I really Hate being me (137)
mastic
youre a good guy
when you remove your profile i mourn
honest
you are kind and funny i canNOT understand why you are single
geez now im gettin all sentimental
my focus has shifted to those that matter
wow
that was quick
thank GOD
what a crap week ive had even tho my life is fantastic at the moment
i think ill go to bed b4 i screw it up
and maybe tomorrow will be a good day
youre a good guy
when you remove your profile i mourn
honest
you are kind and funny i canNOT understand why you are single
geez now im gettin all sentimental
my focus has shifted to those that matter
wow
that was quick
thank GOD
what a crap week ive had even tho my life is fantastic at the moment
i think ill go to bed b4 i screw it up
and maybe tomorrow will be a good day
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bushbun: Yes, but that is personal interest
If you are doing it conciously for that particular reason....other than that...we are on this world to help others as per one of the main reasons
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bushbun: Yes, but that is personal interest
not if you only realize it after the fact
in hindsight...
besides identifying a facet of an exchange cant be right or wrong...
there are many facets, subjective some
and some paradoxical
there are no right or wrongs here i think
but many possibilities w/ many variables...
can we just share instead of being right or wrong?
goodnight folks
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mindfful: not if you only realize it after the fact
in hindsight...
besides identifying a facet of an exchange cant be right or wrong...
there are many facets, subjective some
and some paradoxical
there are no right or wrongs here i think
but many possibilities w/ many variables...
can we just share instead of being right or wrong?
goodnight folks
in hindsight...
besides identifying a facet of an exchange cant be right or wrong...
there are many facets, subjective some
and some paradoxical
there are no right or wrongs here i think
but many possibilities w/ many variables...
can we just share instead of being right or wrong?
goodnight folks
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Look....one of the bigest errors causes(I am not sayng that it is all wrong just...) envolvement/administration of psychologists in regular lifes of people over general public...as much as they manage to create some positive for society desired outcomes, majority of population is guess what....incapable to discern situations from their inner needs and therefore it all conflicts...
Paradoxal thinking is finall product....closters create abnormalities and dities such as "healthy mind in health body" go out of context that way....
Be yourself no matter what they say
Paradoxal thinking is finall product....closters create abnormalities and dities such as "healthy mind in health body" go out of context that way....
Be yourself no matter what they say
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TEAMWORK......that's what it's all about.
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Daniel4021: You know, I help so many people, why do I do that? and then get taken for granted, Alot of what I do is in email, sometimes it would be nich to have a thank you, but you know what, I guess it really doesn't matter, at least I helped someone, You see, I can't hurt like they do, because if I did, who would they turn to? Who would be there for them...
I'm sorry, didn't mean to vent... i'm better now...
I'm sorry, didn't mean to vent... i'm better now...
Thank you sweetie. You have really helped pick up my spirits. If you ever need someone to stand for you....call on me. 
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bushbun: Look....one of the bigest errors causes(I am not sayng that it is all wrong just...) envolvement/administration of psychologists in regular lifes of people over general public...as much as they manage to create some positive for society desired outcomes, majority of population is guess what....incapable to discern situations from their inner needs and therefore it all conflicts...
Paradoxal thinking is finall product....closters create abnormalities and dities such as "healthy mind in health body" go out of context that way....
Be yourself no matter what they say
That made even less sense than your last post. Please tell me who ever told you that you were a writer? Paradoxal thinking is finall product....closters create abnormalities and dities such as "healthy mind in health body" go out of context that way....
Be yourself no matter what they say
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Instead....I will be myself and jump under blanket now to 
Wishing you all good night try not to charge others for personal choice to help...
Wishing you all good night try not to charge others for personal choice to help...
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Daniel4021: You know, I help so many people, why do I do that? and then get taken for granted, Alot of what I do is in email, sometimes it would be nich to have a thank you, but you know what, I guess it really doesn't matter, at least I helped someone, You see, I can't hurt like they do, because if I did, who would they turn to? Who would be there for them...
I'm sorry, didn't mean to vent... i'm better now...
I'm sorry, didn't mean to vent... i'm better now...
Sorry you felt or feel that way Daniel. As far back as I can remember you have been incredibly Popular and have many women and men singing your praises. Not only as a single guy...but as a Poet, A caring man, A accomplished Martial Artist. and so much more I wouldn't know where to begin. I guess even at the top it can be rough. I have never been there so I cant say. Just that from down here you look like you do ok to me. I hope you feel better soon.
All my best Daniel.
Sincerely
Bettis
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mindfful: mastic
youre a good guy
when you remove your profile i mourn
honest
you are kind and funny i canNOT understand why you are single
geez now im gettin all sentimental
my focus has shifted to those that matter
wow
that was quick
thank GOD
what a crap week ive had even tho my life is fantastic at the moment
i think ill go to bed b4 i screw it up
and maybe tomorrow will be a good day
You made my day.youre a good guy
when you remove your profile i mourn
honest
you are kind and funny i canNOT understand why you are single
geez now im gettin all sentimental
my focus has shifted to those that matter
wow
that was quick
thank GOD
what a crap week ive had even tho my life is fantastic at the moment
i think ill go to bed b4 i screw it up
and maybe tomorrow will be a good day
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alabamabebe: I really Hate being me
That would be your main problem, if you really mean that. It doesn't matter what we do for others, if we don't like ourselves, no one else is going to. You're going to get the people who take advantage of you, cause they can see you don't care who walks all over you. No one else will care about you if you don't care about yourself.
A real friend will do things for others without expecting anything in return, and will usually have it returned in kind. People who expect it are resented for their good deeds a lot of times. We all have to check our motivations for helping out others, are we really doing it cause we want to help, or are we looking for the reward? Just a thought, don't know if it applies to you or not, I don't know you that well.
That would be your main problem, if you really mean that. It doesn't matter what we do for others, if we don't like ourselves, no one else is going to. You're going to get the people who take advantage of you, cause they can see you don't care who walks all over you. No one else will care about you if you don't care about yourself.
A real friend will do things for others without expecting anything in return, and will usually have it returned in kind. People who expect it are resented for their good deeds a lot of times. We all have to check our motivations for helping out others, are we really doing it cause we want to help, or are we looking for the reward? Just a thought, don't know if it applies to you or not, I don't know you that well.
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This happens to all of us we help others because of the people we are , if you expect thanks all the time
you are setting yourself up to be disappointed , it's human nature
you are setting yourself up to be disappointed , it's human nature
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Daniel4021: You know, I help so many people, why do I do that? and then get taken for granted, Alot of what I do is in email, sometimes it would be nich to have a thank you, but you know what, I guess it really doesn't matter, at least I helped someone, You see, I can't hurt like they do, because if I did, who would they turn to? Who would be there for them...
I'm sorry, didn't mean to vent... i'm better now...
I'm sorry, didn't mean to vent... i'm better now...
Daniel
Hope you are well,you always say 2mr is another day,and better one honey...
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Daniel4021: You know, I help so many people, why do I do that? and then get taken for granted, Alot of what I do is in email, sometimes it would be nich to have a thank you, but you know what, I guess it really doesn't matter, at least I helped someone, You see, I can't hurt like they do, because if I did, who would they turn to? Who would be there for them...
I'm sorry, didn't mean to vent... i'm better now...
I'm sorry, didn't mean to vent... i'm better now...
You said you really hate being you.....don't say that,you are very good person ,and I think you know that,don't you????
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Daniel4021: You know, I help so many people, why do I do that? and then get taken for granted, Alot of what I do is in email, sometimes it would be nich to have a thank you, but you know what, I guess it really doesn't matter, at least I helped someone, You see, I can't hurt like they do, because if I did, who would they turn to? Who would be there for them...
I'm sorry, didn't mean to vent... i'm better now...
I'm sorry, didn't mean to vent... i'm better now...
Oh Daniel...
Don't do that self loathing stuff, it is not good for the soul.
I like you being you.
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I would like to give a heartfelt thanks to all that have replied to this thread, Honestly, I don't expect a thank you from anyone that I do things for, my reward has always been seeing them lifted up by what I have done..
Last night someone that I have been helping to see that they were important gave me a cold hard slap in the face... It blew me away when that happened, I have never been anything but kind to this person.. it really broke my heart when that happened..
And when I started this thread, my motive was not to seek attention, I just had to let what happened out.. thank you all for being the wonderful people that all of you are..
Warm hugs for the ladies..
And firm handshakes for the guys..
Last night someone that I have been helping to see that they were important gave me a cold hard slap in the face... It blew me away when that happened, I have never been anything but kind to this person.. it really broke my heart when that happened..
And when I started this thread, my motive was not to seek attention, I just had to let what happened out.. thank you all for being the wonderful people that all of you are..
Warm hugs for the ladies..
And firm handshakes for the guys..
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Daniel4021: I would like to give a heartfelt thanks to all that have replied to this thread, Honestly, I don't expect a thank you from anyone that I do things for, my reward has always been seeing them lifted up by what I have done..
Last night someone that I have been helping to see that they were important gave me a cold hard slap in the face... It blew me away when that happened, I have never been anything but kind to this person.. it really broke my heart when that happened..
And when I started this thread, my motive was not to seek attention, I just had to let what happened out.. thank you all for being the wonderful people that all of you are..
Warm hugs for the ladies..
And firm handshakes for the guys..
Last night someone that I have been helping to see that they were important gave me a cold hard slap in the face... It blew me away when that happened, I have never been anything but kind to this person.. it really broke my heart when that happened..
And when I started this thread, my motive was not to seek attention, I just had to let what happened out.. thank you all for being the wonderful people that all of you are..
Warm hugs for the ladies..
And firm handshakes for the guys..
Hearts do not break Daniel, they bruise, they heal and the recover.
Whoever this person was, leave them be, you think about you and what you bring to the party.
And have a hug back.
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Daniel4021: I would like to give a heartfelt thanks to all that have replied to this thread, Honestly, I don't expect a thank you from anyone that I do things for, my reward has always been seeing them lifted up by what I have done..
Last night someone that I have been helping to see that they were important gave me a cold hard slap in the face... It blew me away when that happened, I have never been anything but kind to this person.. it really broke my heart when that happened..
And when I started this thread, my motive was not to seek attention, I just had to let what happened out.. thank you all for being the wonderful people that all of you are..
Warm hugs for the ladies..
And firm handshakes for the guys..
Last night someone that I have been helping to see that they were important gave me a cold hard slap in the face... It blew me away when that happened, I have never been anything but kind to this person.. it really broke my heart when that happened..
And when I started this thread, my motive was not to seek attention, I just had to let what happened out.. thank you all for being the wonderful people that all of you are..
Warm hugs for the ladies..
And firm handshakes for the guys..
Did ya just say ....a cold
hard 
slap in the face ??? 
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Yes, but that is personal interest