Casual or committed? (37)
tarrisnew plymouth, Taranaki New Zealand4 Threads 395 PostsWhich is the better way and why?
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tarris: Which is the better way and why?
Somewhere in between those two options would be cool.
Casual is meaningless for me. I'd rather be on my own.
I couldn't offer a full me in a committed relationship right at this point in time.
... perhaps someone who is attracted to me as I am to him, a boyfriend/girlfriend arrangement....that doesn't mean friends with benefits....it means exclusive. Someone I can be spontaneous with, pick up the phone and call and get away for the weekend at the last minute. Someone who understands I can't be available to him all the time. I do miss being with a man....the emotional and physical intimacy.
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tarris: Which is the better way and why?
The one or the other can be better, the question is how you justify and who believes,,
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tarris: Which is the better way and why?
Which is the better way?
Each to their own.
Depends on their circumstances.
Neither is right nor wrong.
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BerrySmoothie: Somewhere in between those two options would be cool.
Casual is meaningless for me. I'd rather be on my own.
I couldn't offer a full me in a committed relationship right at this point in time.
... perhaps someone who is attracted to me as I am to him, a boyfriend/girlfriend arrangement....that doesn't mean friends with benefits....it means exclusive. Someone I can be spontaneous with, pick up the phone and call and get away for the weekend at the last minute. Someone who understands I can't be available to him all the time. I do miss being with a man....the emotional and physical intimacy.
Casual is meaningless for me. I'd rather be on my own.
I couldn't offer a full me in a committed relationship right at this point in time.
... perhaps someone who is attracted to me as I am to him, a boyfriend/girlfriend arrangement....that doesn't mean friends with benefits....it means exclusive. Someone I can be spontaneous with, pick up the phone and call and get away for the weekend at the last minute. Someone who understands I can't be available to him all the time. I do miss being with a man....the emotional and physical intimacy.
Excuse all that spiel. I mis-read the question....
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Well, if you'r good at knitting, I think you should commit to making jumpers for the whole family.
If on the other hand you can barely knit a square, it's probably best to keep it a casual hobby. Nobody needs all that many wonky, holey squares.
If on the other hand you can barely knit a square, it's probably best to keep it a casual hobby. Nobody needs all that many wonky, holey squares.
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jac_the_gripper: Well, if you'r good at knitting, I think you should commit to making jumpers for the whole family.
If on the other hand you can barely knit a square, it's probably best to keep it a casual hobby. Nobody needs all that many wonky, holey squares.
If on the other hand you can barely knit a square, it's probably best to keep it a casual hobby. Nobody needs all that many wonky, holey squares.
As Rumpole would say, a very autistic answer.
For myself I am committed if I love someone, they have my undivided love always.
Having said that i have known some very strong minded women and I don't believe anyone should be dominated and used because of their devotion.
But I believe a couple in a relationship should be committed to each other 100%.
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tomcatwarne: As Rumpole would say, a very autistic answer.
For myself I am committed if I love someone, they have my undivided love always.
Having said that i have known some very strong minded women and I don't believe anyone should be dominated and used because of their devotion.
But I believe a couple in a relationship should be committed to each other 100%.
For myself I am committed if I love someone, they have my undivided love always.
Having said that i have known some very strong minded women and I don't believe anyone should be dominated and used because of their devotion.
But I believe a couple in a relationship should be committed to each other 100%.
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tomcatwarne: As Rumpole would say, a very autistic answer.
For myself I am committed if I love someone, they have my undivided love always.
Having said that i have known some very strong minded women and I don't believe anyone should be dominated and used because of their devotion.
But I believe a couple in a relationship should be committed to each other 100%.
For myself I am committed if I love someone, they have my undivided love always.
Having said that i have known some very strong minded women and I don't believe anyone should be dominated and used because of their devotion.
But I believe a couple in a relationship should be committed to each other 100%.
Nothing wrong with a strong-minded woman Tom, but I do get you on not needing to be dominated. I run and duck for cover if someone is being too controlling. Though having said that, I prefer strong men who take control of the wheel occasionally...especially in certain areas of the partnership.
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I think whatever both want, and need, at that precise moment in time, is what is best.
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no one is committed...to love someone...it is born out of friendship. that grows over time...(eg)..like a nice log fire. the warmeth /relaxing feeling inside.ones self.if so..that fire will never go out......if you get my drift.
morning all...
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truheart1941: no one is committed...to love someone...it is born out of friendship. that grows over time...(eg)..like a nice log fire. the warmeth /relaxing feeling inside.ones self.if so..that fire will never go out......if you get my drift.
morning all...
morning all...
Morning, my little custard cream
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mollybaby: Morning, my little custard cream
Morning...my little doughnut....
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truheart1941: Morning...my little doughnut....
Jam or with the hole?
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mollybaby: Jam or with the hole?
no just..sugar...(sweet).....
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truheart1941: no just..sugar...(sweet).....
I'd give you diabetes, sugar plum
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truheart1941: no just..sugar...(sweet).....
The Kracken awakes
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mollybaby: I'd give you diabetes, sugar plum
no record of diabetics in my family tree...so i,m safe....
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tomcatwarne: The Kracken awakes
morninf Tom.... 
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How about committed in a casual way?
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