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Aug 4, 2008 3:43 PM CST moving in together
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
darlynda: IT DOES FEEL RIGHT AND I GUESS THATS WHAT SCARES ME, but i guess we can both keep our homes for a while and see if its going to work i need a group hug cause i think i am going to jump in and do this


group hug

heart wings dancing cool
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Aug 4, 2008 3:43 PM CST moving in together
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
yes we must each choose for ourselves

i am noticing however youve been in forum 2 months and are comfortable with US...

just noticing

may be indicative may not

one nevah know do one?
ya pays ya money ya takes ya chances
step right up
and spin the wheel

thumbs up
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Aug 4, 2008 3:43 PM CST moving in together
darlynda
darlyndadarlyndatazewell, Tennessee USA49 Threads 4 Polls 1,093 Posts
vonney: Have to agree with tufty. Great that you are getting on well but in my mind is way to soon. I married my ex after just 9 months and we really didnt know each other at all, we were both still at the keeping our best sides out stage.
or maybe i am not, oh god i am soooooooooo confusedconfused
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Aug 4, 2008 3:44 PM CST moving in together
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
darlynda: IT DOES FEEL RIGHT AND I GUESS THATS WHAT SCARES ME, but i guess we can both keep our homes for a while and see if its going to work i need a group hug cause i think i am going to jump in and do this



yay maybe you could rent out your place at the start , not that you'll need itwink good luckhug
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Aug 4, 2008 3:44 PM CST moving in together
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
Indyfella: I'd run a credit check and a police report.


dont laff-
ive done it-

been a few years but i have done itdancing
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Aug 4, 2008 3:44 PM CST moving in together
tufty
tuftytuftyChelmsford, Essex, England UK4 Threads 816 Posts
darlynda: i think i am going to jump in and do this



And women moan that men are lead by their nether regions roll eyes



grin
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Aug 4, 2008 3:45 PM CST moving in together
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
mindfful: dont laff-
ive done it-

been a few years but i have done it



Pull a print and put it in a lockbox. laugh (fingerprint) grin
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Aug 4, 2008 3:46 PM CST moving in together
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Jan1305: Just don't do it based on the thought "I aint getting any younger"


Truecool

But not everyone loses something!

I would have lots to lose if somebody would want me to become USA first ladyrolling on the floor laughing

Obama mmmmsmitten
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Aug 4, 2008 3:47 PM CST moving in together
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
sooner u find out the better dancing vascillation is the curse of the damed.gift
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Aug 4, 2008 3:48 PM CST moving in together
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
darlynda: or maybe i am not, oh god i am soooooooooo confused


I'd be tranquile if he was also so confusedroll eyes
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Aug 4, 2008 3:49 PM CST moving in together
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
darlynda: or maybe i am not, oh god i am soooooooooo confused


id talk to my closest friend about it

someone aware of my patterns and intimate enuf to be comfortable and care enuf to share objective opinion based on something-like being in your life.

i have in the past been known to ask certain advice from certain people cuz i knew they would say what i wanted to hear.

none of us are perfect people.

i believe in 'a lid for every pot' theory
but i have more than once victimized myself by going toward the white hot spark that of course burned out just as fast-thats physics

youll learn about yourself whatever choice you make so its a bonus either way- opportunities arent always for saying yes i think
sometimes they are for saying no, maybe, wait, i dunno-and letting the dust settle.

do you pray? i do and usually feel a certain peace-or not-
i think if i have asked sincerely to 'see' i always get clear direction-confirmation of which way to go...
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Aug 4, 2008 3:50 PM CST moving in together
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
BnaturAl: sooner u find out the better vascillation is the curse of the damed.


i thot being damned was the curse of the damned?












rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 4, 2008 3:51 PM CST moving in together
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
BnaturAl: sooner u find out the better vascillation is the curse of the damed.


what about haste makes waste huuuuh?

tongue


laugh
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Aug 4, 2008 3:52 PM CST moving in together
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
tufty: And women moan that men are lead by their nether regions


gotta love the tufty onegrin


________________________________
hey indy are you tryin to say im a bit overly cautious???


uh oh
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Aug 4, 2008 3:57 PM CST moving in together
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
well, you know me...I'm not for people living together!! But that is just me. Most don't agree with that. But for those interested in a live-in relationship...no time is right. Whatever you feel is right is all that matters. Best of luck to you bothhug
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Aug 4, 2008 3:58 PM CST moving in together
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
My moving in days are over. I've got the shirt and button. I'll pass.
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Aug 4, 2008 4:01 PM CST moving in together
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Indyfella: My moving in days are over. I've got the shirt and button. I'll pass.


laugh

Mine aren't. I've only ever moved in with one person and that lasted over 25 years.

How many times for you Indy???
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Aug 4, 2008 4:28 PM CST moving in together
Dont_Look_Now
Dont_Look_NowDont_Look_NowHuntsville, Alabama USA5 Threads 1,855 Posts
darlynda: ok heres the question. my guy and i have been dating for a little over 2 months now and we are talking about moving in together. how long would each of you give it before you take that next step? i keep thinking i aint getting any younger and we do seen to get along really well. so please give me some really good advise , i know you can. THANKS
Give it a go....what have you got to lose? dunno You both own your own homes so it is not like if it does not work out that you will be out on your ear...

I say "Go for it!" applause
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Aug 4, 2008 4:29 PM CST moving in together
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Jan1305: Mine aren't. I've only ever moved in with one person and that lasted over 25 years.

How many times for you Indy???



Once wasn't enough... rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 4, 2008 4:31 PM CST moving in together
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
I'd also check to see if he's taken out a $1,000,000 insurance policy on ya.. rolling on the floor laughing











Other than that.........dive in ! laugh
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