What is our experience of Emotional intelligence ? ( Archived) (116)

rainbowdream2017: I wonder if by encouraging expression of emotions in childhood could change that ?

rainbowdream2017: I find that some man who are not really interested much in this kind of observations to engage themselves, if they like women, they will do best to listen attentively - while eating you with eyes, probably thinking 'when she's going to stop this toucher' - looking for a 'give me a brake' time, to use this listening skill to get closer to women.

rainbowdream2017: It's labour day, holiday, I've done my shift this morning and now enjoy freeeeedom in nature, and yet can't get away from my addiction with phone.

rainbowdream2017: Yes, all this bullies /serial provocators are hurting, they are experts at seeking easy going target and when target essentially put them in their place, they continue to play games on another thread to discuss about me being 'sensitive snowlake' or what ever ...in shifting blame, in the enhancement of their pathetic ego.
Possible to boost their own missing confidence ?
I think this type missing acknowladgent of their own importance, to seek reaction from me - while they dont realise, how much is obvious that they give me (unwanted) importance, that they care to take notice of what I post, which suppose to be irrelevant for someone who doesn't care ! There's something definitely wrong with this people who wants to intentionally insoult with rudeness, who are determent to try picking what's wrong about me and can't handle whats right about me or my views ... Someone may not like what I say but one can always know where he/she stands with me, I don't do fakness, my nature is naked.
I enjoy if someone respectfully provocks my mind to invoked in me seeing things from a different angle of perspectiveness, which so far I find that in you....and in different way with some other people.

It was not so long ago that bilingual people where treated as mentaly impered, specially when someone like me make mistakes in spelling or some times feeling limited in expressions...(depending how state of mind at the time effects me ) and while some people shows much thoughtful understanding, overlooking small mistakes and rather focusing on what's at hand with topic, which is part of INCLUSION, some bullies prefer to pick everything wrong in how I express myself and multiply it, with intention to make me feel badly about myself, to sink to that person level and it's tempting ...
The difference between me and disrespectful provocators is, I can feel remorse but this weak emotionally immature bullys, does not show any remorse and sympathy, even worse,they secretly hope that they will brake my spirit - which is type of crup that cowards do, that shouldn't be taken to heart as it's everything to do with them and nothing to do with me. I don't tolerate crup.

From what I've learn, emotional intelligence is not agreablness, it's not optimism, it's not happiness, is not calmness, and as important as all this qualities are, have little to do with emotions, and almost nothing to do with emotional intelligence.