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Jul 9, 2008 6:08 PM CST I have a dilema...
uk_man_31
uk_man_31uk_man_31norwich, Norfolk, England UK52 Threads 6 Polls 821 Posts
ok Ive been seeing this lady for what 6 weeks, she has fallen in love with me and I havent with her... Shes always buying me stuff I have asked her to stop... Now the thing is I have to chill this out a bit or finish it and I dont know what to do or how to do it any ideas...
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Jul 9, 2008 6:12 PM CST I have a dilema...
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
uk_man_31: ok Ive been seeing this lady for what 6 weeks, she has fallen in love with me and I havent with her... Shes always buying me stuff I have asked her to stop... Now the thing is I have to chill this out a bit or finish it and I dont know what to do or how to do it any ideas...




Think you should end it Hun a clean break is better than a long drawn out break. AS that hurts more
hug
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Jul 9, 2008 6:12 PM CST I have a dilema...
crotalus_p
crotalus_pcrotalus_pRush, Dublin Ireland43 Threads 6 Polls 2,789 Posts
Finish it now , better the healing begin now than later , professor
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Jul 9, 2008 6:13 PM CST I have a dilema...
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
tell her. I had to do the same thing just recently.

I just turned to her and said"...I know how you feel about me...but I don't love you!"


Just tell her the truth!!
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Jul 9, 2008 6:14 PM CST I have a dilema...
Bowie
BowieBowiewinter haven, Florida USA2 Threads 958 Posts
have you begun to like her more than when you first started? Do you see yourself with her down the road?
If the answer is no, then I think you know what to do.
Good luckhandshake
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Jul 9, 2008 6:14 PM CST I have a dilema...
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
PILIPALA: Think you should end it Hun a clean break is better than a long drawn out break. AS that hurts more


I agree... dont let it go on too long... just be honest and tell her u dont feel the same... its tough thing to have to do but better now than down the line.... hug
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Jul 9, 2008 6:14 PM CST I have a dilema...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Helloo Dom! wave

Tell her ASAP.. if you don't think it's going to happen.

Don't let it drag on and make it a million times worse.

hug
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Jul 9, 2008 6:14 PM CST I have a dilema...
horselady5
horselady5horselady5Cincinnati, Ohio, Iowa USA18 Threads 366 Posts
Very simple just come right out and tell her to her face that you're not in love with you and to stop the gifts.

It sounds to me like she's trying to buy your love.


uk_man_31: ok Ive been seeing this lady for what 6 weeks, she has fallen in love with me and I havent with her... Shes always buying me stuff I have asked her to stop... Now the thing is I have to chill this out a bit or finish it and I dont know what to do or how to do it any ideas...
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Jul 9, 2008 6:16 PM CST I have a dilema...
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
Before you break it off try to get a set of spinning rims....
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Jul 9, 2008 6:16 PM CST I have a dilema...
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Lsten to Paul Simon

and pick one of the fifty ways!!!



dunno
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Jul 9, 2008 6:16 PM CST I have a dilema...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
mastic55: Before you break it off try to get a set of spinning rims....


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 9, 2008 6:16 PM CST I have a dilema...
horselady5
horselady5horselady5Cincinnati, Ohio, Iowa USA18 Threads 366 Posts
I left out her.doh
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Jul 9, 2008 6:16 PM CST I have a dilema...
chrissy87
chrissy87chrissy87Findlay, Ohio USA38 Threads 998 Posts
I definately agree with everyone else.
You have to be honest with her.
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Jul 9, 2008 6:17 PM CST I have a dilema...
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
uk_man_31: ok Ive been seeing this lady for what 6 weeks, she has fallen in love with me and I havent with her... Shes always buying me stuff I have asked her to stop... Now the thing is I have to chill this out a bit or finish it and I dont know what to do or how to do it any ideas...


Why are you asking? You know what to do... if you don't, you shouldn't be dating, you're not old enough!!
doh

rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 9, 2008 6:17 PM CST I have a dilema...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Claayer: Helloo Dom!

Tell her ASAP.. if you don't think it's going to happen.

Don't let it drag on and make it a million times worse.



applause applause applause


You're here!


wave hug
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Jul 9, 2008 6:18 PM CST I have a dilema...
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
all joking aside it easy to say just tell the truth, but it could be hard sometimes.....try to think it out and do whats best for you..
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Jul 9, 2008 6:18 PM CST I have a dilema...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
lusciousmile: You're here!


hahaha.. I had a bath.. went to bed.. read .. then got out to ermm 'powder my nose' snooty ... and got sidetracked.. lol


wave hug
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Jul 9, 2008 6:19 PM CST I have a dilema...
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Bowie: have you begun to like her more than when you first started? Do you see yourself with her down the road?
If the answer is no, then I think you know what to do.
Good luck



I agree with what everyone has said on this thread, But this one is what you have to ask yourself.... Good luck man.handshake
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Jul 9, 2008 6:20 PM CST I have a dilema...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
uk_man_31: ok Ive been seeing this lady for what 6 weeks, she has fallen in love with me and I havent with her... Shes always buying me stuff I have asked her to stop... Now the thing is I have to chill this out a bit or finish it and I dont know what to do or how to do it any ideas...



uk_man_31: ok Ive been seeing this lady for what 6 weeks, she has fallen in love with me and I havent with her... Shes always buying me stuff I have asked her to stop... Now the thing is I have to chill this out a bit or finish it and I dont know what to do or how to do it any ideas...


confused


drinking
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Jul 9, 2008 6:33 PM CST I have a dilema...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Claayer: hahaha.. I had a bath.. went to bed.. read .. then got out to ermm 'powder my nose' ... and got sidetracked.. lol



It's late, even there. snooty



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