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Apr 30, 2015 12:38 AM CST Another hypothetical situation
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
One that I am not in.

Let's say you've been with your partner for 5 yrs and you caught him/her cheating on you with your sibling of all people! Would/could you forgive both or just one and not the other. Which one could/would you forgive, and why?
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Apr 30, 2015 1:15 AM CST Another hypothetical situation
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
My sibling/s,under age,or over age, is inacceptable.-

He/she has to go.
Friskyone: One that I am not in.

Let's say you've been with your partner for 5 yrs and you caught him/her cheating on you with your sibling of all people! Would/could you forgive both or just one and not the other. Which one could/would you forgive, and why?
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Apr 30, 2015 1:16 AM CST Another hypothetical situation
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
unacceptable
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Apr 30, 2015 8:44 AM CST Another hypothetical situation
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
Friskyone: One that I am not in.

Let's say you've been with your partner for 5 yrs and you caught him/her cheating on you with your sibling of all people! Would/could you forgive both or just one and not the other. Which one could/would you forgive, and why?


I know that stuff happens in reality. I wouldn't forgive either of them for stabbing me in the back. They can both leave and have each other.
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Apr 30, 2015 11:13 AM CST Another hypothetical situation
Friskyone: One that I am not in.

Let's say you've been with your partner for 5 yrs and you caught him/her cheating on you with your sibling of all people! Would/could you forgive both or just one and not the other. Which one could/would you forgive, and why?
I would say it's difficult enough to handle one whammy, but TWO--you know, this would certainly be a deal breaker for me, and probably neither would be anywhere near my radar after that. DONE.
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Apr 30, 2015 11:27 AM CST Another hypothetical situation
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
In response to: One that I am not in.

Let's say you've been with your partner for 5 yrs and you caught him/her cheating on you with your sibling of all people! Would/could you forgive both or just one and not the other. Which one could/would you forgive, and why?


Caught one of my exes in a heavy petting session with my cousin once, in the basement of my house. didn't forgive either one of them! very mad
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Apr 30, 2015 11:31 AM CST Another hypothetical situation
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
michael63ca: Caught one of my exes in a heavy petting session with my cousin once, in the basement of my house. didn't forgive either one of them!


I too caught my cousin being unfaithful with my brother, I tried to be understanding and in the end sold her to him for $10.
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Apr 30, 2015 11:35 AM CST Another hypothetical situation
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
In response to: One that I am not in.

Let's say you've been with your partner for 5 yrs and you caught him/her cheating on you with your sibling of all people! Would/could you forgive both or just one and not the other. Which one could/would you forgive, and why?


That was a good deal! I got nothing! But I kicked them BOTH out! (I was letting him stay at my place because he was broke and jobless) how is that for gratitude?
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Apr 30, 2015 11:36 AM CST Another hypothetical situation
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
tomcatwarne: I too caught my cousin being unfaithful with my brother, I tried to be understanding and in the end sold her to him for $10.


That was a good deal! I got nothing! But I kicked them BOTH out! (I was letting him stay at my place because he was broke and jobless) how is that for gratitude?
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Apr 30, 2015 11:39 AM CST Another hypothetical situation
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Friskyone: One that I am not in.

Let's say you've been with your partner for 5 yrs and you caught him/her cheating on you with your sibling of all people! Would/could you forgive both or just one and not the other. Which one could/would you forgive, and why?


Couldn't see that happening looking back at my sister and himself. dunno

Would cut both of them out of my life.
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Apr 30, 2015 11:45 AM CST Another hypothetical situation
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Friskyone: One that I am not in.

Let's say you've been with your partner for 5 yrs and you caught him/her cheating on you with your sibling of all people! Would/could you forgive both or just one and not the other. Which one could/would you forgive, and why?


Cheating is simply that and I would not forgive either of them.
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Apr 30, 2015 11:48 AM CST Another hypothetical situation
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
michael63ca: That was a good deal! I got nothing! But I kicked them BOTH out! (I was letting him stay at my place because he was broke and jobless) how is that for gratitude?


Aww nightmare, you should have held out for at least five camelsgrin grin cheers
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Apr 30, 2015 1:57 PM CST Another hypothetical situation
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
What about the saying "blood is thicker than water"? So the general consensus here is even though a family member betrayed you they are not worthy of your forgiveness?
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Apr 30, 2015 2:16 PM CST Another hypothetical situation
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
Friskyone: What about the saying "blood is thicker than water"? So the general consensus here is even though a family member betrayed you they are not worthy of your forgiveness?


Exactly. I'd expect my blood relative not to stab me in the back before I expect it from a non-relative. If they do, they show that the blood relationship means nothing to them. So they are no longer part of my family. Snip - cut the chord.
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Apr 30, 2015 2:22 PM CST Another hypothetical situation
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Since all my older siblings were much older then me that wouldn't happen.They would be like that persons grandparent.laugh
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Apr 30, 2015 2:44 PM CST Another hypothetical situation
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
Friskyone: What about the saying "blood is thicker than water"? So the general consensus here is even though a family member betrayed you they are not worthy of your forgiveness?


If they were a "family" member why would they betray you in the first place? Where was their sense of "blood is thicker than water?"
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Apr 30, 2015 3:10 PM CST Another hypothetical situation
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
laugh laugh laugh
tomcatwarne: I too caught my cousin being unfaithful with my brother, I tried to be understanding and in the end sold her to him for $10.
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Apr 30, 2015 3:13 PM CST Another hypothetical situation
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
Friskyone: One that I am not in.

Let's say you've been with your partner for 5 yrs and you caught him/her cheating on you with your sibling of all people! Would/could you forgive both or just one and not the other. Which one could/would you forgive, and why?


I very much doubt she'd want to cheat on me with my sibling. laugh
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Apr 30, 2015 3:23 PM CST Another hypothetical situation
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
It clouds minds,if the cheating relatives blood reach boiling point.
michael63ca: If they were a "family" member why would they betray you in the first place? Where was their sense of "blood is thicker than water?"
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Apr 30, 2015 5:05 PM CST Another hypothetical situation
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
I agree that siblings sho never hurt each other and everyone but myself is on the same page here. I believe, not 100% sure since it's never happened before, but I DO believe in blood being thicker than water, and when it all boils down to it, she is still my sister and I do love her. Don't get me wrong, I would be super-pissed at her and probably for a long time but I THINK I could/would forgive her.
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