I have met some genuine people...its very refreshing....its not all around tho which makes listening to your instincts all that much more important....it takes work to get in touch with your genuine self...its basicly an unlearning of all that has been piled on you from childhood and making your own genuine choices from a genuine place.....this is our authentic self and only comes from getting to know ones self on a completely intimate level.....
It looks like Smiley 963 has been sorely hurt in the recent past. There are genuine people left on this earth, although it does seem at times they have all headed for the hills. As an observer of life in general, l can honestly say that the way things have been going here over the last 20 years, people are putting up mental barriers to protect themselves. They seem to be scared of letting these barriers down in case they reveal their insecurities. Losing their jobs/ losing status etc etc. All these things affect the way people act. It doesn't appear to be a conscious thing. Just an inherent thing from times when man had to protect his cave etc.
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
M4_Mischief: I have met some genuine people...its very refreshing....its not all around tho which makes listening to your instincts all that much more important....it takes work to get in touch with your genuine self...its basicly an unlearning of all that has been piled on you from childhood and making your own genuine choices from a genuine place.....this is our authentic self and only comes from getting to know ones self on a completely intimate level.....
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
gilflova: It looks like Smiley 963 has been sorely hurt in the recent past. There are genuine people left on this earth, although it does seem at times they have all headed for the hills. As an observer of life in general, l can honestly say that the way things have been going here over the last 20 years, people are putting up mental barriers to protect themselves. They seem to be scared of letting these barriers down in case they reveal their insecurities. Losing their jobs/ losing status etc etc. All these things affect the way people act. It doesn't appear to be a conscious thing. Just an inherent thing from times when man had to protect his cave etc.
Yes, if you are wakey-wakey you protect yourself, from all sorts. I'm Not pointing fingers, I just find it very sad!!!!
Honi79BSt Albans, Hertfordshire, England UK33 posts
Sorry i dont what is your experience. Personally i have met genuine guys over here. It only didnt work for other reasons but i have also met scammers that i thank my God for the instinct and i can just sport them from the second mail. Opens your eyes and ears well. The logic also and dont also put to much expectations. Be sure what u dont want and while u chat be straight. Its also good not to take things so seriously in the beginning. I consider that all we have some abnormality depends how you look at it.
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
Honi79B: Sorry i dont what is your experience. Personally i have met genuine guys over here. It only didnt work for other reasons but i have also met scammers that i thank my God for the instinct and i can just sport them from the second mail. Opens your eyes and ears well. The logic also and dont also put to much expectations. Be sure what u dont want and while u chat be straight. Its also good not to take things so seriously in the beginning. I consider that all we have some abnormality depends how you look at it.
Maybe it is our Levels of Genuine that differs? Like liking someone a little bit, medium, and a lot?
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
woodstock1: every human in this world thinks that he or she is genuine...........
I think you're confusing the word genuine with unique, which everyone definitely is, as not any two people anywhere are the same, same with animals and nature.
smiley963: I think you're confusing the word genuine with unique, which everyone definitely is, as not any two people anywhere are the same, same with animals and nature.
Genuine not very many people are at all.
if you know someone's not genuine just tell them to fake off!
smiley963: You have very similar views as a thread I just commented on. Very strange indeed. You share a personality with someone else here?
I'm sure there are plenty of right thinking people who've had time to study life and note (at least) some of the Universal Laws - however if (as that post implies) you're accusing me of having two profiles get it said, and take it to Admin - you really are a very sad and unpleasant piece of work.
You wrote, and I replied elsewhere re the Law of Attraction.
Also from Earl Nightingale's work " A person finds himself surrounded by like thinking individuals ... '
If YOU are havin problems finding 'genuine people' then that is in actuality a reflection on your own state of being.
YOU (as is the case with every other individual) are the common denominator in all of your own experiences. IF you want 'better experiences' it's up to YOU to improve YOURSELF !
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
HexagonKeySet: I'm sure there are plenty of right thinking people who've had time to study life and note (at least) some of the Universal Laws - however if (as that post implies) you're accusing me of having two profiles get it said, and take it to Admin - you really are a very sad and unpleasant piece of work.
You wrote, and I replied elsewhere re the Law of Attraction.
Also from Earl Nightingale's work " A person finds himself surrounded by like thinking individuals ... '
If YOU are havin problems finding 'genuine people' then that is in actuality a reflection on your own state of being.
YOU (as is the case with every other individual) are the common denominator in all of your own experiences. IF you want 'better experiences' it's up to YOU to improve YOURSELF !
Namaste
You fall 100% under Toxic. Congratulations.
Luckily I know myself very well, so the numerable types like you (Toxic), will have no idea, how I tick, and you will never know either. You're like water off a ducks back.
Stop pushing your characteristics onto me, I'm not your mirror!!!!
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