gentlepaws: The woman that I got involved with 2 weeks ago went out to dinner with her ex boyfriend last night. Apparently he turned on the charm, added some promises and voila, he's back in, I'm out.
Yes it does hurt.
I understand it hurt and I am sorry a bout this
Some how when a new date wants to do any thing with the ex it means Danger, and some times they just meet a new man for making the ex becoming jeleous and changing some how so she can get back to gether with him a gain.
Make sure there are no "ex,s" with contact around or at least dont fall for the new woman at all and just enjoy being with her in the first several mounths at least if there is a ex some where near......
If it goes really well with you then she will get a way from mr. ex and if not then you will loose her a gain. thats why it is best to enjoy for some mounths I beleive.
Better luck next time......
YES!!!!!!! You are free a gain! Go for them Tiger!!!!!!!!
Knew this guy years back and he was born to loose, I went down from exhaustion and a end of a relationship, he said I I will remember these words well, this guy lost left right and center and if ya listened to him your bound to loose,
" He said ya fall of your horse ya get back up again and get back in the saddle>"
sorry to hear that leo, i feel your hurt my friend. don't lose hope though, there are women out there who would love to have what you have to offer. meanwhile, your friends are still here for you.
Hey Leo so sorry to hear about your pain and loss. At least you didn't do like me and move in and live with someone else for 6 months and for 4 of those months knowing you arent wanted there. Thank God she is gone now and not much later. Sorry thats all the hugs they allow me to give you!!!
gentlepaws: Bummer is; she lives in the apt., above me.
That is bad, so sorry, just be strong and go on with your life and make the best of it, find all the joy you can. And Hopefully real love will find you !! Goodluck to you and all of us seeking the same !!
gentlepaws: Thank you my dear. If I could beam myself to Ireland tonight, I'd knock on your door.
Hey I am still in Oz for a week but I would cook you something vegea]tarian..(hope you don't mind) and we could crack a fine bottle of something grand!!! Age is no barrier for hurt...don't beat yourself up..we live and learn and usually get right back in the same scorpions nest!!!
mylifewithu: That is bad, so sorry, just be strong and go on with your life and make the best of it, find all the joy you can. And Hopefully real love will find you !! Goodluck to you and all of us seeking the same !!
Good advice. I'm driving down to the US to visit a long time friend from CS., this week. She has been there when I needed to vent etc. Always a phone-call away. It will be great meeting her in person.
Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
gentlepaws: Bummer is; she lives in the apt., above me.
Stay loose there Leo: PRETEND it doen't bother you and invite a friend or sister or nieghbour up and trust me ----there is nothing a woman hates more than competion. You can play her game and maybe she is doing it to you. Her EX is a reason for being an EX and it wi soon show it's ugly head. Arlene xoxo JMO
Zarah: Hey I am still in Oz for a week but I would cook you something vegea]tarian..(hope you don't mind) and we could crack a fine bottle of something grand!!! Age is no barrier for hurt...don't beat yourself up..we live and learn and usually get right back in the same scorpions nest!!!
I've been a vegetarian for the past 18 years. I believe that I could sustain myself on your beauty alone.
Arlene101: Stay loose there Leo: PRETEND it doen't bother you and invite a friend or sister or nieghbour up and trust me ----there is nothing a woman hates more than competion. You can play her game and maybe she is doing it to you. Her EX is a reason for being an EX and it wi soon show it's ugly head. Arlene xoxo JMO
Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
Arlene101: Stay loose there Leo: PRETEND it doen't bother you and invite a friend or sister or nieghbour up and trust me ----there is nothing a woman hates more than competion. You can play her game and maybe she is doing it to you. Her EX is a reason for being an EX and it wi soon show it's ugly head. Arlene xoxo JMO
Good Lord ---Sorry abut the typos. I type and never look at the keyboard.
Zarah: Hey I am still in Oz for a week but I would cook you something vegea]tarian..(hope you don't mind) and we could crack a fine bottle of something grand!!! Age is no barrier for hurt...don't beat yourself up..we live and learn and usually get right back in the same scorpions nest!!!
PS: My great grandmother was from Ireland, does that give me any air-miles ?
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