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I would take heed of Mr Pepperonis advice and visit said "advice thread"....It could be the way forward in youre soulmate searching shenanagins...

Mate, with a question like this, it proves that you really have no idea about dating, and about reality.

1) You don't meet a 'soul mate' on the internet, you meet people who you like and might want to actually get to know offline.

2) When you meet these women, you then have to actually date them in real life, share many experiences and see if she and yourself are really like what you both portray online.

3) You have to realistically define 'soul mate' for you, and she also must realistic define 'soul mate' for her. There will always be differences in these definitions.

4) The longer you are with a person, the more they change. Change in inevitable, so the person who is your 'soul mate' today, may not be your 'soul mate' tomorrow. Try to find someone you can commit to and someone who can commit to you. You will have a better chance for a lasting relationship than with a 'soul mate' and no commitment.

Hope these might help you to answer your question, and perhaps evaluate what you are really looking for and what the right question to ask yourself is.......

Cheers.

locality has nothing to do,weather someone is a "genuine"
soul mate,or not.