I did want it for years because I have been divorced for 24 yrs but now its not something I want at all...which makes me wonder if I ever really wanted it in the first place.....at least for the right reasons...
M4_Mischief: I did want it for years because I have been divorced for 24 yrs but now its not something I want at all...which makes me wonder if I ever really wanted it in the first place.....at least for the right reasons...
crystalsmile: becuase lady want marriage,but man fear nope,then cancel lady?
nope, not really Men want marriage but Women want ``freedom `` to make dirty dance with no pants with lots of Men ,,, and then whine and complain -Men are bad-
crystalsmile: M4_Mischief fear marriage,fear divorce too
I was married 28 years and was divorced 5 years ago (not my choice). I feel that most people don't take marriage seriously enough to ride out the tough times that happen. There's a reason why the marriage vows contain the words " for better or worse, in sickness and health" It's to let people know that these things will happen so be prepared for them when they do. I do not fear marriage, but do fear divorce. After going through the humiliation of one I never wanted or thought would happen. I never want to go through that again. Although at this time I'm not making any effort to find someone, that doesn't mean I wouldn't get married again if the right one came along. I just hope if I do it again, there is no divorce.
After society's acceptability of marriage that you got conned into the first time, don't get married again unless it is for a financial or visa situation, or, perhaps you like throwing good money after bad..
Limun: nope, not really Men want marriage but Women want ``freedom `` to make dirty dance with no pants with lots of Men ,,, and then whine and complain -Men are bad-
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