Women and men....young or older than us.... ( Archived) (52)

What amazes me is pictures profiles of guys who seem to have very little to offer either in looks or personality who state they want woman 20 to 30 yrs younger . I cant fathom it . Do they get anyone or is it that theyre so scared of a woman that they set the imossible or are they simply deluded? I know some are attracted to people with big age difference but I'd never want to be with someone who hadn't a clue when I talk about stuff that happened in my youth . That's part of the joy of an equal relationship fact you can remember and laugh at things from youth or even feel nostalgic sad . I no longer reply to young guys not even to be polite cos some are just being nice complimentary but if I say thank you its a barrage of messages . I'm no ones plaything or object . I'm not dumb or witless . . I want a man who values all of me that's mental physical emotional all that makes us who we are at this stage of our lives . Anyone who says" no baggage "is either selfish or yes selfish . You don't live a life without having baggage . It doesn't mean your weeping over your past but you're not in denial either as many men seem to be . . Pretending like there was no yesterday no other time think they're the type of guy wants a much younger woman who won't be mature enough to ever challenge his inflated sense of who he is . Anyway most of us will remain alone . I've been on many sites seen same faces again and again I'm even on nodding terms with many . They'll pop by and say how are you are you still looking . I'm not actively looking anymore don't think I ever was anyway. I've been fooled couple of times by nasty lying types that's hard to get past takes time to regain trust . Guys I like never like me isn't that weird? ...I want .an older together sensible man who looks ok nothing mad or anything but it never happens . A time comes when you just know you're past it no one wants old unless for ulterior motives ....ie money security . I didn't work hard all my life to let some waster take all I have ......yep I've met couple of them too ....their lives have been lived off others they are past masters at art of fake and I've been lured in . So I'm here cos it's hard giving up the ghost.....the disconnection ....but that time is here ....I'm just not ready to accept it . ..but im getting there .