Not really happy ( Archived) (25)

Dec 23, 2007 10:38 PM CST Not really happy
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
When people announce that they have found someone, everyone says how happy they are for them. In a way it makes me feel sad(do not know why). Does anyone else ever feel sad or are you really happy.

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Dec 23, 2007 10:39 PM CST Not really happy
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
No...I'm genuinely happy for those who find someone on here...Afterall that's what CS is all about....Why be sad????

I'm sure your day will come!!!!!!!!!!!

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Dec 23, 2007 10:41 PM CST Not really happy
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
I do not know why it makes me sad, if I know that, maybe I could be happy.

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Dec 23, 2007 10:41 PM CST Not really happy
Dark1Angel8
Dark1Angel8Dark1Angel8Omaha, Nebraska USA21 Threads 704 Posts
Yes, I am truly happy for those who find love and happiness. I don't feel sad, but I feel hopeful. Two people found each other. Maybe my turn is coming
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Dec 23, 2007 10:44 PM CST Not really happy
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
I guess I think my turn will not come, if it has not come by now, it is not going to.
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Dec 23, 2007 10:46 PM CST Not really happy
peter2
peter2peter2drogheda, Louth Ireland1 Threads 24 Posts
Im sure your turn is just around the corner, he will be a very lucky man
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Dec 23, 2007 10:47 PM CST Not really happy
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
When you have been with no one for 22 years there has to be some reason.
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Dec 23, 2007 10:48 PM CST Not really happy
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Hey it took me 6 years....Having a healthy..loving relationship meant more to me then just having a relationship...Patience will help your Mr. Right find you when the time is right!!!!!!

hug hug comfort santa waving
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Dec 23, 2007 10:50 PM CST Not really happy
BamaBob
BamaBobBamaBobCullman, Alabama USA2 Threads 61 Posts
It could mean that one is off the market but the bright side is that one is also out of the way!

I know how you feel but I also know that there are more out there and when we see that someone else has reached that goal it means that I can too...and so can you. Sometimes we have to give of ourselves and not expect too much or too fast. This time of year is very odd for meeting people... I'm fairly well convinced that spring is mating season for our species.....
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Dec 23, 2007 10:54 PM CST Not really happy
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
Kitty you gotta lower your standards.I had Brad Pitt on the phone crying cos you knocked him back again.wink
Your'e a lvely lady and your day will come, you just have to believe t and be ready. Good luck Kitty.hug
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Dec 23, 2007 10:56 PM CST Not really happy
markmeunier
markmeuniermarkmeunierTimmins, Ontario Canada16 Threads 3 Polls 912 Posts
You know dear, Christmas has really shone it's light upon you. You are quite the radiant blossom of late. Thanks for sharing your heart here. Yes I know go to your room....

Markangel
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Dec 23, 2007 11:01 PM CST Not really happy
Of course I'm happy, theres no other way to feel. If no one ever found who there looking for on here...it would be depressing. Gotta love it and be happy!!!smitten
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Dec 23, 2007 11:03 PM CST Not really happy
markmeunier
markmeuniermarkmeunierTimmins, Ontario Canada16 Threads 3 Polls 912 Posts
Oh for Pete's sake stop following me here... I am not a steak... I am not a steak...

Markangel
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Dec 23, 2007 11:15 PM CST Not really happy
Scottishlass
ScottishlassScottishlassKnoxville, Tennessee USA491 Threads 23 Polls 3,324 Posts
never give up. you never know what the future holds for you. try to take your mind off being alone. get involved with something. a volunteer group, book club, bowling team, church group, a senior citizens home read books to them, offer to run errands for them, how about volunteering at a local school as a teacher's assistant? reading to children at the local library? there are so many ways to help others, you wouldn't have time to think about how lonely you are. it is also a great way to maybe meet that "special" someone.
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Dec 23, 2007 11:18 PM CST Not really happy
hrt4lse
hrt4lsehrt4lseRedding, California USA13 Threads 1,233 Posts
I know the feeling....I keep going between "it's gotta happen sometime" and "it's never going to happen"

I do feel happy for those that have found someone, but sad too because it wasn't me. *shrugs*
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Dec 23, 2007 11:24 PM CST Not really happy
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
I think it's best to keep it privatewink ; but I think it's cool for those who announce it to the rest of us if they are ok with itpeace
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Dec 23, 2007 11:25 PM CST Not really happy
mmmmmmm..im so hungry...craving flesh...you goofball!!!!rolling on the floor laughing tongue rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 23, 2007 11:33 PM CST Not really happy
Poppa2Divas
Poppa2DivasPoppa2DivasIn The Mountains, USA4 Threads 242 Posts
Kitty,

You are a sweetheart and a gem.
Some day you will be someones treasure.
You have a love for life,love,God

The pursuit is not easy... just ask the one who has taken my heart.
It was not and is not easy there will be so many challenges you have to face... even in love.

you stick to your guns... and settle for nothing less than what you feel was sent to you straight from heaven.

You will be someones everything, Because i believe you would want all or none and would give equally.

You have always been kind to me and always had wonderful thoughts and questions.

you will find and soon i would think a man who will adore all that you are.

Be happy for those who may have found what in thier hearts is the real true love...
Above all things love one another and you shall be blessed.
I think you do love so caringly and i believe that will be your light to lead the man created for you to you.
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Dec 23, 2007 11:35 PM CST Not really happy
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
I find that being happy for others in some small way carves a small sliver of happiness for myself. That, and hope. tip hat
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Dec 23, 2007 11:47 PM CST Not really happy
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Theres always someone there for us.. now i dont know he / she reaches out to us when where and how and in which form .But, to find true love is in itself an event in a life time so lets embrace it and hope.

Life is Beautiful.. dont feel let down ..
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