Why is it that good men finsh last?? ( Archived) (179)

I can not for the life of me understand why. You take a man that treats a woman like a lady or queen eventhough you may not have a lot to offer you still make them feal that way just for them to leave you. Now you take a man that is physical or mentaly abusive to a woman and they wont leave them for the world. I have always treated them the best that I can and the way that I wanted to be treated and they leave. Can someone please explain this to me

Just part of being human. Some people are just different and may need a challenge in their life.

I am like you and try to treat people with respect and kindness. I think the thing to remember is you cannot expect anything in return or you will end up very disappointed. Find someone who is as friendly, loving and caring as you are, and you have the battle won...

hi ken

Hi Joanne....

Alan...find a woman like Joanne and you can't go wrong!!! Too bad she is engaged! But the guy she is engaged to is also a very nice person who I miss seeing here!!!

aww tks sweetie...tk god eric cant respond to this...he may say different

he is on the phone with me and says hi

have a good week

I don't know.. funny ole thing isn't it.

I think sometimes it's because a woman thinks she can bring out the best in a man.. and he will stop being like that with her.. change.. and everything will be hunky dory. (but we know that never works, don't we)

I think sometimes it just takes them a good few years.. or a good few bad relationships to see that.


I want a good man

I disagree wholeheartedly. Good men do not finish last. This is a misconception. Most of the women I know have good men in their lives, they are their partners or their husbands. They are valued by these women for being good, decent men. However, they are also men of character, will, personality, etc. The men who continually whine about women not wanting a 'good man' are men who have no personality...they treat women like a 'queen.' I don't want to be treated like a queen or a princess. I am a strong, thinking, independent, individual and I want a man who is all those things too. I don't want someone who is weak emotionally or intellectually. I want an equal, a peer. I don't need someone to cater to me or take care of me.

There are some women, mostly younger or older who are immature, who are still attracted to the 'bad boy' thing; but most mature women have gone past that stage. Maybe you are, for some reason, only interested in immature women? Maybe you think that attracting, having, and keeping a woman means you subject your personality to hers? I don't know. But I'll tell you one thing, a man who constantly goes around whining that women don't want good men is not very attractive. I love good, decent men...they are the ONLY kind of men I am interested in.

I agree