Pretentiousness - Is it a crime? ( Archived) (29)

Feb 11, 2019 12:46 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Google:
characterized by assumption of dignity or importance, especially when exaggerated or undeserved: a pretentious, self-important waiter. making an exaggerated outward show; ostentatious. full of pretense or pretension; having no factual basis; false

Yes, False people, pretending to be much better than what they are! Do they maybe believe it too, and need a wake-up call too?
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Feb 11, 2019 12:56 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
methuzelah
methuzelahmethuzelahTampa, Florida USA296 Threads 1,633 Posts
smiley963: Google:
characterized by assumption of dignity or importance, especially when exaggerated or undeserved: a pretentious, self-important waiter. making an exaggerated outward show; ostentatious. full of pretense or pretension; having no factual basis; false

Yes, False people, pretending to be much better than what they are! Do they maybe believe it too, and need a wake-up call too?
This planet is full of those kind of people
I do not care a bit about them
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Feb 11, 2019 12:59 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
methuzelah: This planet is full of those kind of people
I do not care a bit about them
The saying is:
It takes all sorts to make a world.

I wonder if we really think on it:
How many people do you actually like, in the world?
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Feb 11, 2019 1:11 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
methuzelah
methuzelahmethuzelahTampa, Florida USA296 Threads 1,633 Posts
smiley963: The saying is:
It takes all sorts to make a world.

I wonder if we really think on it:
How many people do you actually like, in the world?
In the world, I hate Putin::laugh:
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Feb 11, 2019 1:12 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
smiley963: The saying is:
It takes all sorts to make a world.

I wonder if we really think on it:
How many people do you actually like, in the world?
I won´t live long enough to meet everyone in the world, therefore I can´t answer the questionprofessor
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Feb 11, 2019 1:14 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
marlindap
marlindapmarlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 Posts
in life everything is a fine line, because if people find out you are kind you have good chances of being taken advantage of.
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Feb 11, 2019 1:27 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
marlindap: in life everything is a fine line, because if people find out you are kind you have good chances of being taken advantage of.
Yes they will walk all over you. Thus pretending is a defence mechanism!!!!
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Feb 11, 2019 2:13 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
charles_nz
charles_nzcharles_nzChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand1,386 Posts
I love this quote from Nick Rhodes, the keyboard player with Duran Duran, when he was was once accused of being pretentious:

"Pretentious??? I should jolly well hope so!".

I feel the same way!
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Feb 11, 2019 2:20 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
smiley963: Google:
characterized by assumption of dignity or importance, especially when exaggerated or undeserved: a pretentious, self-important waiter. making an exaggerated outward show; ostentatious. full of pretense or pretension; having no factual basis; false

Yes, False people, pretending to be much better than what they are! Do they maybe believe it too, and need a wake-up call too?
Being pretentious isn't a crime but it's not an attractive trait to have.
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Feb 11, 2019 2:27 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
charles_nz: I love this quote from Nick Rhodes, the keyboard player with Duran Duran, when he was was once accused of being pretentious:

"Pretentious??? I should jolly well hope so!".

I feel the same way!
So now Pretentiousness equates to EGO?
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Feb 11, 2019 2:28 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
2intrigued: Being pretentious isn't a crime but it's not an attractive trait to have.
If you are feeling high and mighty, you are capable and sometime do any/every thing!!!
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Feb 11, 2019 2:33 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
smiley963: If you are feeling high and mighty, you are capable and sometime do any/every thing!!!
Not me that's for sure although some people can be so full of themselves to the extent that they could very well do anything that could result in a prison term. laugh
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Feb 11, 2019 4:38 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
Im very easy to talk to and understanding so if you are being pretentious around me then you have problems I cant help ya with....also that don't impress me much......grin
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Feb 11, 2019 5:14 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA14 Threads 1 Polls 2,045 Posts
So.. its not like judging.. when you present yourself tho right??... Like- when i see some one with a pot sticker* i'm not the one Labeling them a stoner- (pothead w/e) .. so i mean~ it does factor in a bit on How do you view yourself
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Feb 11, 2019 5:17 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
of course it does and not just seeing yourself but accepting yourself too....otherwise you could just say it the way it is....wave
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Feb 11, 2019 5:20 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA14 Threads 1 Polls 2,045 Posts
Yea with that being said... I must not grasp this whole "pretentiousness thing" cause i'm only seeing. what others show. confused
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Feb 11, 2019 5:23 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
smiley963: So now Pretentiousness equates to EGO?
Of course....it's entirely of the ego.
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Feb 11, 2019 5:25 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
I don't like the term pretending you're someone better....the way I see it is pretending to be someone other than you are in order to try to control someone's opinion of you....wave
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Feb 11, 2019 5:26 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA14 Threads 1 Polls 2,045 Posts
bodleing2: Of course....it's entirely of the ego.
Sorry I' gotta ask this then

if you're saying being pretentiousness is an ego thing?... i don't see how Being aware could be an ego thing at all? I see something, and I think something... wow.>>. I just realized that?
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Feb 11, 2019 5:52 PM CST Pretentiousness - Is it a crime?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
InstincThis: Sorry I' gotta ask this then

if you're saying being pretentiousness is an ego thing?... i don't see how Being aware could be an ego thing at all? I see something, and I think something... wow.>>. I just realized that?
I'm not sure how you relate being 'aware' to pretentiousness. I would imagine a person who acts pretentious is far from aware.
The ego-self is possibly the source of most of our problems. Wherever we get hung up in pain and confusion, (and surely a pretentious person is confused,) we’ll find the ego.

"The ego is like a petty tyrant who must fulminate on the rightness of its position as a compensation for the swamp of doubt upon which it's castle is built."

James Hollis.
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