Friends with benefits (146)
I repeat I have never done this or think I would, was just wondering what others thought of it as I have heard of some friends doing that.
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evie_girl_fl: That is just selfishness in my opinion. Why cant a person wait until they do have the right individual?
Not for nothing, there is way too many diseases going on because of the term "friends with benefits". Well, its not for me , I rather hang out with my coworkers than have one of those types of relationships!good morning everyone!
Not for nothing, there is way too many diseases going on because of the term "friends with benefits". Well, its not for me , I rather hang out with my coworkers than have one of those types of relationships!good morning everyone!
LOL....Friends with ...Herpes?
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kitty01: I repeat I have never done this or think I would, was just wondering what others thought of it as I have heard of some friends doing that.
OHHHHHHHH sure kitty...you probably just wanted some advice on your own 10 FWB relationships!!!!!!!!
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I am a loner...can I get benefits without friends?
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Hello Friends (with or w/o benefits)
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Hugz_n_Kissez: OHHHHHHHH sure kitty...you probably just wanted some advice on your own 10 FWB relationships!!!!!!!!
It's always "the friends",that have done this.
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airliner: Hello Friends (with or w/o benefits)
Good morning friend. I need some benefits, dental insurance would be nice.
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different , sorry
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kidatheart: I've been hearing that BS for years, next it'll be we're from different planets or some crap like that. Welcome to the forums. Feel free to jump in anytime.
Kid.You mean like Venus and Mars?
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dachiemom: I agree with you there.
You do? seems a contridiction on your previous post
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kidatheart: I've been hearing that BS for years, next it'll be we're from different planets or some crap like that.
Actually it's not 'crap'. Men and women do differ dramatically in our very nature, and have totally different roles. I'd have added 'JMHO', but I didn't invent this. (and neither did John Gray, but he sure explained it well)
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kidatheart: I prefer to treat people as people, with the same respect I want and not like aliens from another planet.
You mean you'd be disrespectful to aliens???
Shame on you!! 
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AudrysSis: You mean you'd be disrespectful to aliens??? Shame on you!!
Are you implying aliens have feeling too?
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AudrysSis: You mean you'd be disrespectful to aliens??? Shame on you!!
No! Never! It's just all the aliens I've ever met just wanted to probe me and leave. No cuddles, no kisses. and all I wanted is to be held.
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kidatheart: No! Never! It's just all the aliens I've ever met just wanted to probe me and leave. No cuddles, no kisses. and all I wanted is to be held.
OMG!
So you would prefer a deep meaningful probing.
Couldn't resist.
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arabella: So none of the women who you have been "friends" with got emotionally involved?
And there have been no jealousies when you or her moved on?
Do you think that stating the just friends thing at the beginning makes a difference in keeping that kind of relationship happy and without jealousy?
I know, too many questions....
And there have been no jealousies when you or her moved on?
Do you think that stating the just friends thing at the beginning makes a difference in keeping that kind of relationship happy and without jealousy?
I know, too many questions....
If I begin to feel an emotional attachment, I tell them that and I inform them that it is time for me to move on. I remind them of what we fhad agreed to in the beginning and since things are now changing, it's time to call it quits before someone gets hurt.
I recall one of these women was looking over my shoulder as I was on CS one day. I turned to her and said********,I know how yu u feel about me....but I don't love you.
Now we hang out as friends and nothing more.
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kidatheart: No! Never! It's just all the aliens I've ever met just wanted to probe me and leave. No cuddles, no kisses. and all I wanted is to be held.
hold what exactly ?
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dillydally: hold what exactly ?
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friendsfirst: OMG!
So you would prefer a deep meaningful probing.
Couldn't resist.
So you would prefer a deep meaningful probing.
Couldn't resist.
how much is a probe these days ?
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I had opportunity to do the "friends with benefits" scenario and I found it in too impersonal.
Yep. It's down to patience and how much respect you have for yourself. Not everyone agrees with this, but I personally find it important to my self worth, not to play around with friends and most likely lose them in the process. Good friendships are rare enough, why risk them for quick gratificaton.