For me now, an LDR is anything more than an hour's drive away
Of course there are people in other countries that I could potentially like, but the simple fact is that they are in another country and therefore a relationship is unfeasible and unsustainable. So I don't pursue it.
I agree with Molly hours drive away and anything firther is a stretch too far at my age.
But yes it has happened on cs mini in the middle of it and some already completed move etc.
I don't want one as I want to be able to meet the person on a regular basis, not have a date every few months/years. That would just be too frustrating for me, it isn't natural.
Some people consider themselves to be in a relationship without never having met the person at all. That is not even an LDR. They live in a fantasy world. Relationships involve physical contact and interaction.
aries1234: you might consider that you views on life love and the pursuit of happiness are not everyones, Am I not entitled to my view point?
How about you state your views and not attack other people's views. I haven't attacked your views and was simply agreeing with Molly and I'm not the only one who has. Seems like you've become quite bitter lately and it's not doing you any favours.
2intrigued: How about you state your views and not attack other people's views. I haven't attacked your views and was simply agreeing with Molly and I'm not the only one who has. Seems like you've become quite bitter lately and it's not doing you any favours.
I'm not in the least bitter, i rather think that is you.
However i simply disagree with your views,
As Cs suggests i will take no more part in the dicussion .
LaPiuOPCopenhagen, Capital Region Denmark494 posts
sergio09: LDS?? If she lives in the next county...it's too far.
I would not even entertain a relationship with someone in another country. What's the point unless you are wealthy??
Hi Sergio, I agree with you, but again want to say... you dont really CHOOSE a LDR, Amor's angels aim & fire, not much choice there - only to follow your heart or not follow your heart & maybe regret 4 ever!
And - I respect your & all elses' opions here & even if we dont agree, get me right; I am not with or against anybody
LaPiu: Hmmmm, guess you dont really CHOOSE -Amor's dart just HITS dear!!!
Had a LDR with a guy working in SouthAfrica- went 5 times there & he also travelled 5 times to DK in one year - and we met in Tunis and in Dubai & went on holiday to Spain etc etc - got used to long flights
Pardon lub hoo's he? (Armor) ... An Italian fella? I've heard of a Tiamor, but Amour dart sounds a bit suss .. Please explain
DK??? Hope that is'nt short for //// no matter ( )
ps, if you ever come to Oz let me know where you are staying and i'll take you to ...to ...to Tasmania
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I knew who they were too and read some of the comments.Obviously such miserable people.So sorry that that did happen.