"happier being with someone".. i feel happiness has to come from self. i feel if u are unhappy being in your own company, u won't be much good for your partner. otherwise, your partner may sense this and the relationship could turn codependent. right now, would i be any happier with somebody, i'm not sure?? less lonely...maybe.....
lindsyjones: I am sure either situation provides ups and downs but at the current stage of your life, which would you prefer to be? Alone? Or with someone?
allthegoodnamest: That's so sad to hear, which leaves me to believe , that anyone who is happy being single , hasn't got any love left to give to the right person.
Oh, I have more than enough love to last the 'right' person a lifetime. But I know my worth, I don't give discounts...
Did some one say Bigoted female or women , Hmmm....Oh well . and the we know who we are, right so you know some who are or do you really know any of us , seems not or we just get put under a heading of ....and that's it .
then I wont go into detail of what some men are like and that's backed up by fact and real life , and with in family,
To the ? in hand .
married for 35 years 3 grown up children and 12 grand kids , life with my mate had its downs and up,s I'm glad we were together and Jos is Lovely ,
Being by myself I'm involved with music and our groups I still do things much the same as before with Jos though was not involved with our groups or music as I am now , though could have been the timing was not right at that time , and now it is ,
I'm quite happy by myself in many ways because I enjoy what we play and do, the issue would be in my case as music is very importaint to me would some one else be as involved and spend time with myself in playing and be involved with in our groups ,
I have read many files of others women only of cause , and very few play or would wont to be involved as I am , so this would to me be very hardas what I see is if = well not quite more the when the two of you are interested in doing things together then you can share so much by being together , to me that would be so neat .
At 68 + how many women would be interested not seen any yet or met any , and , not on here how many men are real most I have contact me well past 200 I treat them all as scammers because they have proved they are , and some pose as women lie,ers , so be very aware ,
Here I have sent letter / email to a few men who are okay just most are far younger than I so I know there is no interest not from where I am coming from ,
So for now single is it .
Ich wuerde gerne mit einem liebenden Frau zu sein Ya .
Did some one say Bigoted female or women , Hmmm....Oh well . and the we know who we are, right so you know some who are or do you really know any of us , seems not or we just get put under a heading of ....and that's it .
then I wont go into detail of what some men are like and that's backed up by fact and real life , and with in family,
To the ? in hand .
married for 35 years 3 grown up children and 12 grand kids , life with my mate had its downs and up,s I'm glad we were together and Jos is Lovely ,
Being by myself I'm involved with music and our groups I still do things much the same as before with Jos though was not involved with our groups or music as I am now , though could have been the timing was not right at that time , and now it is ,
I'm quite happy by myself in many ways because I enjoy what we play and do, the issue would be in my case as music is very importaint to me would some one else be as involved and spend time with myself in playing and be involved with in our groups ,
I have read many files of others women only of cause , and very few play or would wont to be involved as I am , so this would to me be very hardas what I see is if = well not quite more the when the two of you are interested in doing things together then you can share so much by being together , to me that would be so neat .
At 68 + how many women would be interested not seen any yet or met any , and , not on here how many men are real most I have contact me well past 200 I treat them all as scammers because they have proved they are , and some pose as women lie,ers , so be very aware ,
Here I have sent letter / email to a few men who are okay just most are far younger than I so I know there is no interest not from where I am coming from ,
So for now single is it .
Ich wuerde gerne mit einem liebenden Frau zu sein Ya .
lindsyjones: I am sure either situation provides ups and downs but at the current stage of your life, which would you prefer to be? Alone? Or with someone?
Sharing your opinion is highly appreciated.
Thanks all for your participation and opinions.
. Stay single until you are sure in 'your' own mind that you will be happy.
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
serene56: Wow, I'm always gobsmacked when I get this reaction And it's always from men.
That I'm tough, yet I've been a loving, loyal, devoted and caring human being all my life but have chosen the wrong ones to share these qualities with.This is why I remain single, maybe one day I'll get it right.
Look , don't take this the wrong way but when people say I always chose the wrong ones , it makes me think that they need to take a good look at themselves & see if they may be at fault. I'm not saying it applies to you but if people recognise their faults , it can stand them instead for future relationships.
In response to: Well having been on my own as in without a steady partner, for two years, I have become accustomed to doing my own thing. I suppose you could say I'm a bit selfish, liking to travel when and where I want.
But still sometimes I think it would be good to share the good times with someone else.
But I live my life now, who knows what will happen tomorrow.
Yeah, that
I don't get why some men think that because a woman says she's happily single, she's turned into a man-hating, self-sufficient hermaphrodite
Maybe they need to examine their own sense of masculinity and self-esteem issues
allthegoodnamest: It's not for me to judge or argue.. You've made your bed & all that. Seems like you go for the easy option but that's only to fill the void of what you really yearn for...
Oh FFS, when did you turn into a life coach
Keep it up and I'll come round there and slap you upside the head, Dorothy
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