How and Why Women "Test" you. ( Archived) (167)

Aug 31, 2008 10:02 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
Here are a few.I'll check in later on.
Enjoy the discussion.

Have you ever called a woman on the phone to
set up a date and she says: "Friday night?
Sure. Call me on Friday and we can talk about
it..."?

Or, have you ever had a woman ask you if you're
"a player"?

Or, have you ever had a woman challenge you
about something ridiculous?

Or, have you ever had a woman call you five
minutes before a date and cancel?

Or, have you ever had a woman pout and get
upset because she didn't get her way?

Or, have you ever asked a woman for her number
and she says, "Why don't you give me your number
and I'll call YOU"?

Well guess what... you were being TESTED.

All of these are examples of common things
women do to "test" men.

On some level, the woman you were dealing with
was testing to see how much control she had in the
relationship... and how STRONG you were.

The paradox of "testing" is that if you COMPLY
with what a woman SEEMS to want, you will usually
FAIL the test.

Hey, I never said that women made sense... lol.cheering
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Aug 31, 2008 10:16 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
friendsfirst: Made you laugh though didn't it.
So what part did you like the most gingerb?


Probably the fact that you seem to be creating more memes and urban myths, that some idiot man who thinks he doesn't understand women, will fall for.

Women dont fu@c up mens minds, men posting crap like this do!!!rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 31, 2008 10:17 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
kidatheart: Yep, I agree, total crap. Hi Ginger


Hi Kid.wave hug
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Aug 31, 2008 10:18 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
kidatheart: Yep, I agree, total crap. Hi Ginger


Glad to see a male here.So what part do you agree with Kid?

You are probably being tested right now and don't even realize it.
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Aug 31, 2008 10:25 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
Or, have you ever asked a woman for her number
and she says, "Why don't you give me your number
and I'll call YOU"?

These are too funny.I almost spit hot tea on myself and my computer while I was reading these items.

The part where a woman telling a man if he gives her his phone # that she'll call him is really what got me.

I don't have to ask for man's phone number they give me theirs freely in most of the emails I get.


I won't give my phone number out to anyone unless I feel I can trust them.


I had a man email me and gave me his phone number cause he felt I may have an emergency. What a player he was. I saw right through what he was after.I thought to my myself what planet was this guy from. Never met him ,never really conversed with him that often on this site. I guess he figured I had stupid woman written across my forehead with flashing lights. rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 31, 2008 10:25 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
mrsmiles4444
mrsmiles4444mrsmiles4444Colonial Beach, Virginia USA26 Threads 397 Posts
friendsfirst: Good answer.


if you need an equity partner........don't forgret who gave you the idea. I'm all for it............really!

you write the chit, and I'll market and sell it to men who need guidance in learning how women will test them. bet we can change the face and confidence of men world wide. ANOTHER DELL? could beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, who knoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooows!rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 31, 2008 10:28 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
somechick: Or, have you ever asked a woman for her number
and she says, "Why don't you give me your number
and I'll call YOU"?

These are too funny.I almost spit hot tea on myself and my computer while I was reading these items.

The part where a woman telling a man if he gives her his phone # that she'll call him is really what got me.

I don't have to ask for man's phone number they give me theirs freely in most of the emails I get.I won't give my phone number out to anyone unless I feel I can trust them.I had a man email me and gave me his phone number cause he felt I may have an emergency. What a player he was. I saw right through what he was after.I thought to my myself what planet was this guy from. Never met him ,never really conversed with him that often on this site. I guess he figured I had stupid woman written across my forehead with flashing lights.


Glad to make you laugh so early Anna.rolling on the floor laughing
Bummer about the keyboards.They have liquid proof ones you know.wink
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Aug 31, 2008 10:29 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
friendsfirst: Here are a few.I'll check in later on.
Enjoy the discussion.

Have you ever called a woman on the phone to
set up a date and she says: "Friday night?
Sure. Call me on Friday and we can talk about
it..."?

Or, have you ever had a woman ask you if you're
"a player"?

Or, have you ever had a woman challenge you
about something ridiculous?

Or, have you ever had a woman call you five
minutes before a date and cancel?

Or, have you ever had a woman pout and get
upset because she didn't get her way?

Or, have you ever asked a woman for her number
and she says, "Why don't you give me your number
and I'll call YOU"?

Well guess what... you were being TESTED.

All of these are examples of common things
women do to "test" men.

On some level, the woman you were dealing with
was testing to see how much control she had in the
relationship... and how STRONG you were.

The paradox of "testing" is that if you COMPLY
with what a woman SEEMS to want, you will usually
FAIL the test.

Hey, I never said that women made sense... lol.




While I may not agree with the content of your post...I whole heartedly agree with the precept.
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Aug 31, 2008 10:30 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
We all know this goes both ways, of course. Still, I don't have any issues with small tests that could involve her security or at least the means of reaching a point where she feels comfortable.

Of course, the tests (or in some cases head games) can indeed go too far. That's usually a great time to walk away... dancing
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Aug 31, 2008 10:31 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
shipoker58: While I may not agree with the content of your post...I whole heartedly agree with the precept.


I knew i would get some experience behind this instead of the "i agree" "WUSSY "..talk others have provided thus far.
Thanks Ship.thumbs up cheers
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Aug 31, 2008 10:32 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
mrsmiles4444
mrsmiles4444mrsmiles4444Colonial Beach, Virginia USA26 Threads 397 Posts
somechick: Or, have you ever asked a woman for her number
and she says, "Why don't you give me your number
and I'll call YOU"?

These are too funny.I almost spit hot tea on myself and my computer while I was reading these items.

The part where a woman telling a man if he gives her his phone # that she'll call him is really what got me.

I don't have to ask for man's phone number they give me theirs freely in most of the emails I get.I won't give my phone number out to anyone unless I feel I can trust them.I had a man email me and gave me his phone number cause he felt I may have an emergency. What a player he was. I saw right through what he was after.I thought to my myself what planet was this guy from. Never met him ,never really conversed with him that often on this site. I guess he figured I had stupid woman written across my forehead with flashing lights.


bet you if it was a man we tutored with our " How to talk to women" course, purchased online for a simple $39.99, he would have come across like a caring, sincere, honest man, simply wanting your friendship. rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 31, 2008 10:34 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
friendsfirst: I knew i would get some experience behind this instead of the "i agree" "WUSSY "..talk others have provided thus far.
Thanks Ship.


What response were you looking for except to give us women a laugh?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 31, 2008 10:34 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
mrsmiles4444: bet you if it was a man we tutored with our " How to talk to women" course, purchased online for a simple $39.99, he would have come across like a caring, sincere, honest man, simply wanting your friendship.




I don't make bets when it comes to my safety.
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Aug 31, 2008 10:35 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
What seems to be is better than nothing at all....hmmm
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Aug 31, 2008 10:37 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
StressFree: What seems to be is better than nothing at all....


Can't believe anyone would buy into this, especially not you Stress.wave
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Aug 31, 2008 10:37 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
somechick: I don't make bets when it comes to my safety.


You make my point very well.thumbs up
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Aug 31, 2008 10:38 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
friendsfirst: I knew i would get some experience behind this instead of the "i agree" "WUSSY "..talk others have provided thus far.
Thanks Ship.



Very nice!thumbs down
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Aug 31, 2008 10:38 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
StressFree: What seems to be is better than nothing at all....


Facts are facts,eh Tony.cheers thumbs up
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Aug 31, 2008 10:42 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
friendsfirst: You make my point very well.



uh oh laugh
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Aug 31, 2008 10:48 AM CST How and Why Women "Test" you.
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
gingerb: Honest people don't do testing.

Friendsfirst:

If I had to cancel a date there'd be a bloody good reason and it would have nothing to do with testing some man either. What you are doing here is feeding into insecurities that some men have, and labeling all women as having agendas and playing head games. It's suggesting that women have no life that isn't centred around some man and how many ways she can think up in a day to test him. That theory is egotistical and self centred at best and downright detrimental to women at worst.

It's unfair as well as being a pack of lies.


kiss

yay

This is fun already.So far we have SAFTEY,from somechick.
Gingerb.IT happens subconsciously,whether you admit this or not. hug
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