Impolite messages on dating sites ( Archived) (61)

Apr 9, 2019 4:15 AM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
Bellanna
BellannaBellannaPlatz, Appenzell Ausserrhoden Switzerland15 Threads 3 Polls 339 Posts
Do you get impolite messages on dating sites?

I noticed some very funny thing happening.

I get a message from a man from another country and I don't reply (as stated in my profile).

(I used to reply with "Thanks, but no thanks", but men mostly understood "no" as "maybe" so I would get myself into explaining why I don't want a long-distance relationship over and over again. In the end I decided it was better to ignore such messages altogether.)

And then - something funny started to happen. I get a message - usually one sentence only - "hi, how are you", "hi, beautiful" and so on, I don't reply and after a couple of hours I get a message from the same man - some really nasty and offensive type of a message.

Does this happen to you to?

This scares me, because it shows that there are a lot of abusive men on dating sites and that you might not even know that if you are nice to them - maybe before it's too late. Pretty dangerous, isn't it?
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Apr 9, 2019 4:31 AM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
Bellanna: Do you get impolite messages on dating sites?

I noticed some very funny thing happening.

I get a message from a man from another country and I don't reply (as stated in my profile).

(I used to reply with "Thanks, but no thanks", but men mostly understood "no" as "maybe" so I would get myself into explaining why I don't want a long-distance relationship over and over again. In the end I decided it was better to ignore such messages altogether.)

And then - something funny started to happen. I get a message - usually one sentence only - "hi, how are you", "hi, beautiful" and so on, I don't reply and after a couple of hours I get a message from the same man - some really nasty and offensive type of a message.

Does this happen to you to?

This scares me, because it shows that there are a lot of abusive men on dating sites and that you might not even know that if you are nice to them - maybe before it's too late. Pretty dangerous, isn't it?
Hi I get messages offering their gmail, but I don't answer, they dont come back with any nasty messages though, it bust be a male thing, maybe bruised ego,
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Apr 9, 2019 4:36 AM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
Block and report!
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Apr 9, 2019 4:43 AM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Bellanna: Do you get impolite messages on dating sites?

I noticed some very funny thing happening.

I get a message from a man from another country and I don't reply (as stated in my profile).

(I used to reply with "Thanks, but no thanks", but men mostly understood "no" as "maybe" so I would get myself into explaining why I don't want a long-distance relationship over and over again. In the end I decided it was better to ignore such messages altogether.)

And then - something funny started to happen. I get a message - usually one sentence only - "hi, how are you", "hi, beautiful" and so on, I don't reply and after a couple of hours I get a message from the same man - some really nasty and offensive type of a message.

Does this happen to you to?

This scares me, because it shows that there are a lot of abusive men on dating sites and that you might not even know that if you are nice to them - maybe before it's too late. Pretty dangerous, isn't it?
It wasn't myself!!!!!
Am innocent.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 9, 2019 5:27 AM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
PeKaatje
PeKaatjePeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands59 Threads 3 Polls 6,334 Posts
a pity you don't want a long-distance relationship handsome lady. banana
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Apr 9, 2019 5:28 AM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
aries1234: Hi I get messages offering their gmail, but I don't answer, they dont come back with any nasty messages though, it bust be a male thing, maybe bruised ego,
I think so. I read this complaint all the time from women, but never from men. At any rate, these correspondents are scarey and absolutely nuts, and should be reported, blocked and removed.
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Apr 9, 2019 6:58 PM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
nope cause I have the world blocked.....banana
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Apr 10, 2019 12:21 PM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
Bellanna
BellannaBellannaPlatz, Appenzell Ausserrhoden Switzerland15 Threads 3 Polls 339 Posts
M4_Mischief: nope cause I have the world blocked.....
I think I'm going to do the same. There are no men in my area anyway and I can stay for forums. They are quite entertaining. thumbs up
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Apr 10, 2019 12:43 PM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
donal63
donal63donal63letterkenny, Donegal Ireland2 Threads 2,252 Posts
for a woman,you could pass as a man anydaythumbs up
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Apr 10, 2019 12:49 PM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
Bellanna
BellannaBellannaPlatz, Appenzell Ausserrhoden Switzerland15 Threads 3 Polls 339 Posts
donal63: for a woman,you could pass as a man anyday
This doesn't sound like a compliment... laugh
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Apr 10, 2019 12:53 PM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
donal63
donal63donal63letterkenny, Donegal Ireland2 Threads 2,252 Posts
Bellanna: This doesn't sound like a compliment...
did say impolite?
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Apr 10, 2019 12:57 PM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
Rusty79
Rusty79Rusty79Douglas, Isle of Man UK5 Posts
Ignore and report. Many man think they are so awesome and dominant. I don't have this problems because woman have better manners.
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Apr 10, 2019 3:04 PM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
Oh dear
seems my posts have been deleted
i wonder why grin
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Apr 10, 2019 3:18 PM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Limun: Oh dear
seems my posts have been deleted
i wonder why
What did you write? laugh
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Apr 10, 2019 3:20 PM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
Sawdust_Molly
Sawdust_MollySawdust_MollyPeriana, Andalusia Spain28 Threads 718 Posts
Butin: ...no I cannot.. because I have a very small dickey....... ......
He got a teenie weenie awilly
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Apr 10, 2019 3:25 PM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
Sawdust_Molly
Sawdust_MollySawdust_MollyPeriana, Andalusia Spain28 Threads 718 Posts
Limun: Oh dear
seems my posts have been deleted
i wonder why
Freedom of speech on CS is an utopia. dunno
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Apr 12, 2019 10:12 PM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
99 percent of my messages are scammers.. They are sweet tho, till you call em out.. roll eyes
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Apr 13, 2019 5:01 AM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
mollybaby: What did you write?
Nothing,
a picture of me, wearing just a short apron ... looking over my shoulder flipping pancakes
I guess my hairy behind was too upsetting
fine I`ll shave


Jesus uh oh
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Apr 13, 2019 5:50 AM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
Sawdust_Molly
Sawdust_MollySawdust_MollyPeriana, Andalusia Spain28 Threads 718 Posts
Limun: Nothing,
a picture of me, wearing just a short apron ... looking over my shoulder flipping pancakes
I guess my hairy behind was too upsetting
fine I`ll shave


Jesus
I got your back Limun! laugh laugh laugh

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Apr 13, 2019 6:15 AM CST Impolite messages on dating sites
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
M4_Mischief: nope cause I have the world blocked.....
Boy you really do have everyone blocked.

I had one message yesterday,-------- come across or the cat gets itlaugh laugh laugh
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