And what do we say about all these western middle aged men marrying Asian girls as young as 18? In the eyes of our race these girls look sometimes as young as 12. Asian girls often don’t look 18 until their mid-20s, and then they age overnight like a pear.
If the scale of it is so big there must be a reason for that... If it's a disorder then too many human beings are sick to the core... Is it inborn or acquired matters if we want to find a way to fight it... Paedofilia is accepted and legal in many countries... It's happening right under your nose... Understanding it doesn't mean accepting it, to fight such a horrible thing one needs to know the reason for it... The reasons for it should be found and it might not always be what you want to hear...
most people assume that phedophilia is about some creepy guy ,walking around in a raincoat ..or driving a big white van ,with ``free candies``written on the side
These people exist and we can not just line them up at the wall and shoot them... Looking for a solutions is the way and before the reasons for that "condition" are found we can only be disgusted and keep on airing our mouths...
Oprah Winfrey did an interview with 6 or 7 Peadophiles going back a few years ago.....was hard to watch but each had differing opinions about their 'condition'.....
Some were ashamed and disgusted about their urges...others not so much.
For those who want to understand it better it is probably on YouTube.....can't post it...not that I would want to.
Limun: i was watching this video and ...i dont know what to say
Congrats on introducing the topic for discussion. One that is very hard for a lots of human beings to consider. It is estimated that roughly 75% of p*dophile were abused as children. Some say that if you are abused in any way as a child or adult that part of you will remain and revert back to at that age until you as an adult get enough help to grow that child within; to make you a complete adult. Yes! We need to understand....
Imagine if there were a way for an early intervention that could some how head off pedophilia after a child has been abused....to some how heal the trauma etc that comes from being abused before it turned into pedophilia.....it needs to be talked about....researched and understood just like we study serial killers etc....in hopes that some how we can maybe head off that path before others get hurt....it doesn't do a lot of good to track that path after the fact so some intervention needs to be done early on so that path doesn't continue....yes I have seen the dolls etc....I don't know if they have helped or made things worse....but it sure as hell cant be a bad thing to try to develop some kind of treatment based on knowledge.....I know the hurt they cause which is why it has to be stopped but without an understanding it wont be....turning a blind eye and pretending they don't exist or refusing to discuss it isn't going to do anything but allow offenders to keep offending...we jail them and the cycle continues.....
You may not understand a lot of things, especially people's behaviour in certain conditions for example... That doesn't mean those people have control over their behaviour and would respond adequately to your expectations... You say the present medications do not work, are you by any chance working in that field? Medication for depression doesn't have the same effect on every depression sufferer... Even aspirin has different effect on different people... Same with other illnesses... Human mind isn't exactly the easiest part of the human nature to explore... Cancer doesn't back off while scientists are searching for cure... As ugly as it is, it won't stop paedofiles doing what they are doingng... The only solution is to line them up and shoot them, right?
Rachie14: You identify as a woman. You were born female. So you identify with that you are a woman. I didn't ask if you were. I said do you identify yourself as a woman. I am not challenging if you are or you are not.
Now think how you have urges and desires and from what age did you or did you not know who you were attracted too and why? When you look at who you are attracted too it drives those urges and desires.
I've been in healthcare part of it is mental health for over 20 years Krema and fighting peadophilla? I am having a conversation on it. I do not and will not ever condone it being normalised. There are some hard limits for me and hurting others especially children are those hard limits. So if I am passionate in a subject. Try not to hold that against me.
We haven't got to the part yet where the OP has mentioned the contributors and how far it is an actual problem.
Hiya Rachie
Just a qtn ? ..... IFyou knew of a man posing as a woman here on the forums, would you think it right or wrong for them to disclose themselves as to whom he/she really is .... IF YOU KNEW?
Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK2,330 posts
Lookin4missright: Hiya Rachie
Just a qtn ? ..... IF you knew of a man posing as a woman here on the forums, would you think it right or wrong for them to disclose themselves as to whom he/she really is .... IF YOU KNEW?
Damn Lookin what a question. Clearly they're not happy to do it or they would of disclosed it. It would be the right thing for them to do. But, chances are they already know the consquences so don't.
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