I believe it is trust. That no matter what the other person does you know it is always in your best interest. That the other person would never do anything that would hurt you. In the reverse you must alway provide your total support and love to only one person and she must know this is the case.
HJFinAZ: Myself......... If I have no sense of value for myself, how can I place any value on anything else??
I know this is cliche, but it is actually false..
You can care about others, even when you don't care for yourself....
1)example: Alot of people who commit suicide, do it because they feel they aren't good enough for their parents/boy/girlfreind or whatever, or they don't want to burden someone else with their hard times or problem....
They teach people that you have to love yourself or you can't love anyone else, simply to try and raise that person's self-esteem...
think about it when do people say that to other people? When the other people are feeling down and/or depressed.....
This is why I don't care for docs. who manipulate other people minds
I choose to think for myself, and not just go by what others tell me...
Question? I wonder if any of these people are going to start, paying us CS forums typers... I think there are alot of people who either are writing books or doing surveys(for their benefit) wheather or not it be for school or for a column they write in the newspaper who whatever..
I see alot of threads where the OP will ask questions, but never respond afterwards.....
Tater: I know this is cliche, but it is actually false..
You can care about others, even when you don't care for yourself....
1)example: Alot of people who commit suicide, do it because they feel they aren't good enough for their parents/boy/girlfreind or whatever, or they don't want to burden someone else with their hard times or problem....
They teach people that you have to love yourself or you can't love anyone else, simply to try and raise that person's self-esteem...
think about it when do people say that to other people? When the other people are feeling down and/or depressed.....This is why I don't care for docs. who manipulate other people minds
I choose to think for myself, and not just go by what others tell me...
Are all capable of doing that??? Well, yes, they are capable, they simply do not do it..
Big_John: I believe it is trust. That no matter what the other person does you know it is always in your best interest. That the other person would never do anything that would hurt you. In the reverse you must alway provide your total support and love to only one person and she must know this is the case.
jbibiza: For me it´s acceptance... that someone loves and accepts me for who I am. That they delight in my quirks, and understand my moods...that they see me.
her cooking! an if thats good eh im easy accept owt she she wants!!
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