BluebirdPaul: Yes Phuong, I agree with your thoughts, jealousy can affect any Nationality, however even when you give no reason for your wife or partner to be jealous they can still get overwhelmed with this emotion. My first wife hated other women just chatting to me, got so bad she became abusive and violent towards me...so I got out whilst still breathing
aries1234: I have had serious jealousy issues with previous partners getting jealous.
Has anyone else had the same problems, and how did you handle them, or how would you recommend handling them.
I have always said this, and I believe it is worth repeating: If there is jealousy in a relationship, there are already toxic unsolvable problems. (There are plenty of people out there who are stable, so why accept someone who isn't?) If you pick up a scorpion and he stings you, you don't pick up another one. Don't do this with people, either.
rohaan: I have always said this, and I believe it is worth repeating: If there is jealousy in a relationship, there are already toxic unsolvable problems. (There are plenty of people out there who are stable, so why accept someone who isn't?) If you pick up a scorpion and he stings you, you don't pick up another one. Don't do this with people, either.
Don'you think jealousy provides a toxic ingredient in itself, or maybe other issues exacerbate the situation .
rizlared: One of the negative aspects of many Asian women is excessive jealousy, and it leads to a complete breakdown of relationships. One can understand the reasoning behind this, as Asian men are prone to "wander", which in turn creates a source of insecurity.
Of course, jealousy can be created by guilt, when a person is actually doing the cheating and so they accuse their partner of the crime they themselves are committing!
I have no room for jealousy in a relationship.
I think you said exactly where the jealousy issue comes from. The issue of jealousy wouldn't arise if anyone of the party didn't bring-in a reason for it. If Asian men a prone to wander, then they create a situation for jealousy. However, jealousy is an act of insecurity for whoever.
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