HexagonKeySet: Another piece of BS - That men may not choose to tell you what they're looking for cannot be labelled as fear.
Mostly we're not looking for a lot (which is fortunate)
Intelligence, a sense of humour, stability, common sense, reasonable language skills (in whatever language a guys is fluent in himself) a degree of flexibility / tolerance, acceptance. On the other perspective -The NOTS ... not a drama queen, princessy or mad cat woman type (more than 2 cats is an MCW) free from obvious signs of paranoia, delusion, narcissism, non smoker, non abusive and free from addictions.
UNLIKE women men tend to hope she will NOT change whereas women EXPECT to be able to change a man ... which is the root cause of so many relationship problems it ain't funny!
As for you, stay positive ... Prince Feaky is a s busy looking for you as you are him ...
tell us how u really feel,lol.but u nailed it why guys are leary.u did forget the love/hate complex.
Men are not afraid of the question. women are afraid to ask as well. if a woman sees someone she is interested in then she needs to say something. that first step swings both ways
lonelytiger68 :Men are not afraid of the question. women are afraid to ask as well. if a woman sees someone she is interested in then she needs to say something. that first step swings both ways
l don't go to men's profile, to ask, what are you looking for? when they write me email, then l ask that question them .I will never take the first step. because I'm Turkish, Turkish women will never take the first step
PeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands6,334 posts
I ain't afraid to ask. I'm looking for a wife, non smoking, no dogs or cats, maximum of 2 children, the less the better... Likes to play cardgames, chess, or other games like monopoly. Is honest, and hates it coming to late on an appointment. Has her own life, likes cooking now and then, going eating out now and then, likes me to cook for her now and then. And a nice looking face would be great. No muslima.
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