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Jul 4, 2021 3:48 PM CST Forum experts
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Selenite: When it comes to relationships.....

Failure is a matter of perception ... experience of many different scenarios (failures) is far more "useful" for anyone looking for advice than 'just 1 scenario that developed in one particular way involving 2 particular people- so it only applies to them (success)" ...
So in essence , you’re saying that people who’ve had many failed relationships in the past are better equipped to give advice , than those who have been married or had a long term partner for many years and are still ongoing ..
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Jul 4, 2021 4:02 PM CST Forum experts
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Youcannow: So in essence , you’re saying that people who’ve had many failed relationships in the past are better equipped to give advice , than those who have been married or had a long term partner for many years and are still ongoing ..
It very much depends on what type of advice one is looking for ... what type of life one is looking for etc...

I know single people who are currently on their own, ate healthy and happy and haven't compromised their inner peace ....

I know a few couples (quite a few) who have been married forever, have compromised so much for the sake "of the marriage" that they do not feel inner peace, they have all sorts of "bodily disfunctions" due to stress and not feeling deep down happy, BUT they have been long term partners for many years ...

I know a few (very few) couples, married/together for a long time (often their second marriage) who are deep down happy and thriving ....

Just because a marriage has been going for years is not always because of the quality of it ... It can because of cultural pressure, or personal fears of loneliness or lack of resources or many other reaons ...

I prefer to ask for advice to someone who is obviously happy and thriving in their life choices than pick my advice giver on their marital status cool
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Jul 4, 2021 5:52 PM CST Forum experts
Losted
LostedLostedSherman, Texas USA1 Threads 603 Posts
I've never exactly said I'm single.
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Jul 4, 2021 10:40 PM CST Forum experts
If you come to CS forums for expert advice on any topic, you are wasting your time. Now if you want to hear a good story from someone about past relationships, that is a good reason to wander here.
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Jul 4, 2021 10:51 PM CST Forum experts
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,465 Posts
When people ask for advice on cs it's no different to asking your friends in the real world..People ask for opinions..Some people reply with humour and some people like myself go into great detail with perfect grammar.
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Jul 5, 2021 3:45 AM CST Forum experts
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
Youcannow: After going through some of the relationship advice from the “so called” experts on the forums.. my question is , why are you still single?
Different name, but same old same old roll eyes
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Jul 5, 2021 3:46 AM CST Forum experts
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
mbken: If you come to CS forums for expert advice on any topic, you are wasting your time. Now if you want to hear a good story from someone about past relationships, that is a good reason to wander here.
I agree with that, sharing past experiences shared can actually help imo cheers
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Jul 5, 2021 3:55 AM CST Forum experts
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
Name_Taken_Too: I agree with that, sharing past experiences shared can actually help imo
wave
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Jul 5, 2021 3:56 AM CST Forum experts
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
Hey there Deedee..hug wave
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Jul 5, 2021 4:03 AM CST Forum experts
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
Name_Taken_Too: Hey there Deedee..
Good to see you back
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Jul 5, 2021 4:08 AM CST Forum experts
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
deedee123xo: Good to see you back
Always a pleasure to see you also..wink bouquet
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Jul 5, 2021 4:11 AM CST Forum experts
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
deedee123xo: Different name, but same old same old
So what is your intention… to blow my cover and get me banned again ?
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Jul 5, 2021 5:23 AM CST Forum experts
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
Youcannow: So what is your intention… to blow my cover and get me banned again ?
My intention is to maintain my indifference to you.
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Jul 5, 2021 5:57 AM CST Forum experts
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Nules: My reason for being single is I haven’t met the man of my dreams yet
So why are you still single????
Here I am Nules! laugh heart wings
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Jul 5, 2021 1:07 PM CST Forum experts
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
Dedovix: Have you been expecting from them to post of their ``activities`` on the forums?
Only on Fridays we do that laugh
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Jul 5, 2021 1:09 PM CST Forum experts
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
deedee123xo: Different name, but same old same old
thumbs up
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Jul 5, 2021 1:27 PM CST Forum experts
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
irish78eyes: Only on Fridays we do that
okay then, I`ll bring the popcorn

popcorn
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