3 best decisions (33)

Nov 20, 2023 4:40 PM CST 3 best decisions
Coldheaven
ColdheavenColdheavenNorthern Ireland Belfast, Antrim Ireland13 Threads 1 Polls 3,147 Posts
To pair up with my partner of 24 years when I was 23.

To save up and go into business with him.

To buy properties together for our sons.

teddybear
Nov 20, 2023 4:48 PM CST 3 best decisions
salamuna
salamunasalamunaDeventer, Overijssel Netherlands5 Threads 225 Posts
It’s easier for me, just like Grandsi to name what I regret.
but ok, it was interesting for introspection to find my 3 best solutions
1. Join the university and get a master's degree
2. divorce my both husbands and start a completely new life
3 meet a true love even if it is unrequited
Nov 20, 2023 4:56 PM CST 3 best decisions
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
salamuna: It’s easier for me, just like Grandsi to name what I regret.
but ok, it was interesting for introspection to find my 3 best solutions
1. Join the university and get a master's degree
2. divorce my both husbands and start a completely new life
3 meet a true love even if it is unrequited
My observation: a true love is always unrequited. Even if the both sides are involved. I don't know how it's possible. Once upon a time I was totally in love with a man who was totally in love with me, yet we were totally in love with each other in a completely different way. And the ways we were in love with each other weren't requite from the other side.

A strange phenomenon, but here we are. Or were :(
Nov 20, 2023 5:01 PM CST 3 best decisions
salamuna
salamunasalamunaDeventer, Overijssel Netherlands5 Threads 225 Posts
Tulifell
My real love story differs a bit from yours one.. I am totally in love, but he is not.. and just like in the song you ve posted but a bit opposite." This man doesn't love you, but he will never let you go..."
wave
Nov 22, 2023 7:13 PM CST 3 best decisions
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
salamuna: Tulifell
My real love story differs a bit from yours one.. I am totally in love, but he is not.. and just like in the song you ve posted but a bit opposite." This man doesn't love you, but he will never let you go..."
It sounds sad.

But I do hope, you'd find a way to break free from him if it's your intention.
Nov 23, 2023 4:15 AM CST 3 best decisions
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Best three decisions I have made was getting out of a very violent relationship

When I became single I stopped giving men the benefit of the doubt when looking back so many red flags could of filled a golf course that I ignored for too long I had to stop making excuses for him as I did my ex because I could feel myself getting involved in another toxic situation that I needed to walk way from for good

I love my single life I thrive being single so yep best decision I made was to stay single forever & ever & ever
Nov 23, 2023 7:18 AM CST 3 best decisions
Oh my god ....glad you had the sense to get out Merc...and sorry to hear things were so bad.... nobody deserves to be on a situation like that hug
Nov 23, 2023 9:35 AM CST 3 best decisions
.......best decision. I made not to vote Tory.......labour .......liberal..........(3)...........all t/potsgrin jh
Nov 23, 2023 2:43 PM CST 3 best decisions
First best decision was to GTF out of New York City. 2nd best decision was to buy a house. 3rd best decision was to learn all I could about the Stock Market. A bonus decision was to never become a smoker.
Nov 23, 2023 3:34 PM CST 3 best decisions
salamuna
salamunasalamunaDeventer, Overijssel Netherlands5 Threads 225 Posts
@Tulefell
No, it s not sad at all..just like Mercedes I enjoy being single..but at the same time I am in love... It s a great inspiration for me.. so no regrets..btw I ve met him here on cscheering
Nov 24, 2023 3:32 PM CST 3 best decisions
rohaan: Very good, sweetie--very, very good
hug cheers
Nov 24, 2023 3:35 PM CST 3 best decisions
Tulefell: I am totally jealous of your so mature decisions at a relatively young age (I'll never be that mature). But I wonder how did you manage to move for love together with a house?
My house has been rented out for the last 6 years or so, so it gave me the ability to move where I wanted...I am blessed with the best tenants you could ask for...so I'm very lucky.
Maturity came when I had to work 2 jobs , working 7 days a week to get out of debt, that along with a once off government savings scheme, time and patience and I ended up 2 and half years later being able to buy my house....again lucky to have been able to do it.
Dec 4, 2023 4:22 PM CST 3 best decisions
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
salamuna: @Tulefell
No, it s not sad at all..just like Mercedes I enjoy being single..but at the same time I am in love... It s a great inspiration for me.. so no regrets..btw I ve met him here on cs
My best - then - friend told me at the time of my divorce: get married / get a lover at once or you'll remain single. (Because being single for a woman is the best option ever.) I didn't listen to her. I thought that before involving in a relationship, I'd enjoy being single for a little more. And more. And more... until being single became my philosophy.

It's so convenient. It's so satisfying. It's so me.

It is very single. Yes. It is also very independent :)
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