Friends with benefits (146)
kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 PostsWho would like to have a male friend for companionship, with a little on the side
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Not really...I would prefer a female frankly....:-)
kitty01: Who would like to have a male friend for companionship, with a little on the side
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Someone who you can talk to about your troubles, who will always be there for you, but you do like to have both your needs meet until the right person comes along.
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kitty01: Who would like to have a male friend for companionship, with a little on the side
sure male friends are cool, as long as there's a woman on the side or on her stomache.. or ...
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Lagoona22: Not really...I would prefer a female frankly....:-)
Then I should reword it, if male a female friend, if a female a male friend.
What could you get out of this kind of relationship and could it develop into a romance.
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kitty01: Someone who you can talk to about your troubles, who will always be there for you, but you do like to have both your needs meet until the right person comes along.
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Not quite my style yet... but the way things are are going with my female friends outside of CS.... it may not be too far away....
I am such a jerk.
Zee
I am such a jerk.
Zee
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f**k buddies are only that f**k buddies nothing more nothing less !!!
this is truely a dangerous game one plays with serious problems later!
this is truely a dangerous game one plays with serious problems later!
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polishknight: f**k buddies are only that f**k buddies nothing more nothing less !!!this is truely a dangerous game one plays with serious problems later!
I have to agree with that. Friends with benefits can get very messy. In my experience, most cases end up with one or both parties getting emotionally involved and you can either decide to start a relationship or just try and go back to being friends. But a friends with benefits sorta arrangement rarely lasts long-term.
We all need someone to talk to - friends are wonderful to have, male and female but a friends with benefits scenario is a whole new kettle of fish.....JMO
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DUBLINGUY1973: I have to agree with that. Friends with benefits can get very messy. In my experience, most cases end up with one or both parties getting emotionally involved and you can either decide to start a relationship or just try and go back to being friends. But a friends with benefits sorta arrangement rarely lasts long-term.
We all need someone to talk to - friends are wonderful to have, male and female but a friends with benefits scenario is a whole new kettle of fish.....JMO
We all need someone to talk to - friends are wonderful to have, male and female but a friends with benefits scenario is a whole new kettle of fish.....JMO
I actually agree with that, it is nothing that I personally could do, but always wondered why some do. That is why I asked if anyone ever had this kind of friendship and why.
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I have a very good man friend who I've known for a long time so we're spending this weekend fishing and camping. There's no romance invloved just friends only.
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kitty01: Who would like to have a male friend for companionship, with a little on the side
Just to put the cat amongst the pigeons....
Isn't that a 'relationship?'
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Well if there's no romance, can I come??...he can catch fish, and I can catch you....
somechick: I have a very good man friend who I've known for a long time so we're spending this weekend fishing and camping. There's no romance invloved just friends only.
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Lagoona22: Well if there's no romance, can I come??...he can catch fish, and I can catch you....
Lagoona you're to much and quite the charmer.
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some chick: I have a very good man friend who I've known for a long time so we're spending this weekend fishing and camping. There's no romance involved just friends only.
but if you have been very good friends for a long time.........what if the opportunity arises would you go for it without knowing if this is turning into something more.
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Oh, they had this agreement that when either of them found a partner, they would keep a distance, and not really socialize together... That happened a few times during that 5 year period...on both sides...They respected that agreement, and as my partner she was thoroughly trustworthy....I found it an unusual, and quite remarkable friendship....I had no problem with it..
kitty01: Did you ever wonder what she did with her old friend if they remained friends.
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kitty01: I actually agree with that, it is nothing that I personally could do, but always wondered why some do. That is why I asked if anyone ever had this kind of friendship and why.
Funny it's something I never dreamed I could do,
but did for 4 years on and off between one
or other of us dating someone.
He was someone I dated for a short while and
it didn't work out the age difference of 14
years was a big thing, he was younger than I.
It worked well enough in it's way, it suited us.
He was never a best friend although we talked,
the arrangement we had was on a different level.
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Hey Lagoona the say the way to a womans heart is through her stomach with a well cooked fish dinner....go for it my friend..
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Lagoona22: You're right....everybody knows that...but often choose to ignore that truth....my question is, how can you sleep regualrly with someone, and not become attached?....if you can, I'd be wary of you....I knew someone like that...she could totally divorce the physical act, and emotions.....not for me thanks....I like old-fashioned romance...
Ah, some people can and do and are proud of it.
I was told that being physical with a person is completely different than making love with someone.
By a person who had a one night stand whilst in a relationship. Did not make the girl feel great at all.
I am with you. On this.
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