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Nov 23, 2008 7:19 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
pianolover
pianoloverpianoloverJinzhou, Liaoning China9 Threads 16 Posts
Hi,friends,how are you doing? Here is another question for you.What do you value the most in a relasitonship?
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Nov 23, 2008 7:46 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Myself......... If I have no sense of value for myself, how can I place any value on anything else??confused
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Nov 23, 2008 7:49 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I believe it is trust. That no matter what the other person does you know it is always in your best interest. That the other person would never do anything that would hurt you. In the reverse you must alway provide your total support and love to only one person and she must know this is the case.
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Nov 23, 2008 7:58 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
mexikanska
mexikanskamexikanskaCancún, Quintana Roo Mexico55 Threads 3 Polls 963 Posts
comunication, trust, loyalty..........
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Nov 23, 2008 8:00 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
B_S1965
B_S1965B_S1965champlin, Minnesota USA9 Threads 308 Posts
pianolover: Hi,friends,how are you doing? Here is another question for you.What do you value the most in a relasitonship?

loyalty...
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Nov 23, 2008 8:14 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
HJFinAZ: Myself......... If I have no sense of value for myself, how can I place any value on anything else??


I know this is cliche, but it is actually false..

You can care about others, even when you don't care for yourself....

1)example: Alot of people who commit suicide, do it because they feel they aren't good enough for their parents/boy/girlfreind or whatever, or they don't want to burden someone else with their hard times or problem....

They teach people that you have to love yourself or you can't love anyone else, simply to try and raise that person's self-esteem...

think about it when do people say that to other people? When the other people are feeling down and/or depressed.....


This is why I don't care for docs. who manipulate other people minds

I choose to think for myself, and not just go by what others tell me...

cheers
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Nov 23, 2008 8:21 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Not directed at the OP.

Question? I wonder if any of these people are going to start, paying us CS forums typers... I think there are alot of people who either are writing books or doing surveys(for their benefit) wheather or not it be for school or for a column they write in the newspaper who whatever..

I see alot of threads where the OP will ask questions, but never respond afterwards.....


WE are just their statistics....

What do ya'll think..?cheers
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Nov 23, 2008 8:26 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
For me it´s acceptance... that someone loves and accepts me for who I am. That they delight in my quirks, and understand my moods...that they see me.
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Nov 23, 2008 8:34 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Tater: I know this is cliche, but it is actually false..

You can care about others, even when you don't care for yourself....

1)example: Alot of people who commit suicide, do it because they feel they aren't good enough for their parents/boy/girlfreind or whatever, or they don't want to burden someone else with their hard times or problem....

They teach people that you have to love yourself or you can't love anyone else, simply to try and raise that person's self-esteem...

think about it when do people say that to other people? When the other people are feeling down and/or depressed.....This is why I don't care for docs. who manipulate other people minds

I choose to think for myself, and not just go by what others tell me...


Are all capable of doing that???dunno Well, yes, they are capable, they simply do not do it..sigh
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Nov 23, 2008 8:36 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
HJFinAZ: Are all capable of doing that??? Well, yes, they are capable, they simply do not do it..



well, I can't really argue with that....cheers
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Nov 23, 2008 9:09 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
Easy...Respect. Respect covers so many aspects of a relationship as, honor,integritiy,trust, etc.
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Nov 23, 2008 9:12 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
samora77
samora77samora77Staten Island, New York USA39 Threads 543 Posts
Big_John: I believe it is trust. That no matter what the other person does you know it is always in your best interest. That the other person would never do anything that would hurt you. In the reverse you must alway provide your total support and love to only one person and she must know this is the case.


wine I agree with you Big_Johnblushing
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Nov 23, 2008 9:15 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
seanmc
seanmcseanmcblackburn, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 18 Posts
jbibiza: For me it´s acceptance... that someone loves and accepts me for who I am. That they delight in my quirks, and understand my moods...that they see me.


her cooking! an if thats good eh im easy accept owt she she wants!!bouquet
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Nov 23, 2008 9:19 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
That's right .......... I'm Bad head banger
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Nov 23, 2008 9:20 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
waiting4u
waiting4uwaiting4uGB's Heart, Oregon USA3 Threads 1,869 Posts
jvaski: That's right .......... I'm Bad


We already knew that laugh
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Nov 23, 2008 9:21 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
Apostophe
ApostopheApostopheBoksburg, Gauteng South Africa64 Threads 1,937 Posts
Yes,

The 5 letter word - TRUST - without it, you have only misery.
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Nov 23, 2008 9:21 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
waiting4u: We already knew that


MEN ARE such pigs ................ we know it roll eyes
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Nov 23, 2008 9:26 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
being appreciated
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Nov 23, 2008 9:27 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
waiting4u
waiting4uwaiting4uGB's Heart, Oregon USA3 Threads 1,869 Posts
jvaski: MEN ARE such pigs ................ we know it


You don't have to be a pig john. In fact I bet your much better than you present yourself. wine
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Nov 23, 2008 9:29 AM CST What do you value the most in a relationship?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
waiting4u: You don't have to be a pig john. In fact I bet your much better than you present yourself.


Wow, Kind words,........... not sure how to react to that ..........is this a "set-up" ? confused laugh
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