It seems every once in awhile a case just takes off for some reason. Like the Casey Anthony, George Zimmerman, Jon Benet Ramsey, OJ Simpson and a few others.
There is a real "lynch mob" attitude with this new one. People even want to string up Laundrie's parents! Very scary. So far the evidence is damning but still not conclusive.
I've just watched the second video and it's answered sme of my questions.
It is a racial issue, but other factors such as Gabby's media exposure also play a part in the high profile status of this case.
I still maintain that teaching children about social, emotional and psychological issues is imperative: perhaps the male police officers might have acted differently had their education been more extensive.
I also missed some of the pertinent factors in the body cam footage I watched a few days ago, where it was presented that Gabby was the aggressor. I still felt uncomfortable about Laundrie's body language (he came across as socially inept, a trait typical of abusers), but hadn't put the pieces together in such a way that that the attending police officers might have acted differently.
The first time I saw Gabby she was a young, vulnerable woman crying. I felt that this young woman was on the verge of a breakdown. She appeared to be helpless. To make it worse it seemed that her boyfriend was the cause of her stress which put her in danger.
She admitted to the officer that she has OCD and was trying to clean up the inside of the van. Her boyfriend wanted her to stop doing that but she was insistent in doing it.
OCD is a disorder in which people have recurring, unwanted thoughts, ideas or sensations (obsessions) that make them feel driven to do something repetitively (compulsions).
So why do I think Gabby's story has hit the heart of people........I think it is because she was weak, a defenseless lamb and had no way to help herself get out of a very bad situation.
If cops on the Eastern side of the U.S. had stopped a van with a girl crying and a man said he slapped her you can be sure that both Gabby and Brian would have been taken to police headquarters for questioning. With that most likely they would have called Gabby's father to come pick her up.
jac_the_gripper: I've just watched the second video and it's answered sme of my questions.
It is a racial issue, but other factors such as Gabby's media exposure also play a part in the high profile status of this case.
I still maintain that teaching children about social, emotional and psychological issues is imperative: perhaps the male police officers might have acted differently had their education been more extensive.
I also missed some of the pertinent factors in the body cam footage I watched a few days ago, where it was presented that Gabby was the aggressor. I still felt uncomfortable about Laundrie's body language (he came across as socially inept, a trait typical of abusers), but hadn't put the pieces together in such a way that that the attending police officers might have acted differently.
Who is making it a racial issue? Don’t answer please. The answer is obvious.
Why does everything have to be about colour..Thousands of kids of all colours are missing yet to be found.
Gabby had a huge following and that did help plus when parents never give up pestering authorities..When parents never give up walking the streets with flyers..When Parents never give up pestering social media sites then yes you do get more results.
Wow, they both hit each other... There are lines that should never be crossed... One of them is the line of physical violence... It marks the point of no return in a relationship...
galrads: Who is making it a racial issue? Don’t answer please. The answer is obvious.
You didn't watch the second video, eh?
If, in a white dominated society, the statistics imply that more white men and more people of colour go missing in the US than white women, but more attention is given to missing white women, then clearly it's the dominant white population that make race an issue.
As it says in the video, if the missing person was an older, Korean man there wouldn't be the same kind of public interest and coverage, whether he did the tiktok thng, or not.
Feminism: you can't have equal rights for women without having equal rights for everyone by default.
galrads: I can’t disagree with that. It ussually is a good thing for children to be on a two parent family.
Even though many relationships are abusive?
Is it a good thing for a child's role model to be abusive to their partner and co-parent? What behaviours do you expect that to produce?
My daughter said to me when she was 14 years old that she preferred boys who were raised by their mothers because they interacted with her as an equal, a human being, rather than trying to dominate her. Out of the mouths of babes.
Do you really think that Saukerl of a troll(op) LeeCharming has anything sensible to say when his whole motivation is to engender discord?
"NO" !! ya cant predict that stuf happening , from all the back stories , Im understanding they "were both" pretty toxic with eachother !! its all just a very ad thing to see her dead , and him not in a yellow outfit with a needle in his veins !
Melody1671: Wow, they both hit each other... There are lines that should never be crossed... One of them is the line of physical violence... It marks the point of no return in a relationship...
Never?? I doubt you would worry about crossing that line if the guy was trying to kill you.
secretagent09: Never?? I doubt you would worry about crossing that line if the guy was trying to kill you.
Exactly
When Gabby was being asked questions by the officer in that video she was a fragile mess..She did what those of us who were abused would do..She made excuses for her abuser whilst blaming herself stuck in a vicious bs cycle.
Getting back to what you said secret..I had long nails..hands to my face trying to protect myself it was always on the cards his open hand or closed fists would cop a mark or marks from my long nails..I didn't dare strike back but I sure as hell went into a protective mode by wrapping my arms or hands across my face & head
secretagent09: The first time I saw Gabby she was a young, vulnerable woman crying. I felt that this young woman was on the verge of a breakdown. She appeared to be helpless. To make it worse it seemed that her boyfriend was the cause of her stress which put her in danger.
She admitted to the officer that she has OCD and was trying to clean up the inside of the van. Her boyfriend wanted her to stop doing that but she was insistent in doing it.
OCD is a disorder in which people have recurring, unwanted thoughts, ideas or sensations (obsessions) that make them feel driven to do something repetitively (compulsions).
So why do I think Gabby's story has hit the heart of people........I think it is because she was weak, a defenseless lamb and had no way to help herself get out of a very bad situation.
If cops on the Eastern side of the U.S. had stopped a van with a girl crying and a man said he slapped her you can be sure that both Gabby and Brian would have been taken to police headquarters for questioning. With that most likely they would have called Gabby's father to come pick her up.
And Gabby would have lived ~~~~
Agree, if the cops arrested her that day her parents would of come get her, poor wee pet She unnerved me she was totally on the verge of a break down.
Jac the gripper is right. This violent behavior towards people should come with education in school cause even before boyfriend or girlfriends crappy things are happening to our youth and it should be educated to the young for everyone's benefit. Like how to get out of a bad relationship can as simple as leaving it. Narciscism and such should also be on the agenda also. Finding the signs should not be a life learnt lifeskill. It's not rocket science. A narcisist wants something and will not give up on persistence cause that works eventually most of the time.
Blow a what? Oh, blow a fuse. Oh well. You remind me of female serial killers, most of whom, i think, have gone undetected. Instead of doing an outright murder like the (i admit) CLOWNS who do the murders you concentrate on, most women serial killers use poison. They kill; other women, men, and children. Often members of their own family. Im not excusing what the men you concentrate on do, Im just pointing out that many, MANY women do virtually the same thing. A different method, with the same result. Death. Also you are a bigot, concentration on only one group of people, men.
Bigot! Bigot![/quote
Maybe women do blow a fuse now and then but we try and hold it together. You tell me how many females have gone into a school and shot children "dead" You tell me how many females have gone out on the rampage, shooting people? DEAD? and NOT one of them was a "Woman" So don't try and preach to me mate You've bitten off more than you can chew
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