Do people accept u as is..... ( Archived) (34)

Aug 25, 2018 11:04 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Do people always find some fault with u.....?

People have a tendency to want to change others,
to what they feel is good for themselves.....

The person they r trying to change,
will either accept this or not.....

Remember u have other options too.....

What will U do....?
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Aug 25, 2018 11:10 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
If she has nice feet, yes! wave
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Aug 25, 2018 11:11 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Do I look like I care?
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Aug 25, 2018 11:16 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
galrads: If she has nice feet, yes!
Hello stranger, Yes, I have these tiny little feet.....and they r slim.....
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Aug 25, 2018 11:17 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
mykingdomforanam: Do I look like I care?
Don't u want to be accepted for who and what u r.....?
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Aug 25, 2018 11:22 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
deedee123xo: "They" don't have much choice I am who I am.....they either like it or not.
Has anyone ever told u to change something about urself….or have tried to manipulate u into what they want u to be....?
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Aug 25, 2018 11:25 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
People will always find some fault or another, in other people. That's life. I try to accept people for who they are, to the best of my ability. That said, some people are not my cup of tea - so to speak - and I am not theirs, either. No problem.

There are those in my life who do accept me for who I am, and those are the people closest to me. I have many faults, and I know this. It's okay if people don't accept me for who I am. Acceptance is subjective.
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Aug 25, 2018 11:29 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
deedee123xo: Yes I grew up like that...but the beauty of being an adult is you can make your own choices and not have to answer to anyone anymore.
U also have the choice as an adult to remove urself from those kinds of people.
Yes, we don't always have the choice, as u grew up with some, and have to work with some, which u can't readily just get rid of that easily...….
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Aug 25, 2018 11:33 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
RedHeadedTaurus: People will always find some fault or another, in other people. That's life. I try to accept people for who they are, to the best of my ability. That said, some people are not my cup of tea - so to speak - and I am not theirs, either. No problem.

There are those in my life who do accept me for who I am, and those are the people closest to me. I have many faults, and I know this. It's okay if people don't accept me for who I am. Acceptance is subjective.
Hi Sweetie. Even tho some of us accept people for who they r, u still have an opinion, once u got to know them very well, and if it is a give and take relationship, they will listen to u, and so will u listen to them, but it requires respect from both sides, as we all have little irritating habits sometimes......
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Aug 25, 2018 12:57 PM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Harbal: I certainly hope so. I would hate to think I was wasting my time here.
always a twist....
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Aug 26, 2018 2:18 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Characters in adults,are already form.
its waste of time trying to change an adult character.
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Aug 26, 2018 2:45 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
AlanStagg
AlanStaggAlanStaggRangitikei, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand5 Threads 107 Posts
Variety is the spice of life.
cheering
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Aug 26, 2018 3:07 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChrist: Most people wouldn’t bother to think about me personally and I wouldn’t be personally offended by every piece of advice given to me. If joe public warns me there’s a copper round the corner and I’m driving down a one way street with no lights on then I’m glad of it, my response isn’t to say don’t try to change me.

Anyway most people do close to me try to change me in one way or another. Which is just as well because they’ve earned the right to influence me maybe. I’m not an autistic psychopath deaf to the words of even trusted loved ones.
Generally speaking I find people to be live and let live and if they do try to change you it’s more helpful than not.

My view of the typical person is that he’s mostly indifferent to me and my life but leans slightly to good/lawfulness when it comes to public behaviour. There really was a policemen around that corner and the drinking public stepped in to correct my behaviour and save me from a fine.
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Aug 26, 2018 3:12 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
I am quite suspicious towards people who say "I am not changing for no one"...
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Aug 26, 2018 3:29 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Harbal: You're quite a twister yourself, Snook.
Lol Hb….and I like U too.....
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Aug 26, 2018 3:30 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
chris27292729: Characters in adults,are already form.
its waste of time trying to change an adult character.
People can change emotionally at any time....obviously physically ur set......except a gym and then flab.....
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Aug 26, 2018 3:31 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
AlanStagg: Variety is the spice of life.
R u variety in One then.....?
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Aug 26, 2018 3:35 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
pKrema: I am quite suspicious towards people who say "I am not changing for no one"...
Krem....it is like any saying....blabbermouth....and no knowledge.....I just ignore people like that....thus I ignore a lot......they cannot help themselves....and I definitely am Not wasting my time.....
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Aug 26, 2018 3:41 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Do people always find some fault with u.....?
Not possible, I'm totally flawless.


What will U do....?
I will go paddle kayak.

People, with whom you socialise on regular basis, accept you as you are. Plus your imployer, if you still have that job. Your immediate family won't never, no matter what you do. What options haven't I covered?
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Aug 26, 2018 3:52 AM CST Do people accept u as is.....
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Tulefell: Do people always find some fault with u.....?
Not possible, I'm totally flawless.


What will U do....?
I will go paddle kayak.

People, with whom you socialise on regular basis, accept you as you are. Plus your imployer, if you still have that job. Your immediate family won't never, no matter what you do. What options haven't I covered?
It is very good to have a high opinion of urself…..till someone gets jealous and go out or their way to break u down.....
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