer than sleeping with the misses.
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They are way to lazy to put any work in their marriages and take the easy way out.
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Ccincy: They are way to lazy to put any work in their marriages and take the easy way out.
Absolutely. Marriages are often not taken for the sovereignty of two loving people that they are supposed to be. It is extremely serious, not a light-hearted, la dee dah kind of venture.------ This thread is Archived ------
rohaan: Times have certainly changed, haven't they? Within my lifetime, America was largely rural--more people, overall, lived on small farms, ranches, etc...Work days were at least ten, if not twelve or more hours, food was cultivated, stored, and eaten from scratch. Entertainment and home economics were home-spun, and people were either busy at work or leisure. In short, the family milieu was concentrated, and often went about like clockwork. Not much time to feel sorry for oneself. Now, America is more urban than not, we have the NOW organization and other women empowerment movements, society overall seems to have decided that partnerships and marriage are NOT the ideal and/or priority, and unpleasant marriages (because of lack of aforethought, if you ask me) are dissolved with not much fanfare. People don't stay in situations they don't want to deal with. Marriage/Civil Union is WORK, and too often, when one or the other or both realize this, they give up, because people are largely lazy. JMO
I need to be completely honest and say this, as well. For this moment in time, I have decided not to even try to partner up. In recent months, it has become glaringly apparent to me that people (in my case, another guy) are WAY too much work, and for that reason, I opt out of any of it. This does not, however, make me lazy, because I am purposefully NOT entering a relationship, so am not inconveniencing or interrupting or dislodging anyone else's life. I see solitude as a valid choice, and hey, at least you're not screwing up someone else.
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