Casual or committed? ( Archived) (37)

May 16, 2015 5:51 AM CST Casual or committed?
rebel2: How about committed in a casual way?
like: bang/bang thankyou mame.....uh oh uh oh writing keep wearing your C/belts girls.....grin
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May 16, 2015 5:54 AM CST Casual or committed?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
truheart1941: like: bang/bang thankyou mame..... keep wearing your C/belts girls.....
shock Remarks like that will get me a bad name! snooty
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May 16, 2015 5:54 AM CST Casual or committed?
Cocheta
CochetaCochetaunknown, Western Cape South Africa1 Threads 2,021 Posts
rebel2: How about committed in a casual way?

There's a happy medium, right there laugh hug
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May 16, 2015 5:56 AM CST Casual or committed?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
Cocheta: There's a happy medium, right there
grin Hello gorgeous wink teddybear
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May 16, 2015 6:04 AM CST Casual or committed?
Cocheta
CochetaCochetaunknown, Western Cape South Africa1 Threads 2,021 Posts
rebel2: Hello gorgeous

Hi handsome hug teddybear
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May 16, 2015 6:11 AM CST Casual or committed?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
tarris: Which is the better way and why?


The man in a casual relationship has the option of getting more serious if he wants. He is in a much stronger position than she is.(Exceptions exist).

However, to meet a girl so incredible it leaves you with no intention of putting her on the back burner is the best thing of all.
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May 16, 2015 6:46 AM CST Casual or committed?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Obstinance_Works: The man in a casual relationship has the option of getting more serious if he wants. He is in a much stronger position than she is.(Exceptions exist).

However, to meet a girl so incredible it leaves you with no intention of putting her on the back burner is the best thing of all.


For both the man and the woman. If she is what he wants it doesn't matter if he has to beat and gouge 1, 10, 100 or none of his rivals to get her. His pride demands that he wins the best for himself and he decides what that best is irrespective of others.

But to her it is different. She needs to know that he is a man that other women want, that this is a choosy man, and despite of his options and choosiness he picks her because she is that special. Her vanity demands that she beats other women, no woman wants a man that no other woman wants, and in the world of the vain you allow others to determine what you think is best - e.g. fashion. Something which women unsurprisingly follow much more than men.
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May 16, 2015 6:54 AM CST Casual or committed?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Obstinance_Works: For both the man and the woman. If she is what he wants it doesn't matter if he has to beat and gouge 1, 10, 100 or none of his rivals to get her. His pride demands that he wins the best for himself and he decides what that best is irrespective of others.

But to her it is different. She needs to know that he is a man that other women want, that this is a choosy man, and despite of his options and choosiness he picks her because she is that special. Her vanity demands that she beats other women, no woman wants a man that no other woman wants, and in the world of the vain you allow others to determine what you think is best - e.g. fashion. Something which women unsurprisingly follow much more than men.



Your theory makes sense Obs...unsurprisingly grin

...but it applies to both genders.
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May 16, 2015 7:02 AM CST Casual or committed?
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
pretty simple. Committed. That's just how I roll.
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May 16, 2015 7:08 AM CST Casual or committed?
rebel2: Hello gorgeous
hi hunky....blushing blushing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 16, 2015 7:16 AM CST Casual or committed?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Obstinance_Works: For both the man and the woman. If she is what he wants it doesn't matter if he has to beat and gouge 1, 10, 100 or none of his rivals to get her. His pride demands that he wins the best for himself and he decides what that best is irrespective of others.

But to her it is different. She needs to know that he is a man that other women want, that this is a choosy man, and despite of his options and choosiness he picks her because she is that special. Her vanity demands that she beats other women, no woman wants a man that no other woman wants, and in the world of the vain you allow others to determine what you think is best - e.g. fashion. Something which women unsurprisingly follow much more than men.


Even in the womanly world of fashion it is men who are the trendsetters: All the best dress designers are men which is a telling irony.

And then there was the swan experiment. Given a choice between a male swan on his own and a male swan surrounded by cardboard cut-outs of female swans the female swan swam towards the latter every time. This is what's known as pre-selection, the process where the group at large validates what is best and determines what the individual desires.

This pre-selection also explains why women lean towards leftoidian views of social constructs because they themselves are products of the social environment to a much larger degree than men are.
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May 16, 2015 7:21 AM CST Casual or committed?
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
truheart1941: hi hunky....


hug
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May 16, 2015 12:12 PM CST Casual or committed?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
I dress casual but I am committed in my relationships. Casual in relationships is boring.
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May 16, 2015 12:40 PM CST Casual or committed?
DertyHarry44
DertyHarry44DertyHarry44Lakeland, Florida USA91 Threads 1,102 Posts
tarris: Which is the better way and why?


why are you yellow? hepatitis?confused
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May 16, 2015 1:15 PM CST Casual or committed?
DERTY HARRY???? NOT !!! SRY, PEACE HH uh oh uh oh uh oh
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May 16, 2015 1:16 PM CST Casual or committed?
rolling on the floor laughing
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May 16, 2015 9:58 PM CST Casual or committed?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
tarris: Which is the better way and why?


casual on water, committed on single malt.... why?: they dont mix. Never

cheers
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