No I won't settle...I have had too many years of bad relationships to go there again...So for me it's not worth it...I have no patience for other people's crap anymore!!!!!!!!!!!
As we get older, I think we're a lot more able to see past supposed 'differences', and just accept a person as being good for us, in the main. Lees fussy, call it what you will, it happens and is noticeable in older folk.
For me, until i get there, I'm gonna hold out.
Not because I'm so picky, but I expect my ideal belle to be picky, and I'm in no real state to attract her the way I am just now.
I'm wondering how if I ever were to be in a relationship, I don't think I'd want him to move in with me. I've been living alone for too long now, paid (hmm.. still paying) for my own maisonette, and well... I now respect my space. And, I don't want to develop those behaviours women usually have to adopt when having a man round the house... doing extra cooking n washing other people's clothes. hmm... do I sound very selfish?? It feels so, but, I'm tired of 'having to have to look after a man'. Now, I only look after myself.
Having someone to cuddle up to on the sofa whilst watching a movie sounds nice though.....
I feel at this point in my life, it is much better to be alone than with some one I don't care for. Course, there is that smelly,alcoholic guy down the hall, but so far I have been able to resist the temptation.
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