If you have to think hard how to keep your partner interested then you are doomed... Turning it into a complicated process is a sign that the mutual excitement in the beginning was a short lived act of desperation... When the two of you want to have good time together you just do what pleases both of you... When you put the pleasure of your partner before yours and they really care for you, they will be happy to do the same for you... No rocket science...
KremaP: If you have to think hard how to keep your partner interested then you are doomed... Turning it into a complicated process is a sign that the mutual excitement in the beginning was a short lived act of desperation... When the two of you want to have good time together you just do what pleases both of you... When you put the pleasure of your partner before yours and they really care for you, they will be happy to do the same for you... No rocket science...
KremaP: If you have to think hard how to keep your partner interested then you are doomed... Turning it into a complicated process is a sign that the mutual excitement in the beginning was a short lived act of desperation...When the two of you want to have good time together you just do what pleases both of you... When you put the pleasure of your partner before yours and they really care for you, they will be happy to do the same for you... No rocket science...
Well said darling K I don't have any trouble with mine when they come with Me
One2note: Just being myself should be good enough. And if it's not, then I'm obviously not the right person for them.
That's the secret of a successful relationship. For me it's given that to be with someone you have to be natural and never make it a goal to please others. Having said that all the state of being pleased, being happy comes naturally. That's why dating is importantbecause itprovides the foundation of learning and knowing if there's natural compatibility in the union or in the relationship. Note: the most popular reason for divorce is the lack of compatibility. Legally called "irreconcilable differences."
Since you admit, and with due respect that you had not a lasting relationship, maybe it's who you are. Your weakness is of having high expectations. Making it a goal of your partner to constantly keeping you interested. What about her or him? Would you accede to the obligation of being a constant provider? I don't think so. If by any reasons and cause both members of the union are naturally inclined to make each other pleased, happy, and interested then it's a perfect union made in heaven.
I'm sure there's a lot of them that works for you, it's just a matter of time when you find her. In the meantime, have fun.
KremaP: If you have to think hard how to keep your partner interested then you are doomed... Turning it into a complicated process is a sign that the mutual excitement in the beginning was a short lived act of desperation... When the two of you want to have good time together you just do what pleases both of you... When you put the pleasure of your partner before yours and they really care for you, they will be happy to do the same for you... No rocket science...
Exactly Krema,
I had a 30 year lovely, exciting and naturally in state of happiness marriage to my ex husband, the father of my lovely children. All I know is that it pleased him to please me and vice-versa. The only reason I divorced him was because of our financial mistakes that caused my lack of interest to be with anyone.
after much thought.......to keep my partner happy........I would suggest to her, logging on to C/S.....letting her read ...comments/ and to kook at various threds.......if not all,......hopefully.....being sound of mind.....she would log off......join me ,in the garden,.........and say, .......you know what pete.....I have just spent 4 hours.....reading a load......of utter B/S......and I am glad, that you are normal......and I,m feeling happy........awwww. how nice is that......
truheart1941: after much thought.......to keep my partner happy........I would suggest to her, logging on to C/S.....letting her read ...comments/ and to kook at various threds.......if not all,......hopefully.....being sound of mind.....she would log off......join me ,in the garden,.........and say, .......you know what pete.....I have just spent 4 hours.....reading a load......of utter B/S......and I am glad, that you are normal......and I,m feeling happy........awwww. how nice is that......
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