ok so tell me, how many of u guys and gals have been successful in finding that special somone? and also how many of u are having some difficulty finding your match (as i am ) lol
lookin4lovez: ok so tell me, how many of u guys and gals have been successful in finding that special somone? and also how many of u are having some difficulty finding your match (as i am ) lol
patience is a virtue...just keep posting in the forums and getting to know these wonderful ladies, and before you know it...you'll find someone....and if you don't - right off the bat--you will start to make some terrific friends.
I have meet three wonderful ladies here, one has become like a sister and is fantastic, one was a truly lovely person sadly the spark never happened, and the third, well we just never stop chatting, have loads in common and soon we will meet and bring this online friendship into a real relationship.
So yes CS works, the secret is to be yourself and never lie, cause you will be found out
thanks but "wonderful ladies?" lol thats a little over the top dont u think. im sure alot of them are not so wonderful. lol but thanks alot for the advice :)
ltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK1,635 posts
I met and dated someone from CS. That didn't work out,but I have met and made some great friends. I know of three marriages resulting from meeting here.
I find the people on the forums to be as they are portrayed here. I have met a lof of the 'locals' by attending the CS events.
lookin4lovez: thanks but "wonderful ladies?" lol thats a little over the top dont u think. im sure alot of them are not so wonderful. lol but thanks alot for the advice :)
If your referring to my post, then no its not over the top it's fact, I have exchanged messages with many ladies since being on CS and very few fall into the "Not so wonderful" most appear to be genuine, but for whatever reason never went any further than a couple of exchanges.
If your negative before you even start to chat, how do you think that will come across to your prospective new friend, be positive, but keep an open mind.
oztrackPerth, Western Australia Australia147 posts
ddayu: I have had a big fat zero in finding someone through on-line dating boo hoo
Just a suggestion....expand your profile and try to project what is really special about you as a person, yours could be anyones' . Photo is great...text needs to follow it and I'm sure you'll get lots of responses. Good luck!!
lookin4lovez: ok so tell me, how many of u guys and gals have been successful in finding that special somone? and also how many of u are having some difficulty finding your match (as i am ) lol
I've been doing the online dating thing ever since my divorce....so that's been about 10 years. I've met several men during the course of that time....but haven't met THE man ......yet. At times I feel like quitting, but then the other half of me won't allow it (sometimes I really dislike being a gemini )
Anyways, keep looking, you're bound to find her sooner or later.
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