Are you afraid of being hurt again? (209)
zacron: Ahh now everything becomes clear, I made two erroneous assumptions which put an entirely different spin on things, one lives and learns
I wish you sincere best wishes, may your future always be bright/positive and full of "LOVE":).
I wish you sincere best wishes, may your future always be bright/positive and full of "LOVE":).
Same wish to you.
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Mercedes_00: The secret is to replace dating with giving to charity.
I think this is what the following line from the play "Twelfth Night" kind of means:
"Love sought is good, but given unsought is better."
At the time, in school, learning about these written works of art, I did not understand any of it...it was mumbo jumbo to me...but since that time its been making a great deal of sense to me
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rainbowdream2017: Thank you for giving me undeserving honour in being teacher of love lessons, where I am always feeling as a humble student in trying to be balanced when walking a tightrope of love - without the net, lol.
In given honour of sharing thoughts in observations about vantage point, makes all of us environmentalists lol.
Theoretically,lessons in love might be a bit foggy - looking from distance but I try to share with you only one lesson that I find useful. - "Love should never be viewed from the vantage point of achievement, specially when one is single." Lol
I am a big fan of photography, getting my camera from a different point of angles and trying to seek unusual vantage point and I suppose, I try to seek and find the same in life and people, to observe all different vantage points than pull all that are worth the saving up to my vantage ground that culture filters.
Hope this was helpful in untangling some mysteries...
In given honour of sharing thoughts in observations about vantage point, makes all of us environmentalists lol.
Theoretically,lessons in love might be a bit foggy - looking from distance but I try to share with you only one lesson that I find useful. - "Love should never be viewed from the vantage point of achievement, specially when one is single." Lol
I am a big fan of photography, getting my camera from a different point of angles and trying to seek unusual vantage point and I suppose, I try to seek and find the same in life and people, to observe all different vantage points than pull all that are worth the saving up to my vantage ground that culture filters.
Hope this was helpful in untangling some mysteries...
Its within us to help those around us to discover the meaning of love (love as we know it and then compare notes
).Love is often generally confused with dependence. Those of us who have grown in true love know that we can love only in proportion to our capacity with our own independence.
With regards to love and trust - in the space between what’s said and what’s heard in our life, can make all the difference in this world full of cold and distant people.
Love isn’t a state of perfect caring (if we did this we would be in heaven already
). It can be seen as an active noun like "struggle." To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.
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DoubleFantasy: You are one of the guardians of the forum...it is I, who have received such riches and humbled...when from the written words of yesteryear matches the ones from the titan writers here - with every word typed leaving no room for those intent on leaving hurt. I hope you may provide your thoughts on the unraveling of lifes user guide happening right here.
thank you, DoubleFantasy. that is very kind of you, and i appreciate it.
now..... i’m gonna go and ponder all this....(deeply......grin)
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DoubleFantasy: Its within us to help those around us to discover the meaning of love (love as we know it and then compare notes ).
Love is often generally confused with dependence. Those of us who have grown in true love know that we can love only in proportion to our capacity with our own independence.
With regards to love and trust - in the space between what’s said and what’s heard in our life, can make all the difference in this world full of cold and distant people.
Love isn’t a state of perfect caring (if we did this we would be in heaven already ). It can be seen as an active noun like "struggle." To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.
Love is often generally confused with dependence. Those of us who have grown in true love know that we can love only in proportion to our capacity with our own independence.
With regards to love and trust - in the space between what’s said and what’s heard in our life, can make all the difference in this world full of cold and distant people.
Love isn’t a state of perfect caring (if we did this we would be in heaven already ). It can be seen as an active noun like "struggle." To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.
each time i reread this, my heart opens a bit more, and i am.
thank you.
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DoubleFantasy: "Love sought is good, but given unsought is better."
Hmmm...
Aren't people usually uninterested in receiving unwanted/unsought love? Or you don't mean - romantic love, but love in general, love given from one human being to another?
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Absolutely not. As one of my poems states;
The greater the prize we seek in life the greater the risk
we must take to obtain it.
Isn't love the greatest prize of all?
Then it must by definition require the greatest risk of all?
You must risk your heart!!!
Sometimes there are many roads leading to your destiny
in the case of love there is is only one road,
You must pledge your heart to someone.
The greater the prize we seek in life the greater the risk
we must take to obtain it.
Isn't love the greatest prize of all?
Then it must by definition require the greatest risk of all?
You must risk your heart!!!
Sometimes there are many roads leading to your destiny
in the case of love there is is only one road,
You must pledge your heart to someone.
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Krinka: Hmmm...
Aren't people usually uninterested in receiving unwanted/unsought love? Or you don't mean - romantic love, but love in general, love given from one human being to another?
Aren't people usually uninterested in receiving unwanted/unsought love? Or you don't mean - romantic love, but love in general, love given from one human being to another?
Good Question.
I see it in the direction of travel (on Love per se)
It can be the same as what we hear at a place of worship "its not in the receiving, but in the giving that you shall receive" (i.e doing a good deed, doing something charitable - selflessly).
It can also mean that looking for love in it self can become counter productive - instead could happen anywhere whilst doing something mundane even - where it flows like a waterfall and quenches your thirst - and like a tilde wave it washes all over you, where its become, and becoming, with love just happening, ...cupid finds you and busts your heart wide open, with love its feelings not reasons that help you to know and that moment which entwines together in a fleeting moment (i.e the fall part of "fall" in love - and it being unplanned)
Looking for love might become like kicking a can down the road (an never ending road).
And further to this, it might be just under your nose.
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askmrknowitallno: Absolutely not. As one of my poems states;
The greater the prize we seek in life the greater the risk
we must take to obtain it.
Isn't love the greatest prize of all?
Then it must by definition require the greatest risk of all?
You must risk your heart!!!
Sometimes there are many roads leading to your destiny
in the case of love there is is only one road,
You must pledge your heart to someone.
If we pledge our heart to someone, this is the poem of the heart that most of us would like to whisper or get whispered to our ear....lol. The greater the prize we seek in life the greater the risk
we must take to obtain it.
Isn't love the greatest prize of all?
Then it must by definition require the greatest risk of all?
You must risk your heart!!!
Sometimes there are many roads leading to your destiny
in the case of love there is is only one road,
You must pledge your heart to someone.
“Let's sleep
you on top of me
my hands circling your waist
yours holding my face
my legs entangled in yours
yours tenderly wrapped in mine
your eyes looking deeply into mine
mine staring longingly at yours
and we will keep searching for our footsteps in the sands of time...”
? Avijeet Das
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askmrknowitallno: Absolutely not. As one of my poems states;
The greater the prize we seek in life the greater the risk
we must take to obtain it.
Isn't love the greatest prize of all?
Then it must by definition require the greatest risk of all?
You must risk your heart!!!
Sometimes there are many roads leading to your destiny
in the case of love there is is only one road,
You must pledge your heart to someone.
I want…a steady hand,a kind soul, I want to fall asleep, and wake, knowing my heart is safe and that's a two way street love that is worth sacrifices... The greater the prize we seek in life the greater the risk
we must take to obtain it.
Isn't love the greatest prize of all?
Then it must by definition require the greatest risk of all?
You must risk your heart!!!
Sometimes there are many roads leading to your destiny
in the case of love there is is only one road,
You must pledge your heart to someone.
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DoubleFantasy: Good Question.
I see it in the direction of travel (on Love per se)
It can be the same as what we hear at a place of worship "its not in the receiving, but in the giving that you shall receive" (i.e doing a good deed, doing something charitable - selflessly).
It can also mean that looking for love in it self can become counter productive - instead could happen anywhere whilst doing something mundane even - where it flows like a waterfall and quenches your thirst - and like a tilde wave it washes all over you, where its become, and becoming, with love just happening, ...cupid finds you and busts your heart wide open, with love its feelings not reasons that help you to know and that moment which entwines together in a fleeting moment (i.e the fall part of "fall" in love - and it being unplanned)
Looking for love might become like kicking a can down the road (an never ending road).
And further to this, it might be just under your nose.
I see it in the direction of travel (on Love per se)
It can be the same as what we hear at a place of worship "its not in the receiving, but in the giving that you shall receive" (i.e doing a good deed, doing something charitable - selflessly).
It can also mean that looking for love in it self can become counter productive - instead could happen anywhere whilst doing something mundane even - where it flows like a waterfall and quenches your thirst - and like a tilde wave it washes all over you, where its become, and becoming, with love just happening, ...cupid finds you and busts your heart wide open, with love its feelings not reasons that help you to know and that moment which entwines together in a fleeting moment (i.e the fall part of "fall" in love - and it being unplanned)
Looking for love might become like kicking a can down the road (an never ending road).
And further to this, it might be just under your nose.
It’s a form of love just to talk to somebody (regardless of gender) the way we do it on CS and accidently find something in common or have nothing in common with that person and still be fascinated by what they have to say ...------ This thread is Archived ------
rainbowdream2017: It’s a form of love just to talk to somebody (regardless of gender) the way we do it on CS and accidently find something in common or have nothing in common with that person and still be fascinated by what they have to say ...
Those are the best
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DoubleFantasy: Good Question.
I see it in the direction of travel (on Love per se)
It can be the same as what we hear at a place of worship "its not in the receiving, but in the giving that you shall receive" (i.e doing a good deed, doing something charitable - selflessly).
It can also mean that looking for love in it self can become counter productive - instead could happen anywhere whilst doing something mundane even - where it flows like a waterfall and quenches your thirst - and like a tilde wave it washes all over you, where its become, and becoming, with love just happening, ...cupid finds you and busts your heart wide open, with love its feelings not reasons that help you to know and that moment which entwines together in a fleeting moment (i.e the fall part of "fall" in love - and it being unplanned)
Looking for love might become like kicking a can down the road (an never ending road).
And further to this, it might be just under your nose.
I see it in the direction of travel (on Love per se)
It can be the same as what we hear at a place of worship "its not in the receiving, but in the giving that you shall receive" (i.e doing a good deed, doing something charitable - selflessly).
It can also mean that looking for love in it self can become counter productive - instead could happen anywhere whilst doing something mundane even - where it flows like a waterfall and quenches your thirst - and like a tilde wave it washes all over you, where its become, and becoming, with love just happening, ...cupid finds you and busts your heart wide open, with love its feelings not reasons that help you to know and that moment which entwines together in a fleeting moment (i.e the fall part of "fall" in love - and it being unplanned)
Looking for love might become like kicking a can down the road (an never ending road).
And further to this, it might be just under your nose.
And if it is unwanted Love - it was not Love to start with.
Additionally...
I would say for most people its the fear of getting used.
And you want to love without having to look over your shoulder.
As well as you dont want Love to take up your energy.
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rainbowdream2017: It’s a form of love just to talk to somebody (regardless of gender) the way we do it on CS and accidently find something in common or have nothing in common with that person and still be fascinated by what they have to say ...
Of course, certainly.
The thing about the written word is that you have not got nothing else but the text to go by...you dont know nothing else about the person, the people or their background to have anything else to go by.
Therefore the written word is straight from the heart.
Of course you may never meet that person, but what other way is there to converse and interact with everyday (extra) ordinary people, and know humanity is good around the world - those people you know in your belly, that they are just a poster, like yourself.
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DoubleFantasy: Of course, certainly.
The thing about the written word is that you have not got nothing else but the text to go by...you dont know nothing else about the person, the people or their background to have anything else to go by.
Therefore the written word is straight from the heart.
Of course you may never meet that person, but what other way is there to converse and interact with everyday (extra) ordinary people, and know humanity is good around the world - those people you know in your belly, that they are just a poster, like yourself.
I am not sure I fully understood your point. Who wants to feel only as 'just a poster' The thing about the written word is that you have not got nothing else but the text to go by...you dont know nothing else about the person, the people or their background to have anything else to go by.
Therefore the written word is straight from the heart.
Of course you may never meet that person, but what other way is there to converse and interact with everyday (extra) ordinary people, and know humanity is good around the world - those people you know in your belly, that they are just a poster, like yourself.
specially when one is searching deeper true own soul to share the best part of inner beauty of love for humanity, or at least sharing moment of joy, pinch of excitment to share thoughts with alike minded ...but joy is also just simple enjoying that moment to share for pure joy to enjoy inner you for you, simple moment of inspiration that something external ignited...In time when one familiarise itself to this environment , there's some people that grow in you that we can call it, 'form of love', regardless if is a man or a women, with some posters that you may easily develop friendship and get along most of the time, kind of sensing the same level of energy vibration expressed trough thoughts on different subjects and others that you may never particularly like because of negativity or villainy but I find in myself that even with thouse people, some times I can also find something good in what they say and try to understand that we all have some life issues and difference is, how each of us handling things we tragically face in our life and what attitude we choose to deal with it, so some learn to swollow things up and still go happy in life, while some others loves to bite as if giving revanche to that very painfil thing inside that made virus of intolerance... I wish to say, poster is not just another poster like yourself, or like myself, there's more to it ...when you give a thought of someone else's thoughts, we are observing the world from that other person's vantage point that may effect us in suprising way, to unconsciously or consciously reflect in some moment of our decidion making in real life, to realise we want more ...or we are happy to be content with what we have ...you never know how we effect or are effected with what is being said.To some we might be exacly that, just another poster, to others, we are more than a poster, more than what we are aware of...
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Track16: Those are the best
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DoubleFantasy: Its within us to help those around us to discover the meaning of love (love as we know it and then compare notes ).
Love is often generally confused with dependence. Those of us who have grown in true love know that we can love only in proportion to our capacity with our own independence.
With regards to love and trust - in the space between what’s said and what’s heard in our life, can make all the difference in this world full of cold and distant people.
Love isn’t a state of perfect caring (if we did this we would be in heaven already ). It can be seen as an active noun like "struggle." To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.
Love is often generally confused with dependence. Those of us who have grown in true love know that we can love only in proportion to our capacity with our own independence.
With regards to love and trust - in the space between what’s said and what’s heard in our life, can make all the difference in this world full of cold and distant people.
Love isn’t a state of perfect caring (if we did this we would be in heaven already ). It can be seen as an active noun like "struggle." To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.
i think you’ve stated this much better than I could.
i believe love is a choice.
i also believe all one really has is this moment, shaped by one’s perception.
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Nop, but sure would be nice to love forever and never be hurt again...!!!!
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ladyoftoday: Nop, but sure would be nice to love forever and never be hurt again...!!!!
Hello spunkybum
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If I am worry about it, I would go to the bottom of the world, like Australia or USA.
Hope that's only a bit of paranoid feeling.
All the best.
Ahh now everything becomes clear, I made two erroneous assumptions which put an entirely different spin on things, one lives and learns
I wish you sincere best wishes, may your future always be bright/positive and full of "LOVE":).